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Wedding band for fiancee — IDJ in NYC

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Hello everybody!

I’m recently engaged and have been going through the process of choosing a wedding band (and vendor!) with my fiancee (FI). I would love any thoughts/comments that the people here might have.

1) We are based in NYC and it was important for my FI that we go to someone local to facilitate the process which in my mind brought IDJ to the top of the potential list of vendors for me. I’ve spoken with Yekutiel and he knows i’m from PS and would want “PS Quality” diamonds.
2) The engagement ring is a 7.48mm solitaire (Equivalent to avg 1.58ct in size), G VS1 — Brilliance focused type stone. FI finger size is 6.25.
3) Our goal for the the wedding band is for it to be versatile, able to do stacking and size-able enough for FI to wear it alone on her ring finger at times.

I’ve taken her to a few stores for us to learn what she wants. We looked at pieces like this but FI thought they weren’t big enough if she used them alone:

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We eventually found one style she liked at (cringe at the 6.5k price) Tiffany: 7 Stone ring, 8 pointers for a total of 0.57ctw. They LOOKED bigger than 8 pointers to me which made me think the label was wrong…

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I then took FI to IDJ on 47th street’s diamond district. We met with Yekutiel, who came across as a very warm kind person, and worked with one of his very nice female SA’s.

I made it a point to express that i’m from Pricescope, how we want PS quality when they give us quotes, etc. What that seems to mean, based on my conversations, is: F color, SI clarity but 101% eye clean (I mentioned I was a bit picky but SA laughed and just said I was from PS), excellent-ideal diamonds. I indicated that I was not stressed by hearts and arrows here but that I wanted the ideal table/crown/pavillion proportions to avoid light leakage. I said i’d request ASET images for these tiny stones and they were very kind by agreeing to provide that for me. Overall, a very positive experience at IDJ so far.

We looked at a number of rings. The Tiffany 8 pointers definitely looked larger than they *should be* the more I looked at different diamond sizes, so weird! Anyhow, we kept going with larger diamonds until my FI decided she couldn’t go larger when stacking… We ended up with 15 pointers which I am a LITTLE worried might be too big but doesn’t look bad from picture I took — would love opinions on that too!

Pictures are of a 5 stone, 15 pointer ring FI liked. We would get it as a 6 stone to provide full top-down coverage without having diamonds hit the adjacent fingers. I liked this design more than the one at Tiffany because the setting made the diamonds look rounder, the prong placement at tiffany kept giving me a *bit* of a square feel. FI agrees and liked this ring more than the one at Tiffany without my prompting (whew!). I think the larger rounder stones sold her on that, hah!

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Regarding price, i’m quite pleased by my IDJ quote. $1775 for a size 6 14k WG ring, six stones at 0.15ct each of “PS quality” for total 0.95ct.
 
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Gorgeous!
 
I have purchased many items from IDJ he hand made my wedding band as well as purchasing my daughters finance ring. He doesn't seem nice . Yekutiel is nice an genuine . Glad you found something you like . Here is my wedding band he he made for me674117[/ATTACH]
 
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Awesome! Love IDJ!
 
It looks very pretty! Most shared prong rings are made in either 5 or 7 stones - also depending on diamond size. Six diamonds across could have one end poking into her adjacent fingers - just something to bear in mind.
 
It looks very pretty! Most shared prong rings are made in either 5 or 7 stones - also depending on diamond size. Six diamonds across could have one end poking into her adjacent fingers - just something to bear in mind.

Thank you, that was a concern of mine as well but SA seemed confident that a 6th stone would not poke into the pinky — I did see a decent amount of white gold “gap” between the last stone on the 5 stone and the pinky… I assume that’s where the new prongs and basket for 6th stone would be inserted.

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Thank you, that was a concern of mine as well but SA seemed confident that a 6th stone would not poke into the pinky — I did see a decent amount of white gold “gap” between the last stone on the 5 stone and the pinky… I assume that’s where the new prongs and basket for 6th stone would be inserted.

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Certainly personal preference and I hope it works for her. Just one more point about odd number bands. If you look at the center most stone in a five stone, you have two to the left and two to the right. In a seven stone of course you have three to each side. Just something to consider if she is very picky or loves symmetry. There are reasons those bands are made that way, but if she understands that and doesn’t care, go for it!
 
