Is this tacky? And CHEAPinvites wanted ($2.00 each including response cards)

[Gypsy]

We are going to have a wedding website. On our invites I would like to indicate that "formal daytime attire invited". Would it be tacky for me to include this link under an attire http://fashion.about.com/cs/tipsadvice/a/weddingguest.htm so that it gives the guest direction on what "formal daytime attire" is.

What does ''formal daytime attire" mean to you?

Also, I need CHEAP invitations, that are still miraculously nice, and I REALLY do not what to DIY. Any recommendations? Something contemporary.

 

[E B]

Around how many invitations do you think you''ll need?

 

[Gypsy]

Around 75.

 

[E B]

Well, it all depends on your color scheme/feel, but I quite like these from Seal ''N Send:

Juliette

$110.90 for 75, including the RSVP card. And if you don''t like the sage, you can choose another font color.

 

[Gypsy]

Hmm. Those are definitely an option, Ebree. They're much nicer, at least on the website than I thinking from the website name and everything. Worth ordering a sample! Thank you!

Anybody else got a deal under their sleeves?


Ebree, what do you think of these? They're more expensive, but also seem nicer. If they would do white ink, instead of black, They'd be perfect. But for the price, even the back ink will do.

Colors are green white orange and red.

 

[FacetFire]

I just want to suggest this site in case you haven't seen it, though they might be slightly over, because I think response cards are extra: http://www.weddingpaperdivas.com/

I wouldn't put the dress code or link on the invite personally, I would put it on your website.

ETA: Nevermind, I think Ebree's suggestions is much better for the money!

 

[zoebartlett]

Date: 1/12/2008 1:52:56 AM
Author:Gypsy
We are going to have a wedding website. On our invites I would like to indicate that ''formal daytime attire invited''. Would it be tacky for me to include this link under an attire http://fashion.about.com/cs/tipsadvice/a/weddingguest.htm so that it gives the guest direction on what ''formal daytime attire'' is.

What does ''formal daytime attire'' mean to you?

Also, I need CHEAP invitations, that are still miraculously nice, and I REALLY do not what to DIY. Any recommendations? Something contemporary.

Hi Gypsy,

I wouldn''t attach the link but that''s just me. I think people generally understand what appropriate attire is for a wedding. If it was a black tie affair, that might be worth noting somewhere but I don''t think it''s necessary to have "formal daytime attire" mentioned. That''s just my thought though. Honestly, I''d probably wear the same thing to your wedding that I''d wear to a wedding that was not described the same way. I think there are standard types of dresses or skirts that could be appropriate for either type of occasion and that''s what I try to stick to. Maybe others have different opinions though.

 

[anchor31]

I don''t know where you have those where you are, but I bought my invitations kits at Michael''s Arts and Crafts at 50 invites for $60 CAD.

Personally, I wouldn''t add the link. If they don''t know what formal daytime is, they''ll look it up.

 

[Sabine]

I wouldn''t put the link, and I also wouldn''t even mention what type of attire is invited on the invite. If people have questions about what they should wear, they can look on the webiste, ask people involved, etc. I feel in love with invites that are pretty cheap from exclusivelyweddings.com

 

[neatfreak]

I think the link is overboard personally...it implies that you don't trust them to come dressed appropriately.

I also second the suggestion of Wedding Paper Divas. Although they MIGHT be a few cents over your $2.00 for everything budget, they have a TON of contemporary beautiful invites, they're quick, and you will not have to do anything DIY. We used them and got a ton of compliments on everything. I probably have a 10% off code somewhere too for you, which will bring down the cost probably under budget.

DH's grandma even made the assumption that I was "from money" because of how classy she thought the invites were. Lol.

 

[dani13]

I agree with Neatfreak. Wedding Paper Divas makes beautiful invites...I considered using them, but in the end I used someone more local (and also spent way too much money, but we wont go there). I also think WPD's prices are reasonable....

I really believe invitations/paper products are something worth spending the $$$ on....they really sets the tone for the event, IMO.
Especially if you go for that vineyard wedding...that deserves something really pretty!

 

[Asscherhalo_lover]

www.exclusivlyweddings.com

great prices on invites, if you have time, order the catalog and you''ll get a coupon for an extra 15% off. or you could probably just call their phone # and they might give it to you if you mention it.....i paid $150 for 100 invites and response cards....

