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Lilac

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So I know I''m not technically a bride anymore (I got married in February), but I just wanted to share my excitement about the present my husband gave me/arranged for my 21st birthday yesterday!

A little bit of background: When we got married in February (in New York, so it''s right in the middle of winter at that time of year), I was so worried it would be bad weather, snowing, raining, etc. But on February 8 we woke up and it was beautiful! 60 degrees and sunny and I was unbelievably excited to take some pictures outside because the place we got married has such a pretty view outside and a gorgeous gazebo and pretty trees. We got to the hall, got dressed, and started taking pictures and I asked my photographer if we could go outside for some pictures. He refused. I BEGGED him to go outside. Still refused. I was upset about it, but since it was my wedding day and I didn''t want it ruined I let it drop and I also had a million other things on my mind. The day was beautiful - the best day and night of my life. Everything went smoothly and everything was incredible, but the one thing I have regretted every single day and the one and only thing that really has upset me is that we have no outdoor pictures from that beautiful venue when it was such a gorgeous day.

Fast forward to last night (my birthday): My husband gave me presents Tuesday night after midnight and then yesterday morning before he went to work and I thought that was it for the presents. Last night he came home from work and took me to a really nice restaurant in Manhattan and when we came home he said he had one more present for me. He said he can''t actually give it to me right now, but he made something for me and I have to guess what the present is from it. He handed me a booklet of papers - it was a picture on each page of something and I had to guess the pictures and put it all together. There was a picture of me, one of him, one of flowers, one of Men''s Warehouse, one of the place I got my hair and makeup done, one of the hall we got married at, and one of a photographer. Basically, he got his tux cleaned and rented a vest/tie from Men''s Warehouse again, he arranged with my mom to have my wedding dress out and made sure it was clean, and he called up the hall and got permission to come back tomorrow (July 3 - when he has off from work for July 4th weekend). He made me an appointment to get my hair, makeup, and nails done tomorrow morning, and he hired a photographer (a different one) to come take pictures of us for an hour or 2 outside there!!! I can''t believe how thoughtful he was to do something like this - I really feel like the luckiest girl in the world for having a husband who would do something like this for me
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I know it might sound silly to get all dressed up again almost like we''re pretending it''s our wedding day again and taking "fake" wedding pictures, but I''m so so so excited about this and I really can''t wait to have those pictures! I''m just praying it doesn''t rain tomorrow (like it has EVERY SINGLE DAY for the last month) and everything goes smoothly. Can I get some dust for good weather and great pictures, please??
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What an incredibly thoughtful hubby!!!! (and an incredible jerk of a photographer who wouldn''t let you take pics outside
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That is one of the swetest presents I''ve ever read about on here!!

Lots of beautiful pic dust to you!!!
 
WOW... That''s the best gift ever!!!

Sending you tons of dust for a sunny day, and don''t forget to share some pics with us!!
 
Awww so sweet! You got a winner!

But I don''t understand, why wouldn''t the original photographer go outside?
 
Date: 7/2/2009 9:21:08 AM
Author: Honey228
Awww so sweet! You got a winner!


But I don''t understand, why wouldn''t the original photographer go outside?


Honestly, I have no idea. He said something about the sun being in the wrong position or something (for the whole entire time we were taking pictures??) But based on his other behavior he clearly was just plain lazy. He also refused to take some indoor shots we wanted and refused to move from the one spot he chose inside so now all our pictures look the same and have bad lighting. There were also SO many times he missed shots because he was just sitting on the side staring off into space and at one point he went to the bar and got a drink and sat down to drink it (and I''m talking alcohol - I have no problem with the guy taking a drink of water or soda or whatever, but drinking alcohol at my wedding during KEY moments when he should have been taking pictures was very upsetting). We even had another photographer who was taking other pictures (but he wasn''t the main one so he got less shots) and in his pictures he captured the first photographer doing absolutely nothing in half the pictures! It was kind of funny after the fact other than the lack of amazing pictures.

Advice to everyone - make sure to meet your photographer, have an engagement photo shoot with the specific photographer you''ll be using for your wedding, and be VERY clear with what kind of pictures you want before your big day!

If these pictures work out though tomorrow and the weather holds up, it''ll all be worth it. I''m so grateful to my husband for thinking of me and caring so much to do this for me.
 
Oh my goodness, that is so thoughtful of your DH! Fingers crossed for no rain! (my friend is getting married in NH tomorrow, so I''ll do a general no rain finger crossing for the whole northeast
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Oh my gosh that is so sweet! I got goosebumps! You have such a thoughtful husband! I think it''s a great idea to go back and take the pictures you never got. There were some from our wedding day I wish we would have gotten and just didn''t get a chance to and I''ve thought of going back and re-doing them too. I can''t wait to see them! That is so exciting!
 
That''s the sweetest thing I''ve ever heard! Aw. Crossing all fingers and legs for you!
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What a wonderful present! Your husband is a real sweetie. Happy Birthday!
 
That''s one of the best gifts I''ve heard about, happy birthday!
 
That''s so sweet and thoughtful of him! Make sure you come back and share the pictures with us!
 
glad you made it legal with this one...he''s a keeper :) have a fabulous time!!! how romantic!
 
and you get to wear your dress again! yay!!!
 
That is so sweet. Sending lots of dust your way!


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Oh your husband sounds amazing. You are a lucky woman.

Enjoy the photo shoot and be sure to post some pictures!
 
How sweet of your DH! Any excuse to put that gown back on is a great one! I''m curious how you''ll feel once you''re out there. DH and I plan on going around Philly with a photographer in our wedding gear again because we want some wedding pics in the city where we pretty much live. I''m nervous about how I''ll feel going through the motions again but I still think it will be tons of fun!

Enjoy yourself!
 
That is one of the sweetest things I''ve ever heard!! What a thoughtful guy. That''s going to be a wonderful day.
 
WOW!!! What an incredibly beautiful thoughtful thing for your hubby to do! I am so glad you will get your second chance for fabulous pics, don''t forget to come back here and post lots!!!
 
Thanks for the dust, everyone! Just wanted to let you all know we just got back from taking the pictures and it was PERFECT weather and such a beautiful day!!! Can''t wait to get them back to see them! He said he''ll call us in about a week when they''re ready... I''m a little nervous I REALLLLLLY hope they came out good!

Hope everyone has a great holiday weekend!
 
Lilac! I am so happy for you guys! Can''t wait to see you pics
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