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10 Year Anniversary gift Custom Ruby &Diamond DBTY from BGD!

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DH and I bought 4 little rubies from a gem show about 8 years ago and basically held on to them til I figured out how to set them. For 8 years. I had planned originally to do a Jazz style ring, with alternating bezels. Since we all know how often I wear my rings, that seemed less and less like a really good idea, besides the fact that the diameter of these rubies indicated the band would end up around 4mm wide and that was a little wider than I was really after.

So I started thinking about other ideas. The more I saw DBTY necklaces on here, the more they appealed. I don't have anything like that (at least not with anything beyond a CZ, anyway), and I really thought that might be the best way to show off the rubies, which are almost blood red (they are NOT garnets, they really are rubies), and wear my rings and studs without "competition" for wear time.

Initially, DH thought this was a less than favorable idea. He knows I am a claustrophobic weirdo, and that I rarely wear necklaces because of it. Or anything, really. But I've been trying to wear SOMETHING more often, and I will more often in winter (in summer, forget it. Nakedness isn't even naked enough.) He also didn't find the design particularly appealing. He still thinks my studs are too small, and doesn't understand my desire for "subtle" and "discrete" studs. He thinks I should've gone larger. And I was really nervous that he'd have an issue with the necklace being somehow too discrete and feel the same way, thinking I should've used larger diamonds.

But when I opened the box and showed him, he liked it, and when I modeled it, he said it was perfect, and really pretty, doing justice to the rubies in a subtle "adult" way. Score!

The rubies and diamonds are about 3.2mm each, and the diamonds are the F/G VS signature melee. And they are spectacular.

So, here are quite a few photos, my apologies for the heavy hand with the watermarking, I don't trust people like Mr. Malka to not steal my photos and misrepresent them as his work.

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More:

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More-- It is 18", and I did email Lesley today to see if I could get a 1" extender made. Just so it's less "ON MY NECK" if that makes sense. I need to be less fat.

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My BGD Collection (who among us expected ME to have a BGD collection?!)





And Ill finish with some closeups of the amazing diamonds in their bezels. I had already worn it by then so it is a little grubby. :)

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Bezeled stones...

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And the last two!

Thanks for tolerating the onslaught!



I didn't really take any good shots to capture the rubies. I will keep trying.

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It really looks beautiful on you, especially w/ the rubies! :appl: I'm glad you finally took the plunge to get a DBTY necklace for yourself!
 
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m-2-b|1441498148|3924108 said:
It really looks beautiful on you, especially w/ the rubies! :appl: I'm glad you finally took the plunge to get a DBTY necklace for yourself!
Thank you! It was the perfect way to get my rubies set, I think.
 
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Gorgeous! And I love deep red rubes - so pretty. :love:
 
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Very nice! What a wonderful anniversary gift, and glad to hear your hubby acknowledged your wisdom and great taste once he saw it completed. ;)
 
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Very nice Ame!, and happy #10 ... :wavey:
 
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It's beautiful and I really like the flexibility of wearing it as a necklace or bracelet. Congratulations on your 10 year anniversary!!
 
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It turned out beautifully, Ame! :love: I love rubies and think you chose a perfect way to set them!
 
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Turned out beautifully - it looks great on you!
 
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UrsTx|1441499851|3924120 said:
Gorgeous! And I love deep red rubes - so pretty. :love:
Thank you!

vintageinjune|1441501267|3924122 said:
Very nice! What a wonderful anniversary gift, and glad to hear your hubby acknowledged your wisdom and great taste once he saw it completed. ;)
It doesn't always go that way ;) Thank you!

Dancing Fire|1441502642|3924127 said:
Very nice Ame!, and happy #10 ... :wavey:
Thank you!!

kmarla|1441503337|3924133 said:
It's beautiful and I really like the flexibility of wearing it as a necklace or bracelet. Congratulations on your 10 year anniversary!!
Thank you!

I would need about a 2" extender to connect it as a bracelet actually but my brain might not "allow" the bracelet anyway. Im already freaking out about the stones "touching." lol

diamondseeker2006|1441506745|3924147 said:
It turned out beautifully, Ame! :love: I love rubies and think you chose a perfect way to set them!
Thank you! Now I just have to wear it. lol

MissGotRocks|1441509493|3924159 said:
Turned out beautifully - it looks great on you!
Thank you!
 
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I learned tonight that I have to be very careful and thoughtful how I throw my purse on over my head (crossbody) because it lands near my neck, which happens to be where this necklace falls. My bag is not lightweight, and this is not a heavy duty chain. So Ill have to think about that when I put my purse on so I don't snap the chain!
 
