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[MakingTheGrade]

You started getting a little freaked out?

So far I''m 72 days until the big day, and I''m just getting an inkling of nerves about all the logistics and everything coming together (had my first wedding nightmare last night). I predict that by I reach day 15, I''ll be in full anxiety mode, lol.

How about you guys? When did the nerves set in? If ever?

 

[tlh]

it came in waves for me... but I really had a wave of anxiety 2 weeks before, followed by an eerie sense of calm that lasted until the day before... then I was still calm, but my type A personality set in day of.... so I dont know, it was like major mood swings though for several months...

I dont have any tips... really it is all about how you deal w/ stress... me I just jumped into time manegement and a LOT of really hard core workouts!

 

[meresal]

Right now I really don''t have anxiety about the wedding itself or getting married, more about the stuff that still needs to get done. I had a few nightmares a few months ago, but haven''t had any since.

My biggest worry right now about the wedding, is that our pictures after the wedding are going to take too long, and we won''t get to the reception quickly. If I had it my way we would go straight to the reception after walking down the aisle, and all the family would just dress up again the day after to take pictures!!

 

[grapegravity]

Date: 5/21/2009 1:45:45 PM
Author:MakingTheGrade
You started getting a little freaked out?

So far I''m 72 days until the big day, and I''m just getting an inkling of nerves about all the logistics and everything coming together (had my first wedding nightmare last night). I predict that by I reach day 15, I''ll be in full anxiety mode, lol.

How about you guys? When did the nerves set in? If ever?

OMG, my wedding date is also 72 days from today!! (August 1)

For me, I probably gonna start to freak out around July...

 

[MakingTheGrade]

Haha, just to clarify, I''m not freaking out about the being married part. More like having nightmares about the logistics part since I''m planning this more or less solo and from out of town.

I''m still ok so far, I''m too busy with school to really get anxious over the wedding.

 

[Hudson_Hawk]

I had my first nightmare on day 51. I thought it was strange because I''m pretty zen about the whole thing. It''s going to happen regardless of whether it rains, someone wears white, or the food is burned. That''s what alcohol is for!

 

[MakingTheGrade]

Date: 5/21/2009 3:33:21 PM
Author: Hudson_Hawk
I had my first nightmare on day 51. I thought it was strange because I'm pretty zen about the whole thing. It's going to happen regardless of whether it rains, someone wears white, or the food is burned. That's what alcohol is for!

Haha...except I don't even have my alcohol figured out yet...oy.

Generally speaking I'm not too worried, but when I think of all the people I need to call, details I need to finish, things I need to set up, and places I need to be...arg, it makes me just want to nap and dream of elopement