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4ever

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So FI and I went to look and my #1 choice for venue (so far) today (this ranking is based purely on internet reasurch since it's the only one we've actually looked at.)

I liked the venue, it is very pretty, but there was no "I LOVE it here's the deposit" moment, but then I don't really know what to expect a venue to be like, I've not been to many weddings and they were all backyard style. The site caters for smaller and larger weddings, a smaller wedding (like ours) is in an old celler room with french doors a nice courtyard outside, fairy lights all over the old beams on the cealling and nice veiws, gardens etc but the larger (or just bigger budget) weddings are in the main reasurant wich is really quite WOW but really not in our budget. The ceromony site is the same for all weddings and really pretty. The food looks pretty AMAZING, we didn't actually eat any when we were there because it's expensive (we're trying to save for a wedding here!) and we had just had a big breakfast before setting off- but it does have excellent reviews. The only critisisms I've read is that it's expensive.


Then we looked at avalible dates. I didn't think so many people booked THAT far in advace because they have no Fridays or Saturdays left in Jan or Feb next year and FI can't take time off really in March (no Fridays or Sat in early march free anyway).....so if we go for this place it will be Sat 31st of March or Thursday 5th of April (day before good friday so a really long weekend) or on a weekday in January or Feb (this is summer time so in early Jan many people are still on holiday from work). As a guest, which would you prefer?

I'm worried if we take the time to look at more venues both these dates will be taken, but is it silly to just book the first place you see because it was the best looking and had the most info on the internet and filled all criteria?

http://www.mudbrick.co.nz/gallery/6/potager-bistro/ This the reception area for smaller weddings
http://www.mudbrick.co.nz/gallery/1/weddings/ And this is wedding pics from the venue, some of wich show the ceromony site.

For a (realitivly) low budget wedding, does this have the wow factor?
 
I think it is a really lovely venue with loads of charm. And I love the outdoor fireplace! There is just so much potential there for beautiful details. The whole thing actually reminds me of the wonderfully intimate wedding my BFF had out in Napa.

What are the contract terms? I know some venues will allow a hold to be placed on a date for a short period of time. If so, that would give you an opportunity to check out a few other venues.

As a guest, I would prefer Saturday the 31st of March, then the Thursday of Good Friday weekend, then a weekday, even if during traditional holiday season.

On the food - do they do tastings? I didn't look at any all-inclusive venues (I only tasted food from caterers), so I don't know how it goes, but do they expect you to book without having tasted the food they offer?

I never really looked at venues. I just went with one place I knew I loved! So, I'm probably not the best person to be giving advice on this issue. :))
 
They will reserve the date for 1 week only, then you need to come up with a deposit or the open up the date again. Since I had issues getting today off to see this venue, 1 week isn't really enough time to see other venues (Tho we will try to see one more tomorrow if I can choose another, none of them look as good online).

They don't do tastings but the venue is a reastrant so you can taste the food anytime, you just have to pay for it.
 
I really like it! It looks cozy and romantic. I think it would be perfect for a small wedding. It has tons of potential if you wanted more, but those pictures with the lights on the ceiling and the candles by the door look perfect. I am a simple kind of girl, but love romantic, elegant looks and would definitely choose something like that for myself.

I would hold off for a few days and schedule other appointments to see other venues and when you know those dates "hold" the first venue for the week that covers the days you're looking. Does that make sense?
 
4ever, I LOVE it. I think the old cellar room is likely to be nice and cool for that time of year. It has tons of wow factor and would be beautiful for a small intimate wedding. I also don't think it'd need that much decorating, which might save you some extra money.

I'd equally appreciate a wedding on March 31 or April 5. I think you'd have more people available on those dates than any time through summer holidays. Some people will want to go away for Easter but a Thursday night date doesn't prevent them from doing that.

As for checking out other venues, what is the deposit amount? If it's not too much then maybe it's worth the risk.

All that aside, I'm a big fan of finding something that ticks all the boxes, making a decision, then moving on to something else! I think your choice is informed because you've done your research, you know what you want, and know this will work for you.
 
We did go and see my second choice venue yesterday....we got as far as the carpark. The views of 2 main roads and an ugly factory building were not quite what we had in mind. I would be cheaper than then the first choice venue but, the first venue really does feel like value for money.

So, after talking to my parents,we have emailed and asked to reserve the 5th of April. My dad agreed with FI on this date because it gives people a longer holiday weekend and the option to stay on the island make a holiday of it or take the ferry back to Auckland at the end of the night. So, fingers crossed this date is still avalible! Very excited!
 
Yay!! I think your wedding will be perfect there!

Fingers crossed that you get the 5th!
 
Great news, 4ever. Let us know how you go :appl:
 
YAY, Future Girl! :appl: It truly is a BEAUTIFUL venue!!! Congrats on getting something BIG crossed off the list!

...now to pick out the invites! :naughty:
 
vc10um|1297655376|2851159 said:
YAY, Future Girl! :appl: It truly is a BEAUTIFUL venue!!! Congrats on getting something BIG crossed off the list!

...now to pick out the invites! :naughty:


Thanks, feels exciting to have a venue and date.......and I need to pick colours before I pic invites. FI is firmly on black and white with purple accents- which is great because there is a lot of lavender around the site, but he does have a firm opinion considering he claims he dosn't care about wedding stuff and I should choose whatever I want :rolleyes:
 
Yay we got it!!! %th of April next year! :appl: *happy dance*
 
4ever|1297656828|2851186 said:
vc10um|1297655376|2851159 said:
YAY, Future Girl! :appl: It truly is a BEAUTIFUL venue!!! Congrats on getting something BIG crossed off the list!

...now to pick out the invites! :naughty:


Thanks, feels exciting to have a venue and date.......and I need to pick colours before I pic invites. FI is firmly on black and white with purple accents- which is great because there is a lot of lavender around the site, but he does have a firm opinion considering he claims he dosn't care about wedding stuff and I should choose whatever I want :rolleyes:

That last part made me LOL! :lol:

We're actually doing black and white (damask print to be specific) with amethyst and kelly green accents, and I'm SUPER excited. Just enough color to keep it interesting...and the patterned black and white is sophisticated without being snoozy.

The good...or bad?...thing is that both damask print and purple are SUPER popular right now. (I call myself a trend-setter because I picked all my stuff way before we were even engaged, so I was really head of my time :loopy: ) That means, while a lot of little details may be the same from wedding to wedding, all those little details are super easy to get your hands on and come in a range of prices to fit every budget. Good luck with making this next "big" decision!
 
4ever|1297657584|2851203 said:
Yay we got it!!! %th of April next year! :appl: *happy dance*


Translation: The 5th of April 2012.

VC- FI dislikes patterns and I'm not allowed to use them, he thinks most of them look like pub wallpaper :rolleyes: Again with the opinions!
 
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