Who would WANT Pam Anderson, after 3 husbands, and...

[beau13]

everything she is/has been involved in? I mean, really, she is TRASHY..ICK!! I heard she was filing for divorce from 3rd husband, now I find out that she is going to try to work things out. I didn''t even realize she was married...AGAIN. I read this:

Pammie - who has two sons, Brandon, 11, and nine-year-old Dylan with first husband Tommy Lee - fell for Rick after he offered to waive her poker debts to him in return for sex.

She said: "I paid off a poker debt with sexual favours, and I fell in love. It''s so romantic."

Rick, a professional poker player, famously starred in and released the Paris Hilton sex tape ''One Night in Paris''.

He was previously married to actresses Shannen Doherty and Elizabeth Daily, while Pammie has been wed twice before to rockers Kid Rock and Tommy Lee.

(C) BANG Media International


I can''t believe what decent man would be interested in a gal like her. Fake from head to toe, and seems so DITZY!! She gives us blondes a bad name! LOL

 

[HollyS]

Who would want Pam Anderson? Someone who''s eyes never look higher than her beachballs.

 

[rainbowtrout]

...he doesn''t sound particularly DECENT either.

 

[iwannaprettyone]

Date: 12/19/2007 9:58:54 AM
Author:beau13

everything she is/has been involved in? I mean, really, she is TRASHY..ICK!! I heard she was filing for divorce from 3rd husband, now I find out that she is going to try to work things out. I didn''t even realize she was married...AGAIN. I read this:

Pammie - who has two sons, Brandon, 11, and nine-year-old Dylan with first husband Tommy Lee - fell for Rick after he offered to waive her poker debts to him in return for sex.

She said: ''I paid off a poker debt with sexual favours, and I fell in love. It''s so romantic.''

Rick, a professional poker player, famously starred in and released the Paris Hilton sex tape ''One Night in Paris''.

He was previously married to actresses Shannen Doherty and Elizabeth Daily, while Pammie has been wed twice before to rockers Kid Rock and Tommy Lee.

(C) BANG Media International


I can''t believe what decent man would be interested in a gal like her. Fake from head to toe, and seems so DITZY!! She gives us blondes a bad name! LOL

Luckily Rick does not fall in to this catergory, double yuck.

 

[diagem]

Date: 12/19/2007 10:08:02 AM
Author: HollyS
Who would want Pam Anderson? Someone who''s eyes never look higher than her beachballs.

Let the line up start.................

........................

I know a LOT of guys out there who would want her

 

[beau13]

Date: 12/19/2007 10:13:10 AM
Author: DiaGem

Date: 12/19/2007 10:08:02 AM
Author: HollyS
Who would want Pam Anderson? Someone who''s eyes never look higher than her beachballs.

Let the line up start.................

........................

I know a LOT of guys out there who would want her

Ewwwww..REALLY? Most men I know think she is "eye candy" for sure, but wouldn''t be the kind of girl they would want to get serious with, or MARRY! I feel bad for her two boys, having a mother like her! I mean, she might be a great mom, but most see her as only as a "sex symbol"...I know it''s hard being a sexy mom, having your kid''s soccer/hockey coach hit on you constantly..LOL. KIDDING! Anyway...I know my husband prefers the "natural blonde beauties", not the plasticized barbie doll type...and would choose someone classy such as Scarlett Johansen or Charlize Therron over pam Anderson ANY DAY!!

 

[diagem]

Date: 12/19/2007 10:23:43 AM
Author: beau13

Date: 12/19/2007 10:13:10 AM
Author: DiaGem

Date: 12/19/2007 10:08:02 AM
Author: HollyS
Who would want Pam Anderson? Someone who''s eyes never look higher than her beachballs.

Let the line up start.................

........................

I know a LOT of guys out there who would want her

Ewwwww..REALLY? Most men I know think she is ''eye candy'' for sure, but wouldn''t be the kind of girl they would want to get serious with, or MARRY! I feel bad for her two boys, having a mother like her! I mean, she might be a great mom, but most see her as only as a ''sex symbol''...I know it''s hard being a sexy mom, having your kid''s soccer/hockey coach hit on you constantly..LOL. KIDDING! Anyway...I know my husband prefers the ''natural blonde beauties'', not the plasticized barbie doll type...and would choose someone classy such as Scarlett Johansen or Charlize Therron over pam Anderson ANY DAY!!

All the wives of the (so called) "line up" KNOW their "husbands prefer the ''natural blonde beauties'', not the plasticized barbie doll type"...

I am just fooling with you..., off-course we men prefer classy over trashy.

 

[lumpkin]

She was absolutely beautiful when she was young, before all the breast implants and the heavy make up. She didn''t need all of that, but then, maybe she wouldn''t have been as successful.

