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hazeleyes29

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This has been the worst week of my life. It was my week off work for summer vacation. Was hoping that it was going to be a relaxing time. Ended up being the worst week of my life.

I had been with this guy for 2 yrs. He treated me well except for the fact that I never met his family. Never invited to gatherings. Was constantly left out of things. Guess its a bad way to build a relationship. As you can imagine things went sour. There was constant bickering about why, he never invited me over to these things. It was as if he was living this double life. Either way, if he treated me like he did his family he wasn''t right for me. Life goes on.... its too short to dwel on something that never was going anywhere...

There is a silverlining; I got a promotion at work. Starting on monday, as my mom says, "I''m going to start a new life!". If she only knew that it was true....

Just had to rant because its hard to remain positive when things go downhill.....
 
Hazeleyes, I am so sorry to hear this! I hope you are taking care of yourself, and congratulations on your promotion!
 
Date: 8/15/2009 11:52:29 PM
Author:hazeleyes29
Life goes on.... its too short to dwel on something that never was going anywhere...
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Hazel, FIRST OF ALL, CONGRATS on your promotion!

And that was very well put. You deserve a man that will LOVE to show you off to his friends and family.

Enjoy your brand new start for all it''s worth!
 
Congrats on your promotion!! Go out and celebrate!!
 
Date: 8/16/2009 12:58:24 AM
Author: jaylex
Hazel, FIRST OF ALL, CONGRATS on your promotion!


And that was very well put. You deserve a man that will LOVE to show you off to his friends and family.


Enjoy your brand new start for all it''s worth!
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Ditto!

*HUGS* i know it sounds so cliche, but things will only get better for you. we''re here for you in the mean time!
 
Congratulations on your promotion and starting a new life!! He isn''t worth being part of it!
 
Congrats on the promotion!
I''m sorry to hear about your breakup.
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It sounds like you made the right decision, and although it''s tough, you should be proud of yourself for not settling for less than you deserve.
Take care of yourself.
 
Ugh, that sucks about the break-up, but good for you for sticking up for yourself. You deserve a man who is excited to introduce you to his family! Not trying to hide you away in a corner somewhere.
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And congrats on your promotion!
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Who knows, maybe your mom is right on, and this promotion and break-up will be the beginning of a fresh, new stage of your life that''s open to lots of possibilities.
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Consider yourself to have had a lucky escape. You do NOT want to be with a man who is reluctant to introduce you to his family and to acknowledge you publicly as being part of his life. It will never end well. Good for you for realising that and moving on.
 
Sorry to hear about your relationship being over. You definitely deserve someone who treats you better. Congrats on your promotion.
 
He definitely isn''t deserving of YOU!
Go out find someone who is.

and congrats on your promotion!
 
I''m so sorry Hazel, but congratulations on the promo. Life has a way of opening a new and more exciting door for every one that closes.
 
Thanks for the support. You guys are right, I deserve someone who will treat me with more respect and be proud of who I am... I mean to break up with someone via text message is lame. He was selffish and I deserve someone way better than that... MY new life will offer many new beginings. The new job will be a challenge and I have to give it my all.... A world of new beginings will open....
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Sorry the week has been so tough for you, but you have such a great, positive attitude about the future! You deserve to be happy
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I''m sorry to hear this but it sounds like it was for the best. I''ve been in a relationship like that before and it''s no fun. Family is important and him hiding you is not acceptable.

Congrats on the promotion, it will be a great start to moving on.
 
Date: 8/16/2009 10:27:11 AM
Author: hazeleyes29
I mean to break up with someone via text message is lame.
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After two years, it''s not only lame, it''s completely inappropriate, cowardly and hurtful. Good riddance.

You sound like you have your act together. You deserve someone much, much better. Go out on Monday and work that promotion! Congrats!
 
TEXT MESSAGE? wow... what a loser
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You have a great attitude though, and at least you have something positive in your life to look at right now! (when me and my BF broke up, EVERYTHING else went for a turn for the worst, and I almost didn''t graduate because I was barely passing one of my classes. not fun!). Congrats on your promotion!

