Waiting and hoping for the conclusion of "soon..."

[Junkenpo]

Just feeling a little lonesome, ladies... i''m at work after hours catching up on things that pile up....and work has been a little difficult lately. Stressful & draining....

My BF and I are in a distance relationship & timing has been off recently.... I haven''t seen him for over a month, and our conversations have been snatched during our drives to work in the wee early hours of the morning. I haven''t spoken to him today & I''ve got a sad movie playing in the background... the main character is being hung for crimes he didn''t commit & wouldn''t give a false confession, so he''s martyring himself for truth & a cause.... and he leaves behind a wife that loves him.

I just finished bawling like a baby--I didn''t realize how much I''ve needed to cry.

I love my boyfriend, and I''m pretty sure he''s going to propose before the year is out, but I miss him and I can''t help but wish he were here.... because even when I get the proposal, I know it''ll still be a few months beyond that before he moves home.

I just needed to vent to the women who I know would understand where I''m coming from...thanks for listening and all your support.

 

[Haven]

Oh, Junkenpo, I''m sorry to hear that you''re going through such a difficult time.

I was in a LDR once and we sent letters to each other a lot and, you know what, it felt really good to actually write those letters. Getting his letters was pretty nice, too, but the writing them was therapeutic. I know this isn''t a fast solution, but it did help.

In the meantime, do you have any comfort movies? Mine are When Harry Met Sally and Breakfast at Tiffany''s--they ALWAYS make me feel good, no matter what is going on in my life.

And you could daydream about the proposal that is going to happen before you know it, and collect ring pictures, and retreat inside happy, flowery dreams of proposals and weddings.

You''ll get through this tough time, Junkenpo, you will!

 

[zhuzhu]

Hi Sweeite,

I am in the same situation as my boyfriend lives in the eats coast and I live in the west coast (recently moved for job). He plans to move here eventually but his work project and house make the move impossible for at lest 6 months or more. I feel your pain and wish him can come THIS EVENING everyday. However I find it helpful to talk on the phone and skype, using a web camera so you can see each other everyday. It is manageable but you have to have faith/love and be strong. Take care and know that nothing is impossible as long as you love each other!

HUGS!!!!

 

[bee*]

sorry to hear that you''re feeling down

It must be really difficult being in a LDR. Hope things get better soon and he can move nearer to you.

 

[Delster]

Junkenpo how are you doing today?

Sometimes you just need those weepy nights! I think it''s good to get it out of your system. Long distance is so hard (unfortunately I know all about it!).

 

[lsyama]

Date: 9/17/2007 6:47:36 AM
Author: Delster
Junkenpo how are you doing today?

Sometimes you just need those weepy nights! I think it''s good to get it out of your system.

Yes, I hope you''re doing better today!
I agree that sometimes all the stresses build up and you just need to cry and let it all out.

 

[anchor31]

I''m sorry you''re going through a bad time. LD is so hard... but once it''s over it''s worth it, I promise!

 

[ladypirate]

In the meantime, do you have any comfort movies? Mine are When Harry Met Sally and Breakfast at Tiffany''s--they ALWAYS make me feel good, no matter what is going on in my life.

Mine are "The Princess Bride" and "Dave"--I don''t even know why, but those always make me feel better.

I hope you''re feeling better, Junkenpo. LDRs are so tough, but when he gets home and you get to see each other ever day, this won''t be more than a distant memory. *Hugs*

 

[Junkenpo]

Thanks for the support ladies!

I guess my nagging has done some good bc he''s coming to visit me for the weekend this coming weekend. I can''t wait... it''s good to see him, and it''s hard to see him go.

I''m just telling myself over and over that it''ll all be done next spring and he''ll be home for good. He''s worth the wait.... i just hope i don''t go too crazy in the mean time!

 

[lsyama]

Date: 9/18/2007 12:57:56 AM
Author: Junkenpo


he''s coming to visit me for the weekend this coming weekend. I can''t wait...

That''s excellent! Have a great weekend!!