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IrishAngel7982

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Hi ladies.
This isn''t too enormously huge, but I was excited. M and I have said for a while that we''ll get married w/in a few years. It''s just a matter of logistics since he recently moved to New Jersey and I stayed in Chicago for my job and grad school. We talked on the phone last night as usual, and started talking about our wedding. Some serious, some joking. Then he says, ''I pretty much know how I''m going to ask you, I wish I could do it now, but I have it more or less figured out.'' Me: ''Ok honey, any inkling as to when this''ll go down?'' M: ''Well if you must know, Christmas...duh...wouldn''t be awesome to become officially engaged on Christmas?'' Me: ''Well of course!'' (We both absolutely love everything about Christmas and it may be cliche, but we''ve always wanted to get engaged around the holidays.)

Anyway, he went on to say that it won''t happen this Christmas because we don''t have everything together yet...I''m in no position to move until I finish my Master''s program in May of 2008, and he wants to work his butt off at this job for at least another year. So, I''m thinking/hoping it''ll be around Christmas of 2007. We''re not a couple for long engagements, and want to get married as soon as possible after we get engaged (we were thinking some time in May or June,) so we''ve said that a 5-6 month engagement will be perfect for us. December through June would be perfect for this purpose wouldn''t it?
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So that''s it...it''s not set in stone (no pun intended, hehe) and we all know I would''ve been a LIW for a while longer due to him being stuck in NJ and my being stuck in IL, but I thought I''d share that lil story with you. He''s so cute, and I love when he talks like that because it means I''m not the only one who''s dreaming. I thought you ladies might like to hear the cuteness! Thanks for letting me share!
 
Very exciting! Plus, having a little an idea of when you’re going to get engaged will give you time to start thinking/planning for your wedding, therefore who needs anymore that 5-6 months for an engagement!
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That''s very true Chels, thanks!
 
congrats! I think having a timeline makes you a little bit more sane because you know it WILL happen.. and you don''t have to wonder too much until you get closer to the time. You''ll be a wreck in November of 07.
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I got a 6 month window from my guy in May... and we''ve got about 4 and a half months left and I''m kind of rocking back and forth on my heels wondering "WHEN?" But at least I know that it will be before the end of November, and that''s helping quite a bit.
 
Thats so cool! I know that excited feeling-I have a year until we go to New York and get my ring and Im counting down the weeks till then (it was 53 weeks yesterday
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till we hop on that plane). Isnt it great when they talk about it and get excited too?!
 
Irish- YAY for Christmas!
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It will be perfect to be engaged by Christmas as you''ll have even more reasons to celebrate the season! Welcome to LIW!
 
I''ve been here for a while, but thanks Sum, Bee, and Cali! Surprisingly he does mention it quite often...probably because we know it''s not happening any time soon. =) Thank you for sharing my excitement!
 
Oh, that''s sweet. I love winter time! You can be all cuddled up snuggly warm, with hot chocolate when he asks or something. Awww!

Have fun dreaming it up, girl!!
 
Thanks Fisher...I''ll be dreaming for at least a year and a half! ;)
 
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