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I''m not engaged yet, but with the engagement getting closer, I''m really feeling these "oh my god this is really forever" feelings. But how do you know when these feelings of being overwhelmed and a little scared are natural, and when they mean that you''re not quite ready for marriage yet? I''m not in any hurry to get married, and in fact we''ve planned it for two to three years from now (mid-20s now), but I''ve had these feelings ever since we got the ring and the engagement has gotten closer and closer. I don''t want to still be scared about the whole forever thing once we''re engaged. It''s just that the whole thing is such a big decision--how do I know I''m making the right one?