Wanting to introduce myself! :)

[BabyJRu1202]

Hey Ladies I've been a lurker for wellll... a couple of years. Just wanted to give a quick run down of me since you'll see me more frequently on here!

2 years ago my SO (at the time) and I broke up. We were highschool sweethearts and dated for 6 years. I found comfort in this forum bc I knew plenty of other ladies were feeling the same itch that I was at the time before he and I went our seperate ways. I thought I was ready and he just wasn't. But! Without a shadow of a doubt I believe there was a greater plan at work even though at the time of course I was devestated. Looking back, I know we weren't right for each other and needless to say I'm glad he had to the courage to see it, say it and change it. I think I wanted more of the wedding than him. ( sad to say)

Soo... fast forward 2yrs later and here I am again! And all smiles now! Bc I can say with confidence that I believe its going to happen for me with the man I've now fallen in love with! Eeeee! It's so exciting!! I spent 6yrs with my ex and never once felt like how I do with this one. They say when you know you know... but i never could figure out how you just "knew". Yes i know..That was a HUGE red flag after all that time together. But this one is a keeper ladies and I'm keeping him! hehe

Im just going to wait and whether it happens 6mths from now or 10yrs from now it doesn't matter bc i'm finally so happy that I can't stand myself and my face hurts from smiling lol

Thanks for reading girlies! You have no idea how much you've been a support system secretly to us lukers let alone to those who you ladies all know well

BabyJRu*

 

[Grlsbestfrnd]

Congrats on finding such a wonderful guy and welcome to the LIW family!

 

[MBKRH]

Hello, and welcome!

I can understand your predicament with your ex. I am with my current SO for six years.... and well, we are definitely in a rut. I don't want to thread jack your introduction, so we will just leave it at "if it happens, it happens, and if not.... I've wasted a lot of my time."

Your new guy sounds wonderful, and I hope the best for you!

 

[HaloBelle]

WELCOME!! Congrats on joining the family. Even those of us who are not on here all the time feel a sense of family and comfort. Your story is a very inspirational one and I am so happy for you. Keep up the high spirits and may your wait be short and sweet!!

 

[blacksand]

Welcome and congrats on finding a keeper. I think, when you are with your high school sweetheart, it's hard to fathom that you could ever possibly love someone else. You may not be with the right person, but if it's all you've ever known, then love is an emotion tied exclusively to that one person in your brain, and you cannot see any alternative. I've definitely been there, and it is absolutely soul-crushing when a relationship like that ends, because you are mourning the loss not only of the relationship, but also of everything you've ever believed about love. It can change your whole belief system. I know it did for me. But when you suddenly find yourself with the right person, and you realize how much easier and happier everything is, you finally realize how worthwhile it was to go through what you went through. Then something clicks and you realize "Oh! This is what everyone was talking about all those years." That's a pretty awesome feeling.

 

[BabyJRu1202]

Thanks ladies for the support I def hope to offer some along the way... Blacksand I don't think you could've worded it ANY better.

 

[maebelle]

Congrats and Welcome!

 

[TwinkleStar]

Congrats,and welcome!! I am in love with your super romantic story! /swoon

 

[MayFlowers]

Welcome! Hope you don't have to stay too long!