Another Case of LIWits

[Jessie702]

Okay Ladies, i just had a chase of LIWits when i found out my cousin was getting married, well i just found her her sister JUST got engaged and is planning a wedding for next month. I am happy for my cousin,again, but a month is quick, and i hate to bitch, but she is 4 years younger than i. I know every relationship is different, but i feel like i dont know, screaming. Ladies, please help, im trying to be calm

 

[amc80]

well i just found her her sister JUST got engaged and is planning a wedding for next month.

Hmm, sounds like a shotgun wedding...

 

[ksmyheart]

Just relax eventually your going to get there , We have all been there were we wonder why its not you this is happening to then we self doubt.

A fellow coworker of mine got engaged and married after 3 months of dating , couldnt help but feel like how did he know she was so right ... whats wrong with me ?

Take a deep breath in and let out

 

[PrincessNatalie]

1 month... ... ... 1 MONTH!!

Screw that! She is going to be one stressed little bridie!

Its going to be worth the wait. You've heard it all before but enjoy being BF GF you'll miss it when its gone

 

[mochamamasita]

One month? I've never heard of anyone planning a wedding that quickly. That does sound suspicious.... hmmm....

 

[FuturePsyD]

Wow a month for a wedding? I don't want to assume and sorry if this comes off as rude, but is it possible that she maybe with child?

Either way, I know you are happy for your cousins, but I know how it feels when you are wondering when your time will come!!

All you can do is concentrate on your relationship and know in your heart that when the time is perfect for you, it will be your turn!
Enjoy bf/gf part of your journey as a couple because soon it will be over.

 

[gemma.in.waiting]

1 MONTH?! How long has that couple been together? I agree, she is going to be very stressed and is probably not going to enjoy herself. Take solace in the fact that when it's your turn, you'll have longer than a month to get everything in line, therefore, you'll be able to relax and remember your day as having everything the way you want it (that's what I hope for you).