Hudson_Hawk
Super_Ideal_Rock
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So this afternoon I made a HUGE mistake. I read the newspaper. So of course I read the many articles about how bad the US economy is doing and how tough this recession is going to be. I started to think, is now really the best time to be spending $15k+ on one day? I don''t think this is an easy question to answer even when the market is good, but I feel like we really need to stop and reassess our priorities before we put down any more deposits. I''m a realist so I know that even with good paying jobs and a reasonable mortgage, we very well may find ourselves in need of that extra $ next year for non-wedding related costs. Who knows where our finances will be by the time the catering bill comes in. I''m just afraid that we''re planning something for what we can afford NOW, which might be something we can''t afford in May 2009.
So I was thinking about eloping. I know FI would do it in a heartbeat and really the only person who might have a problem with it is my mother. But she and my dad eloped so maybe she''ll be ok with it? I feel like cutting the guest list isn''t an option because it''s really as low as it can go-other than immediate family (who would not be much fun).
Am I crazy for stressing about this? I just feel like we have time to turn things around and do something smart and responsible...
So I was thinking about eloping. I know FI would do it in a heartbeat and really the only person who might have a problem with it is my mother. But she and my dad eloped so maybe she''ll be ok with it? I feel like cutting the guest list isn''t an option because it''s really as low as it can go-other than immediate family (who would not be much fun).
Am I crazy for stressing about this? I just feel like we have time to turn things around and do something smart and responsible...