He's finally starting to get on board

[Skychick]

I have not posted in a while because there was nothing to post. In February he decided he needed a break. I respected his wishes and gave him space. We did not talk at all for 2 months. Every once in a while in the following months we would talk, but nothing exciting. I have been using his break as a time for me. I decided to put my town house up for sale and build a single family home (farther away from him). So last night he calls to tell me to look at pics he posted on fb. Right under the pics was a status update that said he enjoyed his weekend but it would have been much better if he shared it with a wife.

I texted him and said that I was confused since he said he needed time away and then he posts something like that. He replied that he thinks about it sometimes. I guess that is a start - him thinking about it without me bringing it up. Small steps....

 

[nicoleben]

Guys can be so silly at times.

I hope he understands what he wants and doesnt bring u along for a test ride again! Because no one deserves that.. Lets hope his head will be in the right place this time.. and maybe even that break made him realize things. Whatever you do, dont make yourself available to his every whim.. and leave a little to his mind about your life.

 

[princesss]

Wait, are you two still on a break or are you back together?

 

[RhubarbPie]

Wait, are you two still on a break or are you back together?

I was confused about this too. Make sure you're really clear on where the two of you stand before you start entertaining these ideas of marriage with him. It sounds like he is pretty wishy washy, especially if you've been on a break for the past couple of months without talking and now he is wanting to talk about marriage. Make sure he isn't giving you the run around....

 

[kagordo4]

I agree.. confusing and a little skeetchy?

Oh but congratulations on your home building!

 

[lucyandroger]

Skychick, I'm glad you're focusing on yourself. How exciting about the new home! Have you been dating? Has he?

 

[Skychick]

I too thought he was talking about someone new so I asked him point blank. He said he was talking about me. Neither one of us dated during the break. We have been talking again since April trying to get back to basics. I don't think he was being wishy washy, I made the mistake that A LOT of women here make - I pushed too hard to the point he needed a break. Since then I have realized that I just need to enjoy my time with him. It was too tense before.