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We've been having a blast getting back the very creatively written blank RSVP's from our friends and family. Ours said only the equivalent of "Please respond by..." Two today were particularly entertaining.

One was from my cousin M, who is a hot-shot doctor who runs a big research institute, and has received state honours for his advances in his area of medicine. Anyway, Dude, like everyone else, was not addressed as "Doctor" on his invitation, just by his name. So the RSVP says something like "Ms. Cousin's Girlfriend and DOCTOR Cousin joyfully accept." DOCTOR. Yes, sir. Noted. DOCTOR. Bow bow. Scrape scrape. The emphasis was pretty hilarious.

But that was nowhere near as good as the first one that arrived today, via e-mail. I read a suggestion on here about putting a tiny number in the corner of the RSVP card on the back, in case someone forgets to write her name. I thought this was brilliant, and did so.

One of FI's friends, who is hysterical, noticed the number and got all mock-upset about having been assigned a 'number' and has, since he got his invite, been referring to himself on the phone and in all his e-mails and things with FI as "No. 67" instead of by his name.

No. 67 was invited to WP1 and WP2, the invitations for which were in different languages, and were differently formal to match the different formality of the events

So today he scanned and e-mailed his truly hilarious RSVP which was written in a mess of 3 languages, mixing up different degrees of formality. It is a work of art and made us laugh out loud. The best is that it has no name on it. But it ends with the fabulous flourish in French that "Nr. 67 dira OUI!"

We've got poems and drawings and all kinds of silliness. Ah. Yes. I can't recommend blank RSVP cards highly enough. The entertainment value alone is worth any possible mix-ups.
 
Those are classic responses--you should save them so you can look back on them later. Your friends sound wonderfully amusing!
 
Hahaha! Could you get away with putting No. 67 on his seating card, rather than his name? Just to carry the joke to ridiculous lengths...
 
Haha! Those sound like so much fun to get back!! I''d really like to send out the blank rsvp cards with our invites, but I''m pretty sure alot of our guests would have no clue what to do with it.
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But I am tempted!
 
Selkie the question is: can we get away with NOT doing that! That idea is genius. Hahahaha! I can't wait.
 
IG,
Fantastic! You know those Chinese calligraphy practice books, (how to describe, with one long sheet of parchment paper that folds back and forth?) Google found it! books You could paste the replies in something like this? A friend of mine had great responses on her cards and had them framed around her wedding pic, but I''m not sure if most folks have the wallspace for that. And I figured you are into interesting international stuff.

How exciting to have responses pouring in!
 
How funny! And hee I love the French.
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It really sounds fun getting creative responses, but I don't think we could get away with blank RSVP cards... We'd probably end up having our 50 aunts/uncles inviting our 100+ cousins along.
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Date: 2/1/2008 1:15:39 PM
Author: anchor31
How funny! And hee I love the French.
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It really sounds fun getting creative responses, but I don''t think we could get away with blank RSVP cards... We''d probably end up having our 50 aunts/uncles inviting our 100+ cousins along.
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I love this idea. And have to admit to a bit of envy that you have such cool guests. I''d probably be in a similar boat with Amber. LOL.
 
Date: 2/1/2008 10:12:44 AM
Author: Selkie
Hahaha! Could you get away with putting No. 67 on his seating card, rather than his name? Just to carry the joke to ridiculous lengths...

Oh my god. You absolutely MUST MUST do this!!!!!!
 
Date: 2/1/2008 4:50:39 PM
Author: neatfreak
Date: 2/1/2008 10:12:44 AM

Author: Selkie

Hahaha! Could you get away with putting No. 67 on his seating card, rather than his name? Just to carry the joke to ridiculous lengths...


Oh my god. You absolutely MUST MUST do this!!!!!!

I was thinking the same-you have to do this!! It would be so funny
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Oh, we''re doing it. I don''t think there''s any question about that.
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Like I said, how could we not.

