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gladyskristen

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Just 50 days more before I go back to Singapore!!

I haven''t seen dear BF IRL since we made up and we''re really missing each other loads. Things between us are now better than they have ever been in 5 yrs, we can both finally see the effort that the other party is putting in and we agreed that we''re now truly happy in our r/s.
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Lately, I''ve been getting a little inkling that a re-proposal might be on it''s way when I go back to SG. No idea when it''s gonna happen, but I''ve been getting stuff like:

1) When the topic of marriage/engagement was brought up, he told me that he''s ready to think of marriage and said,"Let''s just say that I already know what I wanna do, but I can''t tell u, cos otherwise there''ll be no surprise!"

2) When I tried to press for more information on the "surprise" that he was talking about, he humoured me, but refused to give any info. I asked him whether there''s a surprise waiting for me when I go back to SG, and he said that he duno.

3) We agreed on going for a nice dinner when I''m back to exchange early Xmas presents (cos we can''t wait 2 get them), and he''s been putting in a surprising amount of effort to find a place. The last I hear was, "I''ve thought of a few potential places. When I have the time, I''m gonna go recce all of them and pick a place". It''s rather unlike him, cos he''ll usually pick the first place tt comes to mind. When I asked why is he putting so much effort into choosing the venue, he just said, "Cos we agreed to have a really nice dinner together!"
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If he''s reading this, I''m totally gonna die, cos I know I''m probably WAY overanalysing half the stuff that he said/did (especially on #3), but I can''t shake the feeling that a proposal will come within half a yr of me going back to SG. I''ll TRY not to get my hopes up though. I need some dust and lucky vibes!
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Hey Gladyskristen
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Those are all Great things to be excited about. It is not easy to rebuild a r/s after splitting up or breaking an engagement, and men usually take so much longer to come around as they can be so guarded. By the sounds of it he is definitely ready to take the next step with you and re-propose. I don''t think you''re over-analyzing. The fact that he says he wants there to be an element of surprise says to me that he wants it to be special and it has great meaning to him.

Let him have that! You just be the princess you are and enjoy him courting you all over again! That in itself must feel SO SO good!
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Keep us posted!

~SL
 
Enjoy your trip. Good luck to you!!
 
SL:

Yeh, it does feel really good, cos we're both putting so much effort into this and everything just feels so right. I think we've really found our balance. In the past, we kept concentrating on what we want and what we're not getting. Now, we both put our minds to giving the other person what they want and we just find that our needs r being fulfilled without having to demand for it! It'll be hard for me to quit with the anticipation, be a good girl, and wait for him to do his thing though!
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I remember the countdowns to see each other again! How lovely that you are going to see each other soon and that things are really good right now.
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