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Happy new week all!
I wanted to touch on the subject of frustration this week, it strikes us all from time to time and I had a major dose of it last week. I was feeling pleased with myself as my lower body seems to have trimmed down even more, my tightest jeans fit really well - better than they ever have. So as I was feeling good about that I tried on a form fitting suit I hadn''t worn for 18 months. It was snug around the waist and I was devastated. I know that recently my spine has shifted, I can see the right side of my waist starting to bow out so I believe it is probably this which made it the suit not fit there, everywhere else was fine.
But did I slip back into my old ways! I was so upset, Hubby was getting mad at me because I was throwing a fit saying how miserable I was that this stupid suit didn''t fit the way it used to. He says I am way too hard on myself, maybe I am but I know that in order to feel reasonable about myself I have to be. So it is a balance, I will have to try a little harder - I know I am happy when this suit fits well so I will be altering my food intake a bit and stepping up the workouts to see what happens.
So it just goes to show how hard it can be to try to not panic and to stay positive, it is something I still struggle with! Yes I expect a lot from myself but to me the rewards are well worth it. This week I have managed to get into a better mind set and am starting the week off in a more positive way. Frustration strikes us all, but we can overcome it!
Have a great week!
I wanted to touch on the subject of frustration this week, it strikes us all from time to time and I had a major dose of it last week. I was feeling pleased with myself as my lower body seems to have trimmed down even more, my tightest jeans fit really well - better than they ever have. So as I was feeling good about that I tried on a form fitting suit I hadn''t worn for 18 months. It was snug around the waist and I was devastated. I know that recently my spine has shifted, I can see the right side of my waist starting to bow out so I believe it is probably this which made it the suit not fit there, everywhere else was fine.
But did I slip back into my old ways! I was so upset, Hubby was getting mad at me because I was throwing a fit saying how miserable I was that this stupid suit didn''t fit the way it used to. He says I am way too hard on myself, maybe I am but I know that in order to feel reasonable about myself I have to be. So it is a balance, I will have to try a little harder - I know I am happy when this suit fits well so I will be altering my food intake a bit and stepping up the workouts to see what happens.
So it just goes to show how hard it can be to try to not panic and to stay positive, it is something I still struggle with! Yes I expect a lot from myself but to me the rewards are well worth it. This week I have managed to get into a better mind set and am starting the week off in a more positive way. Frustration strikes us all, but we can overcome it!
Have a great week!