Take this time to celebrate YOU... go out, party, and celebrate your awesome self, girllll
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Sorry to hear about the jerk, but yay for you for the promotion!
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You guys are great, thanks once again for the support... There are many positive things going on, with the new job. I''m on my way to buying my first house or condo... Its going to be a great change, seeing that its all mine... I know I''m going to find someone who will appreciate me for who I am. Although I''ve given myself guidelines, if I don''t meet the family or friends. I''m outa there because I don''t want to waste my time playing games. Although I''ve got myself to focus on and live my dreams. They''re attainable all I NEED to do is put my mind to it.. Now if he would stop texting me... Can''t he see that I want to move on and not waste my time...

He was a JERK who is addicted to VIDEO games and will not grow up.... I''m better off being alone than being with someone who doesn''t care.

funnyface786: I''m glad to hear that you did graduate on time.. It must''ve been a difficult time for you though you pulled through.
 
Date: 8/16/2009 1:48:27 AM
Author: chiquitapet
Congratulations on your promotion and starting a new life!! He isn''t worth being part of it!
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Ditto! Congrats and *************DUST DUST DUST**************** on a new beginning!!!!
 
awww I''m so sorry about this. You''ll find someone else that deserves you and really are excited to introduce you to the family. Good luck sweetie and *Hugs*
 
Its been a week that things have been over. The hardest week of my life, the job training has been great. So far the change of pace at work is great. I`m enjoying it so far...
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Although I feel like sometimes, I can`t be this strong person and feel like to cry. I haven''t really let it out of my system yet. Guess its going to take time and should allow myself to cry. Thanks for the support and the listening.
 
Date: 8/21/2009 7:43:09 AM
Author: hazeleyes29
Its been a week that things have been over. The hardest week of my life, the job training has been great. So far the change of pace at work is great. I`m enjoying it so far...
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Although I feel like sometimes, I can`t be this strong person and feel like to cry. I haven''t really let it out of my system yet. Guess its going to take time and should allow myself to cry. Thanks for the support and the listening.
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Honey, you have been amazingly strong, but being strong doesn''t mean being immune to your feelings of loss, disappointment, maybe anger towards your ex for not being the kind of partner you hoped he would be. Crying doesn''t mean you want him back or you''re sad to leave him; it just means you''re letting out a whole mess of emotions that were tied up in your relationship. Let yourself grieve for it, and you will be better able to move past it (although it sounds like you''re doing a remarkable job already!).

Just remember that you ARE a strong person. You are sticking to your guns because you know you deserve to be treated better. You are starting a new job. You are saving up to buy a place to live. All on your own. YOU, my dear, kick ass.
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Your feelings are natural. I agree with your mom, embrace this promotion as a new start in life!

I have a couple of embarrassing stories about "meeting the parents"... let me tell you, sometimes they are protecting YOU from the family and not vice versa, as it isnt YOU they are ashamed of... and well another time... I was naked. So... I guess you can be happy that didn''t happen to you.

And if that didn''t make you crack a smile... then I want to give you a hug... and reiterate... NAKED. Yeah, that relationship obviously didn''t last.
 
Just wanted to stop in and say hi, and see how you are doing. (((BIG HUG!)))
 
Congrats on the promotion!

I''m sorry you''re going through a break up. It won''t be easy, but it is a great time to start anew. Best of luck! ::hugs::
 
You have a good attitude, but don''t think that its abnormal to try to stay positive, but still grieve over your ex. He was a significant part of your life and thats going to hurt you for quite some time, even if you KNOW that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Its confusing but definitely take ALL the time you need to feel sad, even if you think you shouldn''t! It helps in the long run!


*********HEALING DUST!!!!!!!!!!!***************
 
Aww I''m so sorry to hear about the break up sweetie. But onward and upward! Congrats on the promotion.
 
I am so sorry to hear this, but really impressed about how positive you sound. My boyfriend just broke up with me for (I think) cowardly reasons, and I am feeling awful, and trying hard to be as positive as you. I think it''s very natural to still be upset, even though you know it''s for the best in the end. Knowing is not the same as feeling.
Congratulations on your promotion!
 
How is the job going?
 
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