Bachelorette Party

[Class n Sass]

I am wondering how the handling of the bachelorette party goes. My MOH has been great and has been planning my BP. I know mostly everything about it because she wanted to make sure she didn''t pick an event that I wouldn''t like. We are taking a pole dancing/lap dance class, having dinner and probably going somewhere to dance and enjoy spirits

The class is $650 for 10 people which makes is $65 per person. I am not sure how much dinner is per person. She is putting money to both events so that the price per person on both is less. Now I have two other bridesmaids who have not mentioned anything about putting in on it. It''s not like either of them are financially challenged. Neither of them have ever been bridesmaids so I dont'' know if they just don''t know what to do. I feel bad that my MOH is paying for things and they are not offering any assistance and have more money than she does. It''s not like they are paying for my bridal shower because my mom is handling it. I don''t want to say anything to them about it because I don''t think it''s appropriate.

Do you think my MOH should politely bring it up to them? Traditionally how is the bachelorette party handled in terms of expenses? Is each person atteding expected to cover their own costs for the night? Or is the MOH expected to cover the party in full so that all attendees don''t pay anything?

 

[sunnyd]

I know I would never expect that someone would pay for me to go out, but maybe they just don''t know. Maybe your MOH could just casually ask them, something like: "So the total for each person will be $X, I''d like to collect it by this date." That way it''s not like she''s demanding that they cough it up. Hopefully someone has a better call on that one...

 

[bee*]

I agree with sunnyd-she should just say that it''s costing this much so each person will need to have $X by a certain date.

 

[gtn]

It is unreasonable for your BM to not pay their own way. It is customary that the bridal party and/or other BP participants to treat the bride to a fun night out.


Your MOH should not have to foot the entire bill.