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Have to Brag on Hubby - He's Cutting Gems!

tara3056

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I've been "into" gemstones for awhile, and hubby has always been great about encouraging me in a hobby that makes me happy, and he's always been interested in scrutinizing new arrivals with me, giving me his feedback, etc. Being an analytical-engineer-type, he always admired the precision-cut stones more than others, though he admits that "native cuts" can still be decently well cut and that color can trump cut at times.

A few months ago, he asked me what went into cutting gems. I honestly had only the vaguest idea, so I dug up some links provided by Barry Bridgestock and Dan Stair that showed the process step-by-step, with pictures. As soon as *I* read through the process, I knew it would be right up his alley. I was right. He read those, started researching a lot more on his own, and by Christmas, he'd decided to buy a faceting machine! Armed with all sorts of books, faceting diagrams, laps, rough, etc., he spent some of his Christmas 'staycation' teaching himself how to cut gems.

The first two attempts were easy cuts from Jeff Graham's beginner faceting book - an Easy 8 octagon and an Easy Cushion, from amethyst and citrine respectively. They turned out okay. Decently well-cut but from cheap rough, and with cuts that were simple and lacking in facets. I think he would kill me if I took pics and posted them here. LOL. The next stone was a trilliant Aquamarine that actually turned out beautifully and I think it would be "setting-worthy" if it weren't the cheapest, palest, most washed-out aqua type material. He cut his first round brilliant, a ~7mm Arizona Peridot (so again, pretty cheap rough) last week that turned out awesome! I'm not really a fan of peridot (that's putting it nicely), but if I were, I'd set it happily!

I'm so happy for him - AND ME!! (LOL) - so I wanted to post here and share :) He has a background in engineering but is a software developer by trade, so he's been missing opportunities to create tangible items (unlike computer code), and he's taken this new hobby and is running with it. I'm really proud of how well he's doing in such a short time! He's encountered some problems, figured out how to deal with them, etc. Now he's got some muuuuccch nicer rough in the cutting box and will be starting on an Umbalite next. Very exciting!

I'm including a quick snapshot of his peridot -- and he would probably be upset if he knew, because he's also a bit of a photography freak with a very nice DSLR set up and so forth. But he's having trouble learning how to take pics of gems, and I'm too excited to sit around and wait for him to figure out how to get that perfect macro shot. So consider this pic super-quick-and-really-dirty. a.k.a. BAD! Despite my BAD pic, there is NO DEAD SPOT in the center of the peridot! It looks as nice as any other round brilliant cut I've seen! Now I'm looking forward to seeing what he can do with superior rough :D

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Tara - best story I've read in a while. What a cool thing for your DH to do. I love that he is so interested in trying something new. I love that he wanted to support your interest and took it and made it his own, so you'll have even more sharing to do. I love how much he loves you. And, most importantly, I love (and am jealous of) the fact that you have a lapidary of your very own! This world cannot possibly have enough lapidaries, and we gratefully thank him for adding himself into the mix!

The stone is lovely, you lucky woman!!!
 
Tara, that's amazing! That peridot is really very awesome, he did a great job. :appl: :wavey:
 
Wow, how cool is this? :appl: How exciting and fun for the both of you! The peridot looks beautiful, I'm impressed! Lucky you to have your own private lapidary - would love to see more of his work, and closer shots, if you get a chance!
 
Oh WOW lucky you! You need to brag brag and brag!!!

The Peridot is really well done so he's obviously got a good eye - I think engineer's typically make good lapidarists because of this (Chrono are you listening?)!

Please photo more photos of his ventures - it's so interesting! Well done to hubby :appl:
 
Aww, that's lovely! :D How sweet of your hubby, and lucky you!
 
LD|1358507059|3358560 said:
Oh WOW lucky you! You need to brag brag and brag!!!

The Peridot is really well done so he's obviously got a good eye - I think engineer's typically make good lapidarists because of this (Chrono are you listening?)!

Please photo more photos of his ventures - it's so interesting! Well done to hubby :appl:

Hah, thinking the exact same thing before I read your comment!
 
