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Please help! We are visiting our jeweller next week to reset the diamond from my original engagement ring into a necklace. It’ll be set in 18kt rose gold. This is a super important project because it will be my 10th wedding anniversary gift & hopefully something I wear daily.

My diamond is round, approx 0.3ct bought from a store before I knew about diamonds. I don’t remember much about the specs, only that it’s a J but looks lovely & white & sparkly to me.

I’m pretty much struggling with most aspects of the design.

Bezel/basket:

Husband wants to replicate the T&Co DBTY fixed pendant. This seems like a really versatile design for layering etc but I’m more drawn to the Cartier d’amour double bezel. However, they seem to do this design with much smaller diamonds so I’m wondering if it’ll look too chunky on my diamond.

Here’s the Cartier design

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Here’s a pic I found (most likely on here!) which I LOVE. Would the more dainty double bezel of the 2nd pendant here look better than the Cartier version? I won’t have any milgrain.

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Alternatively, I think this is very pretty without any bezel but wondering if my diamond will get lost.

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How it’s fixed to chain:

I’m also concerned about the “fixed” element. My understanding is that the diamond will travel up my neck?

I could do a slider pendant instead but my biggest pet hate is the clasp migrating to the front. Drives me crazy. If I did go this route I’d have to decide whether the chain goes through the basket (does this cause flipping??) or if we have a bale. I hate big bales but thought this was pretty:


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As you can see, I’m all over the place!! Would really appreciate your advice.
 
I think you will find many different opinions on this. Some people love bezels that slide on the chain (me), some people like bezels that are fixed. Some prefer baskets over bezels, some like bales. So you really have to decide what you like. If the clasp migrating to the front is the thing you hate the most, then maybe you want your pendant fixed. For me, what I hate the most is the diamond migrating up my neck, so I like my pendants to slide. I think with a stone your size, a bezel will give it a little more size if that's what your looking for. Either of the bezels that you pictured, should work. Obviously the Cartier will show more metal just because of the style.
 
I think you will find many different opinions on this. Some people love bezels that slide on the chain (me), some people like bezels that are fixed. Some prefer baskets over bezels, some like bales. So you really have to decide what you like. If the clasp migrating to the front is the thing you hate the most, then maybe you want your pendant fixed. For me, what I hate the most is the diamond migrating up my neck, so I like my pendants to slide. I think with a stone your size, a bezel will give it a little more size if that's what your looking for. Either of the bezels that you pictured, should work. Obviously the Cartier will show more metal just because of the style.

Thanks for your thoughts! I’m leaning towards a very thin double bezel, so less metal than the Cartier version. Something more like the milgrain photo above. I think it’ll add a bit of interest. Wondering if the extra weight would also help it stay centred if I were to go with a fixed pendant.
 
Thanks for your thoughts! I’m leaning towards a very thin double bezel, so less metal than the Cartier version. Something more like the milgrain photo above. I think it’ll add a bit of interest. Wondering if the extra weight would also help it stay centred if I were to go with a fixed pendant.

I think a fixed pendant has to be ‘fixed’ at exactly the correct points so that it doesn’t flip. Make sure your jeweler knows what those points are so you are not disappointed with the pendant.
 
I 100% agree with @Lookinagain about having the stone slide on the chain. I have a fixed pendant necklace and constantly needing to recenter it on my neck.

I am a bezel lover and feel it’s the most durable setting. The Cartier step bezel design makes the stone appear larger. I am a huge fan of the double milgrain design.

Here is my .38 lab diamond in brushed white gold. It’s the most comfortable and wearable necklace I own. David Klass.

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I 100% agree with @Lookinagain about having the stone slide on the chain. I have a fixed pendant necklace and constantly needing to recenter it on my neck.

I am a bezel lover and feel it’s the most durable setting. The Cartier step bezel design makes the stone appear larger. I am a huge fan of the double milgrain design.

Here is my .38 lab diamond in brushed white gold. It’s the most comfortable and wearable necklace I own. David Klass.

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Thanks for the photos of your necklace! Do you find that the clasp is constantly moving to the front? Is there any way of avoiding this?
 
Thanks for the photos of your necklace! Do you find that the clasp is constantly moving to the front? Is there any way of avoiding this?

I'm not @luckygreen317 (obviously :) ) but as someone who owns both slide pendants and fixed pendants, I find that with the fixed pendant, the stone gets off center frequently and that really bothers me. I have to adjust it several times a day and I'm always feeling for it to make sure it is centered. With my slide pendants, I only have to adjust the clasp occasionally, and sometimes never in a day. I should note that my fixed pendant is in a basket, while my slide pendants are in bezels. Perhaps that affects things. I'm not sure.
 
I like the double bezel and do not think it will look clunky. As for fixed v. slide… I hate clasps more than off-centerdness! So it is up to you. I think a necklace like this will work out beautifully for daily wear.
 
Hi!
From my own mistakes, I suggest you slide prong setting with a small bale.
# 13 &#14 : my previous 0.3 ct solitaire necklace - I upgraded to 0.55 ct some years ago (and put it in a six prong setting with bale)

 
Hi!
From my own mistakes, I suggest you slide prong setting with a small bale.
# 13 &#14 : my previous 0.3 ct solitaire necklace - I upgraded to 0.55 ct some years ago (and put it in a six prong setting with bale)


Would a prong setting need a bale? Could the chain slide through the basket? Or I think it can still be fixed to a chain. I’m really trying to avoid a bale if possible.
 
Thanks for the photos of your necklace! Do you find that the clasp is constantly moving to the front? Is there any way of avoiding this?

The clasp moves a little to the side of my neck but not often enough to go to a fixed pendant. The slide pendant does have some weight to it that I think helps keep the chain clasp in the back.
 
Would a prong setting need a bale? Could the chain slide through the basket? Or I think it can still be fixed to a chain. I’m really trying to avoid a bale if possible.

I wanted to avoid the bale too, but in my experience the bale prevents the setting to go upside down.
Again, just my experience.
 
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