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It's a lovely necklace :appl: You put the rubies to good use. Hope you wear it often.
 
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Thank you!
 
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That is a beautiful necklace. :love: :love: :love: Great choice! Congrats!! It turned out wonderfully. It looks so well on you.
 
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What a stunning result. Great idea to use your rubies and combine them with diamonds. It looks great on you and hope it will become an everyday staple for you.
 
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Ame it's beautiful :love: It looks absolutely perfect on you, the size of stones, the bezels, the style. It's just very "You" and I hope you can get used to how it feels so that you become less conscious that it's there. It's wonderful! Happy 10th Anniversary!
 
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I love it on you ame! Beautiful! It looks so lovely on your neck honestly it does. Perfect and I hope you become more comfortable with wearing it. :love: A DBTY necklace is so versatile. A great piece in your jewelry wardrobe.
Happy 10th anniversary. :appl:
 
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Beautiful and it looks lovely on you too! Happy 10th anniversary!
 
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Ten years is big deal! Congratulations and wear it in good health!
 
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Awesome!! Happy 10th Anniversary! Wishing you many many more!
 
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It's beautiful and it looks so pretty on you! I love such versatile pieces. You can wear it with casual attire and you can dress it up too. A classic beauty!!
 
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So pretty...I wonder if you could get like a 3 inch extender that includes a couple of different locations? I can see it being very
versatile in different lenghts!
 
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LOVE IT! Just beautiful! I would love that necklace and yes, I saw someone had an extender that had several rings so that you can adjust the length, I would totally do that! Enjoy your beautiful new sparkly!
 
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LLJsmom|1441517279|3924193 said:
That is a beautiful necklace. :love: :love: :love: Great choice! Congrats!! It turned out wonderfully. It looks so well on you.
Thank you!

Acinom|1441520512|3924196 said:
What a stunning result. Great idea to use your rubies and combine them with diamonds. It looks great on you and hope it will become an everyday staple for you.
Thank you! Time will tell. I wore it yesterday all day and I would feel it and get a little "scratchy." I think I will adjust though.

Alex T|1441532978|3924213 said:
Ame it's beautiful :love: It looks absolutely perfect on you, the size of stones, the bezels, the style. It's just very "You" and I hope you can get used to how it feels so that you become less conscious that it's there. It's wonderful! Happy 10th Anniversary!
Thank you so much! Yea I need to get less conscious. It looks amazing, and I need to obviously relax more about it.

missy|1441540019|3924231 said:
I love it on you ame! Beautiful! It looks so lovely on your neck honestly it does. Perfect and I hope you become more comfortable with wearing it. :love: A DBTY necklace is so versatile. A great piece in your jewelry wardrobe.
Happy 10th anniversary. :appl:
Thank you! Thank you! I hope in time that I adjust.

kathley|1441540082|3924232 said:
Beautiful and it looks lovely on you too! Happy 10th anniversary!
Thank you!

cokitty|1441542502|3924239 said:
Ten years is big deal! Congratulations and wear it in good health!
Thank you!
 
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bbziggy|1441550267|3924272 said:
Awesome!! Happy 10th Anniversary! Wishing you many many more!
Thank you very much!

JDDN|1441554331|3924291 said:
It's beautiful and it looks so pretty on you! I love such versatile pieces. You can wear it with casual attire and you can dress it up too. A classic beauty!!
I mostly am casual lol The biggest hurdle in my head is that "rubies go with anything" bec I don't wear a lot of red.

Thank you!

tyty333|1441554845|3924294 said:
So pretty...I wonder if you could get like a 3 inch extender that includes a couple of different locations? I can see it being very
versatile in different lenghts!
Thanks! I did ask for a 1" and I am going to see what she says. Maybe I should do a 2" or 3" with links. I thought the 1" would just give me some breathing room for the claustrophobia.

baroque|1441557498|3924304 said:
LOVE IT! Just beautiful! I would love that necklace and yes, I saw someone had an extender that had several rings so that you can adjust the length, I would totally do that! Enjoy your beautiful new sparkly!
Thank you!!! I think that might be a really good idea. I was just trying to ease my weirdness, but maybe that would be useful. I can't see myself wearing it on my wrist because of "stones possibly rubbing."

I am also freaking out like...what if it "bangs" on something taking it off. Yknow what I mean? I am such a freak.

Clearly this is a new world for my brain.

Thanks everyone!
 
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