My BF said the sweetest thing last night

[Cailet]

He''s been looking at investments and he was going through all of the options with me and was talking about an IRA (honestly I wasn''t paying all that much attention to the different names so it could be any of them). And he was saying that that looked good -but the downside is that he couldn''t get at that money without paying a penalty fee until he was 60. But that he could pull the money out as long as he or a member of his family were to use it for higher education. Then he stops - looks at me and says - "well you will be my family soon so we could use the money for you to go back to school!"

Ok - maybe it just seems sweet to me - but for him to bring something up like that so randomly really just makes me see that he is thinking about getting married as much as I am (well maybe not AS much LOL) And I know that he is meaning BOY soon and not Girl soon - but still!!

In any case it was an awesome moment for us - and he was super cuddly and affecionate all night long. awwwww
In a weird way when he acts so sweet - and brings up stuff about our future together it makes me forget to worry about the WHEN part and just relax and enjoy being with him.

Just had to post today

 

[AmberWaves]

I think that is very sweet. Don''t you just love the little private, "I know why I''m with you" moments? As for IRAs, I have one, and all that money in there is killing me! I''m like, I could totally use that to buy my ring, and the wedding... But minus the taxes on it, never mind! Sounds like you''ve got a real keeper.

 

[SoonIHope]

Awww, that is so cute!!

Reading little stories like that totally makes me feel all warm and fuzzy!

Sounds like you''ve got a good one!!

 

[KissyKissy]

I TOTALLY know what you mean about "boy soon" and "girl soon". We''re talking about a date that is in the fall of 2007 and at the exact SAME time we said "That is SOOOOO far/soon!" (Me saying far away, him saying soon!) Haha. Boys drop little clues in the funniest ways

 

[Shay]

Awww that really is sweet!

 

[Cailet]

Amber - thanks! I know he is really debating what he wants to do investment wise - since everything would be pretty long term and tie up a chunk of money for a while. Nice to know he is evaluating the options with me - and our future - in mind!

Kissy - too funny! My guy does the same thing -- we set a 2006 timeline for getting engaged and then getting married "whenever I am done planning" (LOL) and he thinks all of that is "soon". It seems SOOOO long to me!!

 

[aljdewey]

Date: 2/8/2006 11:42:34 AM
Author:Cailet

In a weird way when he acts so sweet - and brings up stuff about our future together it makes me forget to worry about the WHEN part and just relax and enjoy being with him.

THIS is what it''s all about. Just enjoy being together, and the rest will come.

YAY!