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museikchik

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I never do this but I am soo irritated right now. So anyway yesterday I get out of my dentist appointment and see that I have a message from my brother. I start to listen to the message he left and it didn''t make any sense so I called him to find out what was going on.


He then tells me he got a call from Volkswagen credit and they told him that they wanted to defer his payment for this month. I know that never happens, so I tell him this. Then he admits that he was the one who called them to tell them he couldn''t make a payment this month so that he would need to defer the payment. I told him that I had already made the payment for the month and that he should have called me. I tell him I am quitting my job, my last day is next Friday and I won''t be having any incoming funds. Will you be able to make this month''s payment and next month''s payment as well? He doesn''t answer the question and then gets pissed off at me for even asking him! I then tell him that my mouth really hurts (it is still numb from the dentist and that I would have to talk to him later).


As soon as I hang up, I start freaking out and totally start crying. Only thing is that because half my face is numb, I am only crying out of one side of my face which pissed me off even more. So I call my mom and tell her that I am venting and that I don''t need for her to call my brother and get mad at him because it won''t help. I begin the conversation by telling her that her son is an idiot (not what I really said but I can''t write that here) and then proceed to tell her what happened.


She then tells me that she understands why I am soo angry. What gets me soo upset is that I didn''t want my parents to help me with anything for the wedding. I was depending on that $350 to help me pay for the bridal shower and now I don''t have that money because my brother is an idiot. My mom tells me that they will help me but they have said that in the past and nothing ever comes of it. So basically I am out $350. I can''t even tell my FI about it because he won''t make the situation any better (he can''t stand my brother). All I know is that I totally don''t need any of this right now.

 
That is really a tough situation. I am sorry. I cannot even imagine. I just wanted to give you a huge hug and wish you the best. Remember, things were pretty dark for the catapliiar before he emerged the cocoon a butterfly.
 
No advice or insight, but major ::hugs::
 
I''m so sorry your going through this...money situations and family are tricky for sure.
I can only offer you support...Come vent whenever you''d like!
 
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