ksprincess
Shiny_Rock
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- Sep 25, 2006
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Sigh,
What do I do? I asked my FMIL to send me a list of 50 guests, not including family, to invite to our wedding. Yesterday I got her list in the mail and it included 115!! Plus 36 family members, which I did not know about because FI could only think of 15 when I tried to get him to write out his list.... But seriously, 115?
and that is a conservative guess because she wrote a whole lot of "and family" and I don''t know how many kids these people may have. Not to mention I don''t want any non-related kids under the age of 12. I think she took 50 people to mean 50 addresses even though she still gave me 64 addresses all together! What do I do? She sent a note on the back saying 75% of these people wont come which if that works out her number is under 50. But what if more people come!? Our guest list is at like 350 people now with only half of her list entered (I stopped putting it in when I realized how ridiculous it was getting), without my Dad''s guests, and is spiraling out of control.
If I add all her guests we will reach 400....
Plus, she plans on holding a seperate reception in Michigan for us.
What do I do? I asked my FMIL to send me a list of 50 guests, not including family, to invite to our wedding. Yesterday I got her list in the mail and it included 115!! Plus 36 family members, which I did not know about because FI could only think of 15 when I tried to get him to write out his list.... But seriously, 115?
Plus, she plans on holding a seperate reception in Michigan for us.