Honestly,.....I wouldn't push, and I wouldn't check in.Date: 3/28/2006 4:45:04 PM
Author: LIW13
Hi...yes, it does get discussed in the 'after we are married' context, casually.
I just don't want to push to hard....but, I also want to 'check in' in a way.....seems like the time may be coming for that.
He always does exactly what he says he's going to do.....so I had no idea I'd be stressing this soooo much!!!
Thanks for the feedback
We lived an hour away for 1 ½ years, then I left for school in January 2005. We''re living six hours apart right now, but when I''ll be back home at the end of April, it''ll be an hour again. Then, I''ll start school again in a local college, and we won''t be long distance anymore!! He works in the same city I will study/live in, and lives close by! So, I know how you feel, ladies.Date: 3/28/2006 7:51:43 PM
Author: Mandarine
we also live an hour away
Date: 3/28/2006 8:25:21 PM
Author: aljdewey
Sometimes, patience is the best virtue to have. The lease, etc. can all be worked out. You should plan your life as though you will be unengaged until 12/31/06, and do what you need to do.
Relax, enjoy and let it happen.