Its getting serious now! My poor BF really wants to surprise me, but I am too obsessed with having hte perfect stone and setting, that he has given up hope of finding me a ring and said I can pick it out. He has talked to all his married friends about the rings the bought for their wives and he even went to a B&M on his own to look at diamonds!! He is still not conviced about buying online, but he did say that if I find one online that I love and we have it sent to an appraiser and I still love it, then he is OK with that. so, its all looking very promising