crying?

[leoslove730]

I was thinking about it, and I have a feeling that I am going to burst into tears of joy when FF finally does pop the question. I am so sentimental and I know it''s gonna be like wow! LOL

Has anyone on here cried when their FI popped the question? And any of you fellow LIW, do you think you''re gonna burst out into tears too?

Just curious!

 

[DMBsGirl]

Oh i''m sure i''ll cry! i get teary when I watch shows like "I Propose" and see OTHER people get engaged!! I will probably jump up and down and do my little happy dance as well!

 

[sleeping beauty]

Well obviosly i havent cried.................. yet!!!!!!! but im expecting that i will be bawling when he finally ask. i cry when i read others proposal stories and weddings.... im just a real cry baby.

 

[BELLA9280]

thats sooo funny i always think about it and get teary eyed!!!!

im more worried about the actuall wedding cer i cry thinking about it (Happy tears) and i think omg i cannot let tears ruin the makeup on the big day!!

glad im not the only one!!

 

[robbie3982]

I was sure I''d cry at the proposal and at the wedding, but ended up not crying at either! It''s funny because I cry at this stuff for other people all the time! For friends, tv, you name it! But not mine!

For the proposal I was so confused and just couldn''t comprehend that he was actually proposing and then I was just kind of in thsi dreamlike hazy state.

It was very similar for the wedding.

I was really happy for both, but neither really felt real. Even looking back on them they seem more like dreams than memories.

 

[ladyciel]

I started to tear up, and probably would have started weeping, except my FI then burst out with something I completely wasn't expecting that cracked me up. The exchange went something like:

FI: "**beautiful, sappy things that got me teared me up**...I love you so much...and I'm sorry about the construction..."
Me: (really confused - jolted out of dream-like state and eventually notice construction noise off in the distance, begin cracking up/blinking back the tears) "Babe, I didn't even notice, and you really need to hurry up because this mascara isn't waterproof!"
FI: gets down on one knee, pulls box out, and says the magic words. I say yes, we hug and kiss, and he says "oh no!!!! I forgot to open the box!!!!!"

It was pretty darn funny, and so us. Back to the question - I almost cried, and it felt great to be that overwhelmed with happiness. If you DO cry, just savor the moment and don't worry about it!

 

[bee*]

I always get teary eyed when I see other people getting engaged/married but Im not sure if I will when it''s my turn.I get weepy thinking about it happening but I wonder will I when it does happen.

 

[Independent Gal]

Well, I knew it was coming, and then I pretty much knew it was coming THAT DAY. I''d seen the ring, even worn it around, and part of me thought the whole thing was going to be anti-climactic.

But NOPE! I cried like a baby for an HOUR! He just kept giving me more loving snuggles and more champagne and we kept getting tipsier and tipsier and I kept weeping and weeping and telling him how unbelievably happy I was. Finally he was all ''Hon? You better wash your face! We''re going to lose our dinner reservation! Good thing I booked for late!'' We hardly ever really drink, but whoa, did we get a little drunk that night!

I don''t know if I''m going to cry on my wedding day, but I guess probably. My dad, now HE is going to be a weeping machine. He''ll have to drink extra fluids or he''ll get dehydrated. When I got my doctorate, he cried through the whole graduation ceremony, and then later at the party. I was all ''DAD! Get ahold of yourself! It''s not the Nobel Prize or something.'' AWww, sweet. He is a very sentimental guy.

 

[littlelysser]

I totally didn''t cry when DH proposed and I didn''t cry at the wedding!

I was willing to bet I would have cried at both...cause, well, I''m a crier...but for some reason, I was totally dry-eyed!

 

[lsyama]

I don''t think I''ll cry, but I really have no idea how I''ll react.

 

[Keepingthefaith21]

Funny, I just talked about this with one of my friends the other night when we were watching I Propose together. I''d like to think that I would be so suprised or that his words would be so moving it would bring me to tears BUT I think I''ll end up feeling rather embarassed. I know. I know. I''m weird. Other occasions when my SO has presented me with jewlery (that involved some sort of speech) I''ve just ended up standing there beet red.

My friend thinks that I''ll probably get a little sarcastic with him and if it''s a set-up I see coming from far away that I''ll probably turn to him and say, "You better not be messing with me." I guess my reaction depends on the place it''s done, who else is around us and what he says.

 

[Hudson_Hawk]

I did I did! And I even knew it was coming! Actually I think I cried a few times. The time when I knew he had the ring, then when he showed me his original plan, then when he showed me the ring, and finally when he asked!

 

[sap483]

I also cry during the most ridiculous situations (i.e. at the movies). However I didn''t cry when FI proposed, I laughed and he was very confused and felt like I was laughing at his proposal. In reality it was a combination of the nerves and the fact that my dr. had prescribed anti-depressents for me to use as a sleeping aid since I had been travelling internationally for work and had been having trouble sleeping at home. (This works just as well and there''s less of a chance of addiction- however do not take it around the possible time of your engagement as you''ll likely make your FI question whether his proposal sucked)

 

[redfaerythinker]

keepingthefaith21, you are definately not alone. I''m the same way... I know that i''m gonna turn bright red, even if it''s just in private. I''m also the kind of person that can''t stand it when people sing happy birthday to them. lol So he''ll get down on one knee, i''ll turn red and hide my face, and then probably get all fustered and fall down or something. Oh yeah... this should be interesting.

 

[diamond12]

I too don''t know how I''ll react. I"m the biggest baby cry as well. Whenever I watch "I Propose" i burst into tears. Its good to hear that I''m not the only one. I''ve come to the conclusion that I cry whenever I see that because I want it to happen to me. Two years ago on Christmas, he gave me some diamond earrings from Tiffany''s, and I sobbed. He did , too. So I can ony hope that I have the same reaction. Him too. I worry that I might not, because I will be too happy to cry.

 

[anchor31]

I thought I''d cry like a baby, but I pretty much just teared up. I''m keeping my fingers crossed for the wedding!

 

[Shay37]

Did not cry at the proposal. (so you want to get married, or what?) That is no joke. He was driving and couldn''t even look at me.

Cried when I tried to repeat our vows at the wedding. I got all choked up at the importance of those words.

shay

 

[whenharrymetsally]

I''m usually one of those blubbering fools when it comes to anything mushy or touching (Extreme Home Makeover really does it to me) and i''ve been known to cry at christmas time constantly from the ''long distance'' call home commercials. I thought i would cry like a baby but when he proposed, i was in so much shock i forgot how to cry! All I could do was stand there with a dumbfounded look on my face..and after that all i could do was grin! i could barely get out the "yes i''ll marry you part" I do think i will cry at the wedding tho...provided FI doesn''t make me laugh!

 

[ImpatientOne]

I was a blubbering fool!!! My now-husband went through our entire life together story during his proposal, and I cried the entire time beginning when I realized, "OMG, this is IT"

 

[zoebartlett]

I didn''t cry at first, but I teared up a little while after my FI proposed. It wasn''t until we were in the car on the way back home from where we had gotten engaged that I realized what my FI has said. Almost 4 years ago, my FI and I had began seeing each other somewhat casually. One day, Dec. 6th to be exact (2 months after we had met), he said, "Zoe [not my real name], if you''ll have me, I''d love to be your boyfriend." This meant that it was official and it meant a lot that he had said it that way. When he proposed last May (also the 6th), he said, "Zoe if you''ll have me, I''d love to be your husband." It didn''t register at first, but on the way home, I realized that he said the same words as when he wanted to make our relationship official. That''s when I started tearing up.