SarahLovesJS
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I think this fits in this section, might fit more in the family section, but whatever. Well, as everyone knows I got engaged recently. One of my cousins is getting married this year, and I honestly don''t want to go. Sometime after middle school we started to drift apart, and our families have always had tension over various issues. So my question is, do you have to go to someone''s wedding? I mean, they''re going to know if we don''t come and be pretty angry, but I just don''t want to go. Of course this means they also won''t come to my wedding, but I don''t really want them there. She is not a mean person or anything, but she has never really been close to me, and honestly I am seeing a new side of her lately with this wedding stuff. Even worse than I thought! She constantly bothered me or had her mom bother my mom for info about when I would be engaged (she spotted me with bridal things) before I got engaged, but now that I am she hasn''t said anything. No congrats, nothing. She''s one of those "call me sometime!" people that never calls you, you have to call THEM. We have totally opposite personalities, and just aren''t that close to be honest. So, what do you say? Do you HAVE to go to a wedding just to save face, or is it okay sometimes to just stick up for yourself? I know I should probably go, just wanted to see if anyone else has been in this awkward situation.