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Finally Pulled the Trigger on My Dream Ring – Show Me Your Toi et Moi Designs!

DaisyL

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After two years of lurking and learning from this amazing community, I finally designed my perfect toi et moi ring with Jordan at Debebians – and I’m obsessed!

Specs:

  • Center Stones: 1.2ct elongated cushion cut Montana sapphire (teal) + 0.8ct old mine cut diamond (K color, SI1)
  • Setting: 18k yellow gold with milgrain detail
  • Inspiration: Victorian “mine and thine” symbolism
Why I’m Sharing:

  1. To thank you all – your posts taught me about light performance (never would’ve considered that teal sapphire’s windowing without this forum!)
  2. To ask: How do you style mixed-metal stacks with yellow gold? My wedding band is platinum and I’m struggling to make them cohesive.
  3. To see your toi et moi rings – especially if you’ve got colored stone combos!
PSA for newbies: The Pricescope diamond search tool saved me $1.8K compared to local jewelers’ quotes. Worth the membership alone!

Fun drama: My mom hates the asymmetry (“Why not just get a normal solitaire?”) so I need your gorgeous examples to convert her

Can’t wait to geek out about prong styles and stone ratios with you all!
 
One is mine and the others are my inspirations for the next ring I’m looking to get made IMG_0911.pngIMG_5453.jpeg
 

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