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Rough_Rock
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- Aug 19, 2007
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Hey all,
Didn''t know where this topic should go, but I guess it has more to do with SHOPPING than DIAMONDS, so I''ll put it here. Mods, please feel free to relocate if necessary.
Over the last year, I went to countless diamond/ring stores to find that perfect shiny band for my fiancee. I wasn''t really "poor" at the time, but any extra money could be helpful. At some of the stores, they asked if I wanted to see if I could qualify for their special diamond loan. Sounded like a good idea at the time, and I (seemingly naive and curious at the time) of course obliged. They proceeded to run to the back to "check" and soon I was handed a number that represented the dollar amount I qualified for. I casually thanked them, wrote down the number, and went on my merry way.
It wasn''t until a few weeks later that I started getting a few credit cards in the mail. Not credit card offers with fake flimsy John Doe cards, but real cards that had my name on them. Real cards from THOSE diamond stores. I frantically called all the stores that I got cards from, and they seemed to all give me the same story, "oh, we thought you wanted to go ahead with our low interest credit card (or loan) when we inquired for you about the amount you could get". To me, inquiring != opening a credit card or loan. I guess I was wrong.
In over my head and scared now (again, my naive self at its finest), I quickly called all the card companies/banks to cancel them. I had always heard that having more cards than you can use can be a hindrance to your credit score (which is probably a double edged sword). And with me still being in my early 20s, I was just starting to relish the idea of buying a house in a few years (so a good credit rating is starting to enter my mind). Thinking everything was fine, now that my cards were cancelled, I went on living my life peacefully (though I did go the the gym on occasion to beat the living **** out of the punching bag, just to ease my frustration about what happened).
Then, when I recently moved to a new apartment, I was given a copy of my credit report after my rental application was complete. I''ve never seen one before, so I glanced through it and saw these "cards" and "loans" that technically I only had for a day or so. To tell you the truth, I didn''t even "activate" those cards, and pondered how they could appear on my credit report. Not good, I thought.
So now I ask the vastly more wise community of pricescope, did I just screw myself by inquiring for these so called "loans", even though I closed/cancelled them before even having a balance? And if so, how can I protect myself in the future? (truthfully, I don''t know if these hurt my score, as I never saw my score prior, so I have no basis)
Thanks for any help/guidance,
Philip
p.s. This story does have a happy ending, as I finally ditched the fancy stores (who seemed to just have a lack of knowledge about what they were trying to sell to me) and came to pricescope to learn the real truth about diamonds. I then found out about GoodOldGold and had wonderfully informative conversations with John at GOG. The rest, as they say, is history.
Didn''t know where this topic should go, but I guess it has more to do with SHOPPING than DIAMONDS, so I''ll put it here. Mods, please feel free to relocate if necessary.
Over the last year, I went to countless diamond/ring stores to find that perfect shiny band for my fiancee. I wasn''t really "poor" at the time, but any extra money could be helpful. At some of the stores, they asked if I wanted to see if I could qualify for their special diamond loan. Sounded like a good idea at the time, and I (seemingly naive and curious at the time) of course obliged. They proceeded to run to the back to "check" and soon I was handed a number that represented the dollar amount I qualified for. I casually thanked them, wrote down the number, and went on my merry way.
It wasn''t until a few weeks later that I started getting a few credit cards in the mail. Not credit card offers with fake flimsy John Doe cards, but real cards that had my name on them. Real cards from THOSE diamond stores. I frantically called all the stores that I got cards from, and they seemed to all give me the same story, "oh, we thought you wanted to go ahead with our low interest credit card (or loan) when we inquired for you about the amount you could get". To me, inquiring != opening a credit card or loan. I guess I was wrong.
In over my head and scared now (again, my naive self at its finest), I quickly called all the card companies/banks to cancel them. I had always heard that having more cards than you can use can be a hindrance to your credit score (which is probably a double edged sword). And with me still being in my early 20s, I was just starting to relish the idea of buying a house in a few years (so a good credit rating is starting to enter my mind). Thinking everything was fine, now that my cards were cancelled, I went on living my life peacefully (though I did go the the gym on occasion to beat the living **** out of the punching bag, just to ease my frustration about what happened).
Then, when I recently moved to a new apartment, I was given a copy of my credit report after my rental application was complete. I''ve never seen one before, so I glanced through it and saw these "cards" and "loans" that technically I only had for a day or so. To tell you the truth, I didn''t even "activate" those cards, and pondered how they could appear on my credit report. Not good, I thought.
So now I ask the vastly more wise community of pricescope, did I just screw myself by inquiring for these so called "loans", even though I closed/cancelled them before even having a balance? And if so, how can I protect myself in the future? (truthfully, I don''t know if these hurt my score, as I never saw my score prior, so I have no basis)
Thanks for any help/guidance,
Philip
p.s. This story does have a happy ending, as I finally ditched the fancy stores (who seemed to just have a lack of knowledge about what they were trying to sell to me) and came to pricescope to learn the real truth about diamonds. I then found out about GoodOldGold and had wonderfully informative conversations with John at GOG. The rest, as they say, is history.