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just wondering where everyone will be the nigth before the wedding. i am living w/ my b/f now and wonder if one of us should stay w/ someone else? or is that too silly?
 
the guys got ready at one hotel and the girls at another. so we just stayed the night before the wedding at each of the hotels with our respected party and got up in the morning of to get ready. worked wonderfully.
 
I was thinking of spending the night at my parents house and everyone coming over. I want to get my hair dresser to come over the house and do everyone''s hair and the photographer to take pictures of us getting ready.
 
fi will stay at the hotel w/his guys and oot friends,
my 2 oot sisters will stay with me at our house. i considered staying at a nearby b&b, but i really want photos taken here the morning of.

we live together now too, but it''s important to me to have the night before w/my sisters
 
We''re getting married in my hometown, so I''ll be staying at my parents'' place with my grandmother, mother and sister. My FI and his guys will be staying at a nearby hotel with my father and brother.
 
I am doing the same thing as jcrow...guys in one hotel (in my case it''s an 8-person condo at the resort we''ll be at) and the girls in another.
If we were having the wedding at home I would probably stay at my moms. Tradition aside, it''s fun to be with the women closest to you the night before i think.
 
I''m staying at my parents'' house and having the girls sleep over with me. FI and the guys will be staying at the hotel that we''ll spend our wedding night at.
 
I, being the groom, decided I wanted to stay with my guys the night before the big day. My parents found and rented this house out in the middle of the country that had a pond and a big screen TV with dish tv and my parents bought TONS of food for us to eat. We stayed up til like 2 a.m. watching one of the X-men movies and then Inside Job. It was nice because it gave all the guys a chance to get to know each other better...they all knew each other except my bro so it was fun goofing around.

My wife stayed at her parents house. She invited her bridesmaids to stay with her but they insisted on not staying there because they did not want to intrude. My wife wanted someone to stay with her so she had the girlfriends of my groomsmen stay with her. They helped her out a ton when it came to helping plan our last minute honeymoon.
 
Our wedding was in my hometown, so I stayed at my parents' house. My best friend/MOH (also from that hometown) and her sister stayed over (just like the old days
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)... she even bought matching pajamas for all of us! It was perfect.

My husband's friends and family were staying at a hotel in town, so he stayed there too in the extra bed of one of his best men... it worked out great.

Initially I didn't care if we followed tradition to stay apart for the night, but I'm glad we did it that way... by the time our 4pm ceremony rolled around, I was even more excited to see him!
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Our wedding is in my hometown, so I too will be staying at my parents'' house. My mom is excited to have a "last night" with me, but all my girls are staying at the hotel across town.
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Ah well, at least everyone will get a good night''s sleep. My FI is staying at a hotel with his guys.
 
my husband and i were already living together when we got married, but we had a destination wedding. he stayed at the same hotel as his family and i stayed at the hotel where we were getting married. i stayed in the room alone. initially i wanted my moh to stay with me, but i was so exhausted from all of the festivities that i just crashed as soon as i got to the room. my moh was there the next morning with breakfast in hand. the hair/makeup person met us there and we got ready in my room while watching them set up the ceremony site. that somehow made it even more exciting for me. it was perfect!
 
For me, I''ll be staying at one of the hotels that guests are staying at (and will also stay there the wedding night - we leave for our honeymoon the next day). Fiancee will stay at our house with his parents. I will likely ask my MOHs if they want to hang out with me in the room. I''ll likely stay there alone, and didn''t realize how lonely that sounded until I read this thread! But alas, I have no sisters, my mother won''t be able to attend due to illness, so it is what it is
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I''m in the minority here!

Background, very small wedding - under 50, mostly friends and close family.

My FI and I are living together...and having our wedding guests over for wine and cheese and stuffs on the night before the wedding.

We also have some out of guests that will be staying with us on Friday...

So I''ll get up on Saturday, say good morning to my FI and head off to get beautified and then we meet up at my friends'' backyard and get married.

Of course, I am doing the whole thing pretty untraditionally. FI has already seen pics of me in my wedding gown and stuff.
 
We lived together before the wedding also. Since all of my family was oot, I stayed at the hotel with my sister-in-law, and my brother stayed at the house with my (now) husband.
 
I haven''t thought about this much but pretty sure we''ll both stay at home. We live together and I know that I will want to be there w/him the night before. Plus, we''re having the rehearsal dinner the night before at our house and it would just feel weird not to stay at our house the night before.
 
Well I don''t live with my fiance. I am staying at my place, and all of my bridesmaids are slumber partying with me.
 
We got married OOT. I stayed with my parents and he stayed at the hotel where his family was staying. He wanted to stay with me but I made him leave.
 
DH and I lived together before marrying; I stayed in our apt. the night before, and he stayed at the hotel we spent our wedding night in the night before. It was no less special that he''d already been in the room or anything, he made sure there was champagne and something to nibble on (besides each other, lol) when we came to the room the first time together as husband and wife. We spent the following day back at our apt. packing for our honeymoon and organizing wedding gifts and making a stop at the bank to deposit all the checks and cash we''d received--we got married on a Sunday so it was nice to have that Monday off to take care of everything before we left town.
 
We lived together before getting married, but in a different city than the one we got married in. We were welcome to stay at any of our parents'' houses (together or separately), but we each stayed in separate hotels with our respective bridal parties. My parents are going through a divorce and I was starting to feel like each was competing for me to stay with them, so I really wanted to be on neutral ground and away from any potential drama. I had a wonderful and relaxing time hanging our with my MOH and one of my BMs the night before.
 
I''ve organised a sort of ''pamper party'' for my bridesmaids the night before the wedding, where a lady comes to the house (mum and dad''s house, where we''ll all stay) and we all sit with individual foot spas and sample hand creams and perfumes and stuff, and she teaches hand and foot massages etc... very relaxing! The hairdresser and makeup girls are coming to the house to doll us up the next morning. FI will probably stay at our house with the groomsmen and loll around drinking beer
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