I find myself crying at the drop of a hat, not necessarily sad tears, just lots of tears. I heard a sappy song on the radio just now and the floodgates opened...anyone else experiencing this? Or am I the only nutcase who can''t stop crying?
haha, I definately do--everytime I hear a sappy song I get all teary eyed thinking about the wedding, but everytime I see that scene where Denny dies on Grey''s I also start bawling...I''m just a crying machine lately hahaha
Girls, it doesn''t stop after the wedding either! I still get misty eyed looking at everyone''s photos here and when I hear our first dance song, I sometimes have to skip over it because I start to get all teary!
It was such a beautiful crisp ocean town day. I was happy, everything was going perfectly. Even up to seeing him and everything I was just all smiles- dun dun dun...then the vows came and then the tears. And not baby tears. Big fat allligator tears.
If you look at our pictures DH is wiping a tear away and then in the next picture you can barely see a big fat tear making its way down my cheek. In all the remaining pictures I have Rudolph Red Nose.
Oooh.. I cried so much in the months leading up to my wedding.. Happy tears, sad tears, mad tears.. EVERYTHING!! Shockingly.. I only shed a few tears on my actual wedding day. One or two walking down the aisle..then I got teary watching OTHER people cry at the wedding after we were announced.. and a tiny bit during our first dance and my dance with my dad.. But I thought I''d be a sobbing wreck from begininng to end!
Okay, lucky for me, I''m not getting teary yet (but it''s about 16 months until the wedding), but lately (don''t make fun of me) I''ve been getting the "giddy shakes" I just get this dips**t grin on my face pull my hands into fists bring them inside like I''m going to do the chicken dance, and then shake. I don''t know why I do this, but I get sooo excited that I can''t stop, and I''m almost too old for jumping about like a freak. I forget-when doing the giddy shakes, shuffle your feet doing the snoopy dance from Peanuts.
I totally had the same experience!! Everything sweet and sappy on T.V. made me cry. I was afraid that I would be a mess at my wedding, but I didn''t shed a tear during the ceremony! I ALMOST did while saying my vows, but I stopped and took a deep breath and I was fine. The only time I cried the whole day was when my mom broke down while fixing my veil before the ceremony started. She''s like my best friend so of course I started to break down with her, but my wonderful bridesmaids and matron of honor jumped in and did everything they could to help me stop. Before the wedding day, I thought I was SO much more emotional than normal though. You''re not alone!
Date: 7/25/2006 12:24:38 AM Author: Scintillating
Aphis! You need to start your own wedding thread - we''re all dying to see your pics!
Congratulations!
And yes, the floodgates have been opening a bit lately. I finished my invites the other day and got teary-eyed. I listed to some pieces on my harpist''s website and got weepy. OY! I''ve got 2 months to go.
omg I know exactly what you mean I shed tears just thinking about the day and when I see t.v. shows of people getting married. and oh how my eyes just well up; when I think about how "our" day will be!, although I have a few issues too, Were just now starting the wirlwind of planning and everything I want our wedding to be my FI doesnt! Its a mess, were on a budget and I have friends and family that are willing to let us use there services (reception site,catering,photography,flowers,etc) FOR FREE! I mean if were on a budget I think this is the way to go! BUT.... becuase its in my hometown where this is available and not in san diego where we currently live he says NO! I just dont get it????? Also my FI and my mom currently dont get along but thats a whole nother novel! So needless to say IM A WRECK and that box of tissues and visine go with me everywhere! I know it will get better but c'mon! DAM THE RIVER... booooo hoooooo hooooo
GarysBride: Hang in there, you''ll work it out. I found that I am compromising more now than ever w/ dear FI, and it can be hard sometimes, but if you work together you''ll find the perfect everything...and no matter what, at the end of the day, whether it happens in SD or your hometown, you''ll be married to the man you love and that''s what matters most. Keep your chin up.
If I''m out buying birthday cards, I always look at the wedding cards and think "I wonder if we''ll get this one at our wedding?" about each one ... and get all emotonal about it!!
Then again, I did the same with engagement cards, so I guess I''m just a sappy gal.
Good luck with the ring, SDL, it''s hard when things don''t come out as you hope.
It''s funny, FI just figured out last night that I''m really teary, and it''s only cuz I told him. He has a lot going on outside of gettting married but he''s usually so in tune to me.
I''m going to count how many times I tear up today...hahaha
If you''re getting teary over everything, the thread started on here titled "I Loved Her First" is NOT the place for you, as I found out. I am a mush-bucket anyway about all this wedding planning and when I looked at that thread about a new daddy/daughter dance song by Heartland, all I did was read the lyrics and I BAWLED. Like, go wash you face bawled. Sheesh.
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