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Happy new week all!
I was reading one of Rod's posts from last week's thread where he mentioned he was working out with a guy who is a bariatric surgeon ( who performs gastric band/ bypass procedures etc). Apparently this guy told Rod the sobering statistics - that only 3% of overweight patients are successful in keeping the weight they have lost off over a 5 year period...
This has really made me think and I definitely believe it is a worthy topic for this week's thread as we can all benefit from discussing our thoughts on why this might be the case - and what we can do to make sure all of us and those who are reading make up a large portion of the successful 3%!
As many of you know, I was struggling with a few excess pounds on and off all my life, because I had such an all or nothing mentality which was ' enabled' by the attitude at that time of many slimming clubs, diets, slimming magazines etc. I used to feel very deprived because I always had to be on a ' diet' which meant ' no fun/ yummy food/ hunger/ deprivation/ missing out/ feeling self pity i.e why was I chosen etc etc.' This way of thinking continued for years, I would ' diet' and be 'good' for as long as I could stand it, then I would eventually get so sick of it that I would rebel and eat everything in sight. Then along would come the thoughts of hopelessness and feeling worthless along with' well I have blown it whats the point, might as well eat the cake and everything else - I can't do this...'
So I struggled along, never feeling as good as I could, or feeling that I looked good - in fact those few extra pounds made my life a misery - but I didn't want to go back to the deprivation/ binge cycle as that was all I knew.
Until the penny finally dropped over 3 years ago that if I ate carefully and became more active, maybe I could change and still enjoy life in the process - and it worked!!!!!! I try to always eat as well as I can watching the calories and fats - but I try to fuel my body according to what it needs and what it can burn. I workout to try to keep my metabolism up and for other health benefits. And I enjoy the occasional icecream. This is what works for me and many others on the HLT.
I have found a plan I can live with FINALLY and in order to do so I had to have a major attitude overhaul as that was what was really keeping the extra pounds on. I have made a commitment to my plan and this way of life - indeed it will be MY way of life for the rest of my life. I no longer expect perfection but I do the best I can every day to make the best choices but I no longer feel despair if I do eat some cake - I enjoy it and move on as my plan allows me to have some of the foods I enjoy in moderation. I aim for balance and vigilance, if I overdo the eating for a couple of days then I know if I work out a little harder and eat a little less for a day or two, that will balance things out.
And above all I am grateful for what my plan has done for me, and the support of all you HLTers! I have confidence in my plan that I will be able to keep the extra pounds off now, I have the tools at my disposal. And I hope that others who may be struggling with weight issues can find their plan which will help them too! It is fairly simple - if you continually overdo the calories then weight gain is inevitable. If you aim to eat what your body can use as fuel according to your size and activity level then you will be able to keep the pounds off or continue to lose them. If you have some of the foods you particularly enjoy in moderation and work them into your overall calories then you needn't miss out. If you keep practising and working towards a healthier lifestyle even if you fall off the wagon at times, the results will come! Just pick yourself up if you do slip and get right back on track!
Have a great week
I was reading one of Rod's posts from last week's thread where he mentioned he was working out with a guy who is a bariatric surgeon ( who performs gastric band/ bypass procedures etc). Apparently this guy told Rod the sobering statistics - that only 3% of overweight patients are successful in keeping the weight they have lost off over a 5 year period...
This has really made me think and I definitely believe it is a worthy topic for this week's thread as we can all benefit from discussing our thoughts on why this might be the case - and what we can do to make sure all of us and those who are reading make up a large portion of the successful 3%!
As many of you know, I was struggling with a few excess pounds on and off all my life, because I had such an all or nothing mentality which was ' enabled' by the attitude at that time of many slimming clubs, diets, slimming magazines etc. I used to feel very deprived because I always had to be on a ' diet' which meant ' no fun/ yummy food/ hunger/ deprivation/ missing out/ feeling self pity i.e why was I chosen etc etc.' This way of thinking continued for years, I would ' diet' and be 'good' for as long as I could stand it, then I would eventually get so sick of it that I would rebel and eat everything in sight. Then along would come the thoughts of hopelessness and feeling worthless along with' well I have blown it whats the point, might as well eat the cake and everything else - I can't do this...'
So I struggled along, never feeling as good as I could, or feeling that I looked good - in fact those few extra pounds made my life a misery - but I didn't want to go back to the deprivation/ binge cycle as that was all I knew.
Until the penny finally dropped over 3 years ago that if I ate carefully and became more active, maybe I could change and still enjoy life in the process - and it worked!!!!!! I try to always eat as well as I can watching the calories and fats - but I try to fuel my body according to what it needs and what it can burn. I workout to try to keep my metabolism up and for other health benefits. And I enjoy the occasional icecream. This is what works for me and many others on the HLT.
I have found a plan I can live with FINALLY and in order to do so I had to have a major attitude overhaul as that was what was really keeping the extra pounds on. I have made a commitment to my plan and this way of life - indeed it will be MY way of life for the rest of my life. I no longer expect perfection but I do the best I can every day to make the best choices but I no longer feel despair if I do eat some cake - I enjoy it and move on as my plan allows me to have some of the foods I enjoy in moderation. I aim for balance and vigilance, if I overdo the eating for a couple of days then I know if I work out a little harder and eat a little less for a day or two, that will balance things out.
And above all I am grateful for what my plan has done for me, and the support of all you HLTers! I have confidence in my plan that I will be able to keep the extra pounds off now, I have the tools at my disposal. And I hope that others who may be struggling with weight issues can find their plan which will help them too! It is fairly simple - if you continually overdo the calories then weight gain is inevitable. If you aim to eat what your body can use as fuel according to your size and activity level then you will be able to keep the pounds off or continue to lose them. If you have some of the foods you particularly enjoy in moderation and work them into your overall calories then you needn't miss out. If you keep practising and working towards a healthier lifestyle even if you fall off the wagon at times, the results will come! Just pick yourself up if you do slip and get right back on track!
Have a great week