What was that? I thought I heard someone say something. Must be hallucinating...oh well. :devil:

Wowee! I'm impressed. Colouration looks good, cutting looks good and it looks very lively. You are so lucky that not only is he interested, but very dedicated to it. Next up will be goldsmithing, right? :naughty:
 
Chrono|1358537740|3358903 said:
What was that? I thought I heard someone say something. Must be hallucinating...oh well. :devil:

Wowee! I'm impressed. Colouration looks good, cutting looks good and it looks very lively. You are so lucky that not only is he interested, but very dedicated to it. Next up will be goldsmithing, right? :naughty:

I can hear you! :lol: :wink2:
 
That's terrific!! How great of him to be interested in your interest & run with his own take on it. I agree, as soon as I read "engineer," I knew you were in for some fun stuff. I'm impressed he got so into it so fast -- and is progressing so well. We'll soon be buying stones from his website. :appl: And you'll sparkle all the time!

--- Laurie
 
That is amazing!
 
OMG what a great husband! I wish mine would take up that hobby :)
 
That peridot looks lovely - you've got every right to brag! I'd love a DH to cut stones for me. :love:
 
Wow, I'm impressed! Great job and I bet you cannot wait to see what else he cuts for you! Please make sure to post pics when he does! Very lovely! :appl:
 
Lucky you!

My hubby is a geologist and his idea of beauty goes more towards minerals as they occur in nature rather than faceted gemstones. He told me he met a gemologist when he was volunteering at mineral shows when he was in college and she told him she "feared" geologists because they want to hit everything with a rock hammer :lol: :lol: :nono: :nono:

However, if I remember correctly, Wink told me that Richard Homer was a geologist, so I guess there is hope for some of them, just not mine.

Seriously, a big congrats for a job well done to your hubby. I'm anxiously awaiting more photos of his upcoming projects.
 
This is just so cool. Looking forward to seeing his next stones!
 
Thank you so much everyone for the lovely comments and encouragement!

If you really don't mind, I will keep you guys updated and post pics as he cuts more stones! I just have to get *much* better at taking pictures... :/

I have to say that seeing rough gemstones and watching him cut them has given me so much appreciation for the beloved cutters that we all buy from. Barry Bridgestock's prices (just one example) already seemed more-than-fair, and now they seem faintly ridiculous for the quality of cutting he offers! Gene has stunningly beautiful pictures of his beautifully-cut stones and I fully appreciate how difficult it might have been for him in the beginning to work out the best photo set-up to get accurate pics.

Also, buying rough is not for wussies! It's not easy, but my hubby has been fortunate enough to get some great guidance and procure some awesome rough from Lisa Elser and Tom Schneider. The lapidary community in general has been very welcoming and generous with their time and advice.
 
By all means, please update us with his progress. I am impressed that other lapidaries are generous in sharing their hard earned knowledge. You cannot go wrong getting guidance and rough material from Lisa and Tom.
 
tara3056|1358826261|3361443 said:
Thank you so much everyone for the lovely comments and encouragement!

If you really don't mind, I will keep you guys updated and post pics as he cuts more stones! I just have to get *much* better at taking pictures... :/

I have to say that seeing rough gemstones and watching him cut them has given me so much appreciation for the beloved cutters that we all buy from. Barry Bridgestock's prices (just one example) already seemed more-than-fair, and now they seem faintly ridiculous for the quality of cutting he offers! Gene has stunningly beautiful pictures of his beautifully-cut stones and I fully appreciate how difficult it might have been for him in the beginning to work out the best photo set-up to get accurate pics.

Also, buying rough is not for wussies! It's not easy, but my hubby has been fortunate enough to get some great guidance and procure some awesome rough from Lisa Elser and Tom Schneider. The lapidary community in general has been very welcoming and generous with their time and advice.

What positive experience for you and DH! Please keep us in mind - we'll be here whenever you are to take a look and cheer you both on!
 
I think that's an amazing accomplishment. Many people might be interested in trying cutting but wouldn't be brave enough to actually do it! :)
 
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