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Engagement Ring: The proposal and presentation of Zilan (the Sapphire) in her spiffy new gown.

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Dear all, a follow up on this thread when I showed the results of my months-long sapphire hunt and received so many helpful and wonderful comments! https://www.pricescope.com/communit...e-also-vendor-review-and-appreciation.270242/

I know that I get left hanging when I read threads that do not show the completed piece after all the hassle of finding a gemstone.

So after I had officially received the ring, I knew I had to update in Pricescope, since it's a place that I had benefitted much from during my search!

My fiancé (heh) and I had actually marked down a date on the calendar for when he would propose.

May I present the debut of Zilan (the sapphire):
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The pretty 2.52 ct Ceylon Sapphire debutted in the Singapore Botanic Gardens, during a Picnic. She was accompanied by 0.25 carat diamonds on each side, tapering down to 0.13 diamonds. All natural diamonds, E, VS1 and Hearts and Arrows(?), I'm not very knowledgeable about diamonds.

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This is her in her box.

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This is her amongst some blueberries and cheese.

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Trying to capture her in diffused sunlight the next day

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Direct sunlight. I must say, the diamonds are really sparkly!

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Under lamplight.

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Galley work. I had preferred a trellis setting but perhaps this low setting is better for the clumsy me!

There's a Ruby on the bridge, as it's my birthstone. The other side has a diamond on the bridge as it is his birthstone, and uses a diamond from my mother's wedding band!

Smaller diamonds re-purposed from my mother's jewellery.
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Having spent months ruminating and flip-flopping between intricate details, in the end I chose to go with a five stone design. The "wall of bling" that my shiny-loving heart desired.

With some of the comments of the previous thread, we did consider pears at first, but I realised it might be harder to find pears that fit on my finger. We tried to search for lab-grown diamonds but they were *gasp* more expensive/similar prices from natural ones in smaller sizes!

The shank wasn't the textured or engraved finish that I was drawn to, it's high polish which was something I initially really didn't like, although the jeweller had recommended high polish to set off the sapphire. But I've come round to it and I'll just wait for the patina to form with age (should I try 'scratching' my shank to hasten the process? ) and I guess the shiny bright polish does fit the sparkle of the diamonds and sapphire, it's a classic look! Fiancé got me a platinum ring as he was afraid that I'll get allergies.

Overall I'm satisfied with the ring bling! I know it can be hard to incorporate the features I wanted, so we'll let the gemstones be the stars of the show for the engagement ring.

Though I do get self-conscious about how sparkly it can be, since in my part of the world, engagement rings are less flashy.

Now on to wedding band shopping! I hope to incorporate the organic elements that I wanted this time in the wedding ring! I love those textured finishes on rings, florentine finish, organic elements etc that makes the ring look 'alive'.

However I'm also torn between sparkly diamond eternity bands
I'm wondering if the mixed metal stack would be nice, eg. Yellow gold wedding band and platinum engagement ring?

Or will the platinum scratch the gold? Decisions decisions
 
More photos!

It's really hard to capture her colours and the fire of the diamonds accurately.

In restaurant lighting
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Diffused daylight
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In the lift (I wonder what the security guards think when they see footage of me awkwardly taking photos of my finger!)

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Oh my word!

Your life together is off to a pretty darned good start, that ring is absolutely gorgeous! :love: :love: :love:
 
Oh my godddddddd
 
Very pretty
 
That blue!!!!

What a stunning ring, congratulations on your engagement!!
 
Gorgeous! Really special and wonderful looking!
 
And again...That blue. That perfect BLUE. :love: I love the velvety goodness.
The whole ring is beautifully eye catching.
Congratulations on your engagement!
 
Beautiful!
 
Congratulations!! Stunning ring :lickout:
 
I love the color of your sapphire! Congratulations and all the best for a bright future!
 
Be careful not to trip or get hurt because you can't take your eyes off that gorgeous ring! :love:
 
Beautiful sapphire and diamond ER - congratulations!


Do be very careful wearing it, as it seems quite loose on your finger ... is it sized larger to accommodate pairing with your WB? Otherwise please do consider having it resized to fit more securely.
 
Congratulations on the engagement and the ring. The sapphire is a beautiful berry blue. The sapphire plus the diamonds look oversized on your slim fingers. I hope the ring is comfortable for you to wear; otherwise, I suggest taking it down to a three stone ring to have a lighter weight ring that looks more proportional on your finger. A mixed band would look great, but the way the diamonds are set in this ring, they'd scratch any metal that comes into contact with the diamond girdle.
 
Thank you all for all your lovely wishes!
I'm happy to find a place to gush about pretty, sparkly stuff!

And yes @PinkAndBlueBling I do need to be careful of my steps sometimes because I keep getting the urge to admire the ring!
 
Oops posted before I completed my post.

Yes @marymm and @voce Good spots! The ring is indeed half a size to one size too large on my finger. Thankfully the diamonds don't really hit the sides of my fingers too much.

I have found a temporary solution, which is to get ring adjusters as pictured




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Perhaps once I find a suitable wedding ring, I'll go for a resizing, by adding sizing beads, rather than 'cutting' the ring, as I heard that would weaken the structure of the ring?

These adjusters are a pretty convenient and cheap solution though!
 
@voce You are also right, it seems that wearing a stack may cause the wedding ring to get abraded.

Also, it seems that Zilan is quite blingy and outshines many of the wedding bands I tried! =X I may have to wear her as a RHR, and the wedding band by itself...

I find myself going for artisanal craftsmanship and am quite drawn to the Japanese forging method in particular!

I tried on these wedding bands from a brand call Fujimori / Kajita https://instagram.com/bridal.fujimorikajita?utm_medium=copy_link

and here are some pics!

Warning, pics galore

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Simple and elegant 'Moonlight'

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Moonlight seems almost overshadowed by the diamonds stars and the Sapphire Blue Moon




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'Stardust'
 
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'Daylight'- the texture is created via the Hand-shaved method ( 削りだし )
I find myself really liking the organic aesthetic to it!

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Diamond band with assymetrical spray

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Seems to suit well with Zilan... but I'm not too sure about it on its own

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This is 'Tree Ring', which is suppose to resemble... you guess it! Tree bark.
 
Here's a picture of a few rings stacked together...I must say they look pretty good and may have a chance of competing with Zilan when they are together

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I really like their range of rings, they are simple, elegant and aesthetically pleasing.
Though I like the look of gold, unfortunately as I have found with previous e-ring fitting, white metal suits my skin colour more and I'm not one of those lucky ones who could carry off the beautiful hues of yellow/rose gold.

Next up I'm considering Hawaiian Heirloom jewelry design for the wedding ring also. I like the hand-engraved, forged metal artistry to them!
It seems quite interesting that the Hawaiian Jewellery design has such a following amongst the Japanese, a majority of the Instagram posts on Hawaiian Jewellery are from Japanese retailers!

An example of what I'm considering here
 
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