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I guess this is going to be a little bit like a blog.
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But finding the perfect venue for a miniscule March wedding isn't going to be easy.
We've decided to think local first and then start looking at other states.
Fortunately there are alot of likely looking places in New mexico for weddings. Since it's going to be so small, about 20-25 people alltogether, I want the wedding to be really high quality, really classy, and with a spectaular setting. I guess I'm a bit worried that it won't feel enough like a wedding, which is a stupid thing to worry about.
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Anyway...
First off was Sunrise Springs spa and retreat. It's got lots of spring-fed ponds and water features with a venue looking over the ponds called the moonhouse which would have been the perfect size. It sounded and looked very promising online. I stopped by on monday and it would be a very nice place to get married... in August. Most of the appeal comes from the lovely old weeping willows draped over the ponds. Somehow I don't think it'll be as appealing in the late winter. Also the venue, the moonhouse, was far too ... roughhewn for me. It didn't exude the sort of quality I wanted. Basically I was highly unimpressed. Besides my grandmother couldn't navigate the rough stone steps. This one goes in the NO pile.
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Next was Bishop's Lodge Ranch and Resort, a really popular place for weddings. I visted there yesterday on my way back from looking at houses. Again, it would be a lovely and elegant place for a summer, fall, or late spring wedding with great outdoor locations. But for a small winter wedding I was interested in the Bishop's chapel. I probably should have looked around more and gotten the key for the chapel, but I just didn't 'feel' it there, if you know what I mean? The outside of the chapel seemed kinda shabby. With all the lovely flowers in bloom it looked picturesque and charming in an old west/new mexican kind of way. But without the flowers the outside would have a view of all those mechanical bits of the hotel that I could hear so very clearly. I didn't look at the inside lounge I was interested in, so I really should go back. All in all, this venue goes in the Probably Not pile.
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Our next top choices are in Taos, and I'm not sure when I can go see them since we're leaving this weekend for Colorado for a 9 day trip. I'm feeling really good about them, though. Here are the websites:
Adobe Adobes Rental homes, we're interested in the Casa Bella Vida. He likes it since he found the info, and I think getting married in the living room by the fireplace and the window could be really perfect.
Pics of the house
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another top place in Taos is the El Monte Sagrado Eco-Spa. We could get married in front of their indoor waterfall, or in their salon with a great view behind us.
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I really like the last two! The house is beautiful and could be perfect, but can they move the furniture in the living room or would you have to work around it? It could be awkward to set it up the way you want with those big leather sofas. The fireplace is lovely though and it''s just a gorgeous house. March is too cold for an outdoor ceremony, right? I''m trying to picture March in Taos and having never been to Taos, I can''t!
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The spa is also very cool... I think that stone circle is amazing, but also outside. The indoor bio area does look lovely though and so does the salon, provided they can move that big giant boardroom table out of it.

I think you''re off to a great start!
 
Casa Bella Vida is my favorite of all of those, by far. I think the living room would be more than spacious enough for 25 people, and you''d have some kick*ss wedding photos with the scenery there. It''s breathtaking. Is it close enough to lodgings for your guests?
 
I''m not sure exactly how far in NM you''d want to travel, but the tramway at Sandia Peak would be a neat accent--perhaps a ride up for *exclusivly* your wedding and photograph some shots up there and then come back down and do something extra classy? It''s just so beautful up there, my grandfather (who is slighltly feeble but managed well) took us out there at Christmas--my grandmother grew up near there.

Off to ponder further...
 
Okay. In a word? WOW. Forget the first two... the two locations in Taos knocked my socks off. Seriously AMAZING locations. Just stunning. Personally I ADORED the first... until I opened up the second... and fell in love with that one too!! So much charm and unique personality and just WOW! The second has a wedding package for an eloping couple that is TO DIE FOR. Have I mentioned how much I want to do this? But... well. Back to your wedding. I think either one is fabulous. I would make the decision based on service. Which location really wants your business and makes you feel special, like a bride. If they both do then... well. Flip a coin. LOL. If both have equally good service then you can''t lose either way. Oh I can''t wait for your pics!
 
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And the quest goes on.

The eco-spa place has a 10 room for 2 nights requirement... I don''t know anyone who''ll spend $350 a night. That''s $7k! Plus it''ll be about $100 per head just for food and low-quality drinks. My fi would call everything off right then and there if I spent that much, and we''re not even paying for it!
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I''m going up to Taos tomorrow so I''ll stop by and see it anyway. but still!

The house I really loved is booked all of March. In fact they may no longer have that house available ... ever. So tomorrow I''m going to look at their larger house which has a ballroom.

Is it always this hard??
 
On a budget? Yes! With BUCKETS of money? Probably not. Wouldn''t it be lovely to find out? I''ll volunteer for that experiment!
 
Ok that''s it! I''m fed up already with this whole thing. I''m sick of worrying myself into near tears that our diverse guests won''t have fun. I''m sick of trying to find someplace that I care about locally. Not a single place around here is doing anything for me, and I just can''t envision myself having fun anymore. It''s like it''s turning into a ballooning monster!!

The last straw was when my fi called me from work and said he didn''t want anything extravagant or that he''d end up dreading. (his definition of extravagant bears no resemblance to a normal person''s definition). Could we have minimal decorations, zen/japanese-like where they put two flowers in a room and it looks beautiful. And he''s distressed by my insistence on a white wedding dress since he doesn''t want to wear an uncomfortable suit. AND he only wants to invite people he cares about and knows, and sees alot... just because they''re related... etc.. Maybe we should think about Vegas... etc...

After that conv I just wanted to stick my head under a pillow for the next few months. ... Until it suddenly dawned on me that we should just go back to my original idea. HAWAII !! It fixes every single point of conflict. Extended family? Don''t invite them. Friends not getting along? Same thing. He wants to wear shorts and birkenstock and I want a simple yet elegant white silk dress. Not a problem! Can''t agree on decorations? Don''t need ''em. Can''t agree on music? Don''t need that either, just the sound of the waves. I want a classy resort and he wants a casual,comfy feel? No problem! He doesn''t want us to spend months planning this and end up not looking forward to it. That''s what the resort wedding planner is for! Almost no work involved! Plus I''m guaranteed to get my warm beach and ocean honeymoon I wanted, yet he can have his visit ancient ruins and see geeky stuff honeymoon.

Thanks to my sister''s summer-long wedding festivities, we can fly out our families and put them up in the resort yet I won''t feel guilty about asking my parents to shell out for it. Expense for his family was the deal-breaker for this idea when I brought it up a couple of months ago.

Where I want to have it: http://www.fairmont.com/orchid/

Well, here''s hoping I can get him to firmly sign off on the idea tonight!
 
Sounds like the perfect idea! Hope it goes well!
 
Go for it honey. And don''t take no for an answer.
 
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