TheOptimist
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Nov 13, 2007
- Messages
- 16
Hi PSers. I am just now outing myself though I have been reading the LIW posts for quite some time now. I figured it was about time to out myself and say, "Hi!"
A little about myself, I have been dating my bf for over a year. We are both 26 (27 soon). I am in a little bit of a different situation than most of you because I have been married before (but he has not). Unfortunately, it became clear to me that my ex was not the guy I should be with, though we had been together for what seemed like forever.
My bf and I have always had this connection since we met. It's almost like meeting someone you have known for most of you life, it just felt like home. I don't believe in soul mates, but that seems to be the best word to describe what he is to me.
The last year has been wonderful. He has really shown me that love isn't always so hard and that sometimes, it just comes easily because it's right. He has shown me that a relationship is a partnership and not all one-sided. That doesn't mean we don't have our ups and downs but I know that he is the guy that I would like to spend the rest of my life with. He has told me that he believes that I am the person he is supposed to marry. He has never felt that way about anyone else. Like a typical guy, he has said that in the past, he has always ran away from the commitment because he just didn't feel that way about the girl. But he said that he knew from the moment he met me that he wanted to have it all with me. So...here I am. I am not sure when it will happen, but for most people it seems, usually around 2 years is a good time frame. Especially since we are a bit older. I think the next time I do it, I won't have the big wedding, I have already done that. It wasn't me. Now I know that I would have much rather had a destination wedding on a beach somewhere.
That's about it. I look forward to talking to all of you and joining the LIWs.
A little about myself, I have been dating my bf for over a year. We are both 26 (27 soon). I am in a little bit of a different situation than most of you because I have been married before (but he has not). Unfortunately, it became clear to me that my ex was not the guy I should be with, though we had been together for what seemed like forever.
My bf and I have always had this connection since we met. It's almost like meeting someone you have known for most of you life, it just felt like home. I don't believe in soul mates, but that seems to be the best word to describe what he is to me.
That's about it. I look forward to talking to all of you and joining the LIWs.