Hi all,
Well, I have a fairly typical situation that I hope you folks can help change from a sad story into a yarn with a fairy tale ending.
My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now and I would very much like to ''pop the question''. The problem has been the Ring.
My sweetie is a history major. Particularly European Medieval history. As such, she mentioned that should she ever be lucky enough to be offered an engagement ring, she would like it to be a Ruby instead of a Diamond. Apparently the very well-to-do of that time period used Rubies as the primary engagement offering. (And as an aside, if the Ruby changed color over the years it was considered a bad omen for marriage and of course, fake.)
So, a Ruby. OK cool, no problem. Further hinting gleaned that she was aware of what a higher quality stone she had in mind. Burmese. Pigeon Blood Red in color. So I started the search. To my surprise, finding a stone of a decent size with those attributes was proving rather difficult. Not knowing of this site''s forum community I was relying primarily on Google searches to turn up results. I''d periodically check the major hits for loose stones and generally not find anything. I specifically avoided eBay.
Months go by and I''m starting to get a little impatient (trouble sign #1). I run across a 3.02ct ruby, origin Burma, color listed as Pigeon Blood Red. Price listed on GemNY.com: $6,000. Well, well that neatly fit all my parameters and was actually less than I''d planned on spending on the stone. Without doing any more digging (unconsciously afraid I''d find a problem?) I bought the stone.
It arrives promptly with papers from a Gem lab in NY. The papers list the retail replacement cost at $36,000. Um, what? Alarm bells start ringing softly. I look up the lab''s website, then Google it. Low and behold, there are posts on various forums (maybe even this one) that disparage this place''s veracity and consequently any store that would use them. Enter Mr. Richard Sherwood, Gemologist.
I find Richard through again searching the web (what did we do before Google?). He''s an independent Gemologist here in Sarasota, FL. I set up an appointment to have the stone appraised. First off, Richard is fantastic. If you ever need something looked at, I highly recommend him. Thorough, courteous and just a pleasure to work with. http://www.sarasotagemlab.com He goes over the stone extremely thoroughly, including doing a spectrum-analysis to determine the country of origin.
What do we find? The only bit of good news is that its not Beryllium treated. OK fine. The Ruby is not from Burma, its from Madagascar. Ouch. You can probably see where this is going from here just from that statement. The color is not Pigeon Blood (not enough Chromium in the stone) its a deep red with some orange and purple. The rest of the attributes are fairly typical for a Native Cut ruby of its type. About middle of the road in quality. Richard''s retail replacement cost estimate? $4,500. Double ouch.
Well the good news is, since I paid with a credit card I should get my money back. I''m out Richard''s fee and the money to ship the stone. Not horribly painful, but certainly a lesson well learned.
So, now what? I''ve done some additional poking around, but I''m feeling once bitten, twice shy and could use some help. Richard mentioned this community specifically and the nice people in it. So here I am. Here is what I''m looking for:
Burmese Ruby
The color needs to be very nice. A Pigeon''s Blood Red that burns in the sunlight.
I''m looking for something over 2cts if possible.
I''m willing to go all the way up to $20,000 for just the stone if necessary. Less would be nice, but I''m seeing that just might not be possible. Any advice on this topic would be greatly appreciated.
I''m not too choosy on cut. The heart-shaped fancy cut would be about the only one I would flatly refuse. A bit cheesy for an engagement ring, imo.
All things equal, round cut would be preferred.
What do we think? And thanks for taking the time to read this.
Well, I have a fairly typical situation that I hope you folks can help change from a sad story into a yarn with a fairy tale ending.
My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now and I would very much like to ''pop the question''. The problem has been the Ring.
My sweetie is a history major. Particularly European Medieval history. As such, she mentioned that should she ever be lucky enough to be offered an engagement ring, she would like it to be a Ruby instead of a Diamond. Apparently the very well-to-do of that time period used Rubies as the primary engagement offering. (And as an aside, if the Ruby changed color over the years it was considered a bad omen for marriage and of course, fake.)
So, a Ruby. OK cool, no problem. Further hinting gleaned that she was aware of what a higher quality stone she had in mind. Burmese. Pigeon Blood Red in color. So I started the search. To my surprise, finding a stone of a decent size with those attributes was proving rather difficult. Not knowing of this site''s forum community I was relying primarily on Google searches to turn up results. I''d periodically check the major hits for loose stones and generally not find anything. I specifically avoided eBay.
Months go by and I''m starting to get a little impatient (trouble sign #1). I run across a 3.02ct ruby, origin Burma, color listed as Pigeon Blood Red. Price listed on GemNY.com: $6,000. Well, well that neatly fit all my parameters and was actually less than I''d planned on spending on the stone. Without doing any more digging (unconsciously afraid I''d find a problem?) I bought the stone.
It arrives promptly with papers from a Gem lab in NY. The papers list the retail replacement cost at $36,000. Um, what? Alarm bells start ringing softly. I look up the lab''s website, then Google it. Low and behold, there are posts on various forums (maybe even this one) that disparage this place''s veracity and consequently any store that would use them. Enter Mr. Richard Sherwood, Gemologist.
I find Richard through again searching the web (what did we do before Google?). He''s an independent Gemologist here in Sarasota, FL. I set up an appointment to have the stone appraised. First off, Richard is fantastic. If you ever need something looked at, I highly recommend him. Thorough, courteous and just a pleasure to work with. http://www.sarasotagemlab.com He goes over the stone extremely thoroughly, including doing a spectrum-analysis to determine the country of origin.
What do we find? The only bit of good news is that its not Beryllium treated. OK fine. The Ruby is not from Burma, its from Madagascar. Ouch. You can probably see where this is going from here just from that statement. The color is not Pigeon Blood (not enough Chromium in the stone) its a deep red with some orange and purple. The rest of the attributes are fairly typical for a Native Cut ruby of its type. About middle of the road in quality. Richard''s retail replacement cost estimate? $4,500. Double ouch.
Well the good news is, since I paid with a credit card I should get my money back. I''m out Richard''s fee and the money to ship the stone. Not horribly painful, but certainly a lesson well learned.
So, now what? I''ve done some additional poking around, but I''m feeling once bitten, twice shy and could use some help. Richard mentioned this community specifically and the nice people in it. So here I am. Here is what I''m looking for:
Burmese Ruby
The color needs to be very nice. A Pigeon''s Blood Red that burns in the sunlight.
I''m looking for something over 2cts if possible.
I''m willing to go all the way up to $20,000 for just the stone if necessary. Less would be nice, but I''m seeing that just might not be possible. Any advice on this topic would be greatly appreciated.
I''m not too choosy on cut. The heart-shaped fancy cut would be about the only one I would flatly refuse. A bit cheesy for an engagement ring, imo.
All things equal, round cut would be preferred.
What do we think? And thanks for taking the time to read this.