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I''ve been headhunted and I''m not sure how to proceed...

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bem3231

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Hi everyone -

So, long story short - I''ve been in an executive position within the public sector for nearly 10 years. I''ve gotten other very good job offers in the past, but I have an awesome job and am very well compensated - plus I have a fantastic staff, so it would take a lot to get me to consider leaving.

Recently I''ve been headhunted by one of the ''top 100'' corporations. They asked the search firm that they are using to specifically contact me for to consider three management positions that they are hiring for. All very flattering, but I''m kind of rusty and not sure how to approach the process. I have an ''informal'' meeting tomorrow am with one of the partners in the executive search firm that the company is using, the purpose of which is to see if any of the positions sound like a ''fit'' for me. If so, then I would have an interview with the corporation itself.

Thing is - I am getting married in two months, and FI and I are, unbeknown to anyone at my work, in the midst of purchasing property in another province. The ''plan'' would be to try to get pregnant soon after the wedding, work at my job until I take an early mat leave, and then functionally ''retire'' to pursue motherhood and help my FI run his dental practice. That said, I know that even the best laid plans sometimes go awry - who knows how long it will take for us to find and purchase property, build a house if need be, get a new practice established and, of course, get pregnant...

So, what I''m wondering is how much to ''disclose'' going into this pseudo-interview process. It may be that depending on how the cards fall one of these jobs may turn out to be a very good thing, and I don''t like closing doors on potential opportunities. Is the best approach to stay mum about my future ''plans'' until I get a better sense of how the interview process is going and of whether or not this new company sounds like a fit. Or, do I go into it being more upfront about my prospective life plans and see if they are flexible enough to work with me on creating some arrangement that may be mutually beneficial?

It''s been a long time since I''ve gone through an interview process, and never with a search firm. I''m just not sure how to proceed.

Any feedback or advice would be most appreciated.

Thank you!!
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Bem: your quote :"go into it being more upfront about my prospective life plans "

That is what I personally would do.I would also make sure to let them know that I am interested in this position.
You are in a good position and I think its in your benefit to be honest about your future plans.That way you will be kept on their active list just in case something does not work out with the person who they may have hired.Good luck to you.
 
I don''t think it''s ever a good idea to let that sort of personal information out in an interview process. Nothing''s set in stone, either, so why tell a headhunter that? Besides, what if it somehow gets back to your current employer? Personally, I would just go into it as if you are staying in your province and staying in the work force.
 
I agree with thing2 - I wouldn''t disclose anything that personal in an interview (not that I''ve had one, except for grad school...
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). But I just think its a need to know situation, and they don''t really need to know - as you say yourself, you don''t have anything set in stone and its hard to predict what the future will bring...
 
Stay mum...right now your just getting information. Now is not the time to get personal!!
 
Date: 5/29/2008 11:46:21 PM
Author: Ava15
Stay mum...right now your just getting information. Now is not the time to get personal!!
Ditto. You are there to get information, not give it.
 
Date: 5/29/2008 11:53:44 PM
Author: Kaleigh
Date: 5/29/2008 11:46:21 PM

Author: Ava15

Stay mum...right now your just getting information. Now is not the time to get personal!!
Ditto. You are there to get information, not give it.

Very good points all of you... the ''get information rather than give it'' tactic makes sense to me - at least for the time being.
 
Ditto with all of the above. Don''t divulge any information at the moment.
 
Aaaaabsolutely not. Don''t breathe a word about it. No. Way.
 
I wouldn''t disclose anything about your plans, but I might try to subtlely feel them out - ask about their culture, find out if there are opportunities to work from home, etc. Who knows - if you really ended up loving the position, it might be something you''d want to keep even after you start a family, but maybe just in a different capacity.
 
Agree with everyone here. Keep it quiet for now. Don''t be dishonest, but don''t "open your kimono", so to speak.
 
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