That's going to be beautiful! I wanted to add to MissGotRocks's excellent points. A six-stone band will likely spin, and the 6 diamonds won't always be at the top.
 
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Certainly personal preference and I hope it works for her. Just one more point about odd number bands. If you look at the center most stone in a five stone, you have two to the left and two to the right. In a seven stone of course you have three to each side. Just something to consider if she is very picky or loves symmetry. There are reasons those bands are made that way, but if she understands that and doesn’t care, go for it!

I’m the one that loves symmetry, not her (Hah!). I found peace in the symmetry of 6 stones matching the engagement ring’s 6 prongs and she is Chinese where the number 6 is lucky and sounds like Good Fortune in cantonese ;).
 
To put your mind a little at ease over the 6 stone spinning issue, my ring is 6 stones and it doesn't spin (though, it was also designed to sit exactly across the top of my finger and maybe that helps). I also understand the 'rule of 3/5/7' etc and was worried about 6 stones not looking good, but my priority was the stones going across the top of my finger (not between) and the only way to achieve this was with 6 stones. I think it worked well and I don't notice the number of stones. 6 X 0.2ct on size 4.75 finger.IMG_20210802_152555856.jpg
 
To put your mind a little at ease over the 6 stone spinning issue, my ring is 6 stones and it doesn't spin (though, it was also designed to sit exactly across the top of my finger and maybe that helps). I also understand the 'rule of 3/5/7' etc and was worried about 6 stones not looking good, but my priority was the stones going across the top of my finger (not between) and the only way to achieve this was with 6 stones. I think it worked well and I don't notice the number of stones. 6 X 0.2ct on size 4.75 finger.IMG_20210802_152555856.jpg

Your ring is beautiful - do you wear an engagement ring with it?
 
Your ring is beautiful - do you wear an engagement ring with it?

Thank you. I wear the ring on its own, sometimes I would love to add 'more' - bigger diamonds, a solitaire, a coloured band but then I feel the 'moreness' detracts from the simplicity I was trying to achieve. I just need bigger fingers :-)
 
Thank you. I wear the ring on its own, sometimes I would love to add 'more' - bigger diamonds, a solitaire, a coloured band but then I feel the 'moreness' detracts from the simplicity I was trying to achieve. I just need bigger fingers :)

It is beautiful and the symmetry isn't an issue without an engagement ring. It is when it is paired with a ring where the engagement ring diamond hits at the center of the ring that the symmetry appears a bit off. You have the perfect situation for six stones. The bezels make such a statement in rounding off each diamond - I really like it! I prefer the simplicity of it and bet it garners lots of admiring looks!
 
Beautiful 6 stone ring with bezels, Love it!

My FI, when stacking the ER with the wedding band plans to keep them flush against each other. The ER stone *pretty much* covers two of the wedding band stones when you do that. So a stacked 6 ring setup will mostly show two stones to the left and two to the right of the bottom half of the ER stone — from a top down view.

I actually think it looks a little uneven when stacked with the 5 stones pictures above Since you see so much more Diamond on the left side of wedding band. I think that effect will be minimized with 6. With all that said, she’ll never have the ER placed exactly in middle, haha, she moves it around a lot.
 
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My FI, when stacking the ER with the wedding band plans to keep them flush against each other.

Aside from the option of using a spacer instead and depending on the style of the ER - is IDJ perchance building the shared prong wedding band at a height to not have the melee cut into the ER?
I’d ask if it’s possible?
 
Aside from the option of using a spacer instead and depending on the style of the ER - is IDJ perchance building the shared prong wedding band at a height to not have the melee cut into the ER?
I’d ask if it’s possible?

Yes, we brought the ER ring when we visited IDJ and had the IDJ SA confirm that the wedding band does not cut into the ER =).
 
I have had a shared prong eternity (10 pointers) from IDJ for about 6 years now, and it is holding up very well. I recommend IdJ to my friends regularly. I stack the eternity with my round brilliant solitaire as well. Personally I liked 10 pointers the best but it’s really all a matter of taste, diamond size, finger size etc. Ring spinning would really depend on finger shape- I have large knuckles, so rings always end up spinning for me.
 
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