 

[teetee]

Hi Gypsy,
I honestly wouldn''t put the link on your website. I think that people will wear what they want. Just hope that your guests will use good judgement.

I have no idea on the invitations...haven''t gotten to that part yet.

 

[sumbride]

I wouldn''t say anything about attire on the invitation OR the website, and certainly don''t add the link! The title is "What to wear to a wedding" which seems a bit patronizing to me. It would bother me as a guest.

Unless you have an unusual attire, such as "black tie required", or "wear your cowboy boots and hats", or "no shoes, please", I think you can trust that your guests know what to wear. Besides, there isn''t much difference in the wording on that site between casual daytime and formal daytime... both recommended a short dress or a suit, but formal said you could wear hats and gloves... if people want to wear hats and gloves, they probably already know when they are appropriate.

Give your cues with the setting, the invitation, and the fonts. That''s all you''ll need.

 

[goldenstar]

Personally, I think its fine to put "formal daytime attire" on the website but not the invites. If your guests are from OOT or have never been to Wente they might not know the feel of the place.
As I guest I appreciate attire guidelines. I've never thought it tacky when I've seen it in the past. However, I don't think you should include the link. Its might be a little over the top.

 

[Hudson_Hawk]

I think attire guidelines totally depend on the specific situation (such as black tie, or theme). However there are always exceptions. Take our situation for example. At Fi''s cousin''s wedding 3 years ago, another cousin wore a pair of those clear acrylic stripper shoes-with light up heels, and a see-through dress with no undergarments. It was an "implied" formal affair...Our wedding, is going to be in the late afternoon with a formal reception, but the ceremony is on the beach. Due to the issue of the cousin and our complicated wedding set up (beachy yet formal) we''re going to have a line on our invites such as your "Daytime formal attire is appreciated" suggestion. I''m afraid people will hear that it''s a "beach" wedding and wear whatever they want-bathing suits,etc...*shudder*

 

[Gypsy]

Yeah, I thought the link was too patronizing. I don't trust them to dress appropriately, lol. I'm afraid I'll get everything from long gowns to jeans. My family and parent's friends overdress for events (sometimes), and John's family might underdress. I'll put the 'Daytime formal attire is appreciated' on somewhere, probably the webiste. And no link!

Thank you ladies, off to check the invite links you all posted!! Thank you!

http://www.weddingpaperdivas.com/products/ProductView_152.htm

These are a little over, but perfect. Really perfect. Love them! Coupon codes are GREAT!

 

[FacetFire]

Date: 1/12/2008 11:11:32 PM
Author: Gypsy
Yeah, I thought the link was too patronizing. I don''t trust them to dress appropriately, lol. I''m afraid I''ll get everything from long gowns to jeans. My family and parent''s friends overdress for events (sometimes), and John''s family might underdress. I''ll put the ''Daytime formal attire is appreciated'' on somewhere, probably the webiste. And no link!

Thank you ladies, off to check the invite links you all posted!! Thank you!

http://www.weddingpaperdivas.com/products/ProductView_152.htm

These are a little over, but perfect. Really perfect. Love them! Coupon codes are GREAT!

Ha-ha, Gypsy...I have the sample of that sitting right here on my desk! It was one of my favorites too! All my co-workers liked it the best when I showed them my options. I don''t think you''d be disappointed at all if you went with that one!

 

[Gypsy]

Date: 1/12/2008 11:26:21 PM
Author: FacetFire

Date: 1/12/2008 11:11:32 PM

Author: Gypsy

Yeah, I thought the link was too patronizing. I don''t trust them to dress appropriately, lol. I''m afraid I''ll get everything from long gowns to jeans. My family and parent''s friends overdress for events (sometimes), and John''s family might underdress. I''ll put the ''Daytime formal attire is appreciated'' on somewhere, probably the webiste. And no link!


Thank you ladies, off to check the invite links you all posted!! Thank you!


http://www.weddingpaperdivas.com/products/ProductView_152.htm


These are a little over, but perfect. Really perfect. Love them! Coupon codes are GREAT!

Ha-ha, Gypsy...I have the sample of that sitting right here on my desk! It was one of my favorites too! All my co-workers liked it the best when I showed them my options. I don''t think you''d be disappointed at all if you went with that one!

I think they''ll be lovely as well! And they are ORANGE but not too orange!