Don''t you just hate it when you know something is going to be so funny, and you just have to wait SO LONG before you can execute the gag? GAH!
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That''s great!! I love the idea of doing blank rsvp cards. We were just going over the information to include on ours. I wish we were doing blank cards instead.
 
Great story! Now you''re making me re-think the whole online rsvp thing...
 
Date: 2/2/2008 1:50:40 AM
Author: violet02
Great story! Now you''re making me re-think the whole online rsvp thing...
I''m doing both (the on-line thing is with the STDs to hopefully weed out those who can''t come early on - so I can send formal invitations to those on my B list without them looking like B list)

I love the ''67'' thing - too funny!
 
I ran No. 67''s placecard by FI, who loves the idea. Can''t wait!
 
Date: 2/2/2008 9:13:20 AM
Author: Pandora II

Date: 2/2/2008 1:50:40 AM
Author: violet02
Great story! Now you''re making me re-think the whole online rsvp thing...
I''m doing both (the on-line thing is with the STDs to hopefully weed out those who can''t come early on - so I can send formal invitations to those on my B list without them looking like B list)

I love the ''67'' thing - too funny!
How are you working that out? I''ve been trying to figure out the best way to juggle the A/B list. My planner said the soonest I can send out invites for October is July and thats considered early... it is a semi-destination wedding though. We can''t seem to get anyone to commit one way or the other this early so I can''t even go near my B list. The worst part is my planner said we have to wait for responses by end of august and THEN I can invite my b-list.
 
Here''s how we handled it: we don''t have a B list.

There were two couples I nixed on my parents'' list whom I thought I might invite if the numbers are low. But honestly, I don''t think it will work out that way. We''re right about where we thought we would be.

Do you need to have a B-list? The thing is, nothing makes a person feel loved like realizing that they were second pick.
 
I don''t need a B list per se, but it contains about 10 friends who I many not see all the time but would love to have come. I just cannot fit them in with my current budget/guest count. Since we don''t see each other all the time and they know my guest list is tight they haven''t asked about being invited so I''m just keeping it quiet. I think the best way to pass it off later is to say that the wedding is very small but a bunch of relatives couldn''t come so we''d love to have you.... or something like that. I don''t know... its a tough call.
 
How about saying "I''m so excited! Even though the wedding is so small and family-heavy, but thankfully a lot of random cousins couldn''t come, so now I get to sneak you in before my mom adds any more random cousins. The wedding just wouldn''t have been half as fun without you." In other words, make them feel like A-list friends, not B-list guests. Know what I mean?

In that case, you can wait until several weeks before, and just give them a heads-up over the phone.
 
BTW, yesterday we got our first "write in". We invited a friend of FI''s on his own, since he''s single, and he replied "2 persons will attend". We don''t even have the name of the second person! FI said he''d talk to him today and see what the heck is what. But this is the first ''write-in'' and hopefully the last. (Except crazy aunt F making a big scene with my dad - in public as usual - because he said she couldn''t "bring a friend"...lady! you''re 62! you really can''t go to a party without bringing a friend?).
 
Date: 2/1/2008 5:06:45 PM
Author: Independent Gal
Oh, we''re doing it. I don''t think there''s any question about that.
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Like I said, how could we not.

Don''t you just hate it when you know something is going to be so funny, and you just have to wait SO LONG before you can execute the gag? GAH!
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Oh, good, I''m glad you don''t think I''m a classless jerk for suggesting it.
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He sounds like the kind of guy who will appreciate it!
 
FI talked to Mr. "Two Persons" write-in guy today and very cunningly got HIM to say "Actually, maybe I shouldn''t bring her. I don''t think it''s appropriate under the circumstances." FI was slick. Like Mr. Tact 2008. I was proud. And we didn''t even have to put any feet down.

Phew.
 
Great stories.

When the time comes for me to send out invites, I plan to buy invisible ink and a UV light reader so the numbers on the response cards will be invisible.
 
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