Before Kid Rock, maybe she could have found someone decent, but maybe she''s not attracted to nice guys.

 

[beau13]

I agree Lumpkin, much more natural looking, and much more appealing (IMO) without the "enhancements" and all that warpaint!

 

[mirre]

Well I will admit a few years ago when she had the "beach balls" taken out I thought she looked better. But now she's back to the plastic Barbie look. I don't see how she could get a classy decent guy when she's not classy or decent herself, or at least doesn't seem like it to me.

And in re: to the post that said they felt sorry for her boys for having a mom like that. Did any of you hear about her actually sitting her boys down and showing them her and Tommy Lee's "home video" because as she put it "They would just hear about it at school and I would rather them hear it straight from me" UGH! Talk about traumatizing! You hear horror stories of people who accidently walk in on their parents can you imagine mommy purposely having you see it? I wouldn't consider her Mother of the Year material and I don't see any halfway decent guy considering her marriage material.

 

[Maisie]

She is just a normal person under all that make up

 

[beau13]

EW!! I suddenly feel so much better about runing to the supermarket, with absolutely NO makeup on! WOW..that''s almost scary!

 

[mirre]

I could probably see her on the street looking like that and not know who it is.

 

[Haven]

Who would want Pam Anderson?

As my mother always says:

There''s a lid to every pot.

 

[FireGoddess]

Ouch! I think this topic is pretty harsh. All I can say is that there''s someone for everyone out there, 99% of the time. Whether they''d be people YOU''D want to date or marry is another thing, but there''s someone for everyone. And I''m not about to judge her for how many marriages she''s had....there are people who have gotten hitched almost THREE TIMES as many times as she has (Elizabeth Taylor).

If she wants to have fake boobs and plastic surgery, it''s no skin off my back.

 

[musey]

Date: 12/19/2007 3:16:14 PM
Author: FireGoddess
Ouch! I think this topic is pretty harsh. All I can say is that there's someone for everyone out there, 99% of the time. Whether they'd be people YOU'D want to date or marry is another thing, but there's someone for everyone. And I'm not about to judge her for how many marriages she's had....there are people who have gotten hitched almost THREE TIMES as many times as she has (Elizabeth Taylor).

If she wants to have fake boobs and plastic surgery, it's no skin off my back.

Thank you for posting that, firegoddess. I was feeling pretty bummed out by this thread.

I also very much dislike the "stars without their makeup" poking fun (or even going as far as to say "that's almost scary"). They are people too, and the whole "they ask for it by becoming famous" is not a valid excuse. I wouldn't post pictures of random passers-by who I thought were unfortunate-looking, so why would it become "okay" just because their careers give them notoriety? Very few celebs are genuinely of the "suck it, I'm way hotter than you" variety, and don't deserve the criticism.

Pamela Anderson is actually a very well-spoken and intelligent woman. It takes a lot of brains to create such a strong and marketable "product" (herself), especially for the length of time that she's maintained her career. She has done exceedingly well in her chosen career path, and she has raised very intelligent and well-mannered kids (especially for celeb-spawn). How many of us have done so much better that we are in a position to judge?

...And even if we are, why must we judge?

 

[rainbowtrout]

Date: 12/19/2007 3:16:14 PM
Author: FireGoddess
Ouch! I think this topic is pretty harsh. All I can say is that there''s someone for everyone out there, 99% of the time. Whether they''d be people YOU''D want to date or marry is another thing, but there''s someone for everyone. And I''m not about to judge her for how many marriages she''s had....there are people who have gotten hitched almost THREE TIMES as many times as she has (Elizabeth Taylor).


If she wants to have fake boobs and plastic surgery, it''s no skin off my back.

Word. Women need to stick up for each other just a little more, sometimes.

 

[canuk-gal]

Date: 12/19/2007 3:16:14 PM
Author: FireGoddess
Ouch! I think this topic is pretty harsh. All I can say is that there''s someone for everyone out there, 99% of the time. Whether they''d be people YOU''D want to date or marry is another thing, but there''s someone for everyone. And I''m not about to judge her for how many marriages she''s had....there are people who have gotten hitched almost THREE TIMES as many times as she has (Elizabeth Taylor).

If she wants to have fake boobs and plastic surgery, it''s no skin off my back.

HI:

Ditto. Her choices are her own.

cheers--Sharon

 

[Maisie]

Date: 12/19/2007 3:38:01 PM
Author: musey

Date: 12/19/2007 3:16:14 PM
Author: FireGoddess
Ouch! I think this topic is pretty harsh. All I can say is that there''s someone for everyone out there, 99% of the time. Whether they''d be people YOU''D want to date or marry is another thing, but there''s someone for everyone. And I''m not about to judge her for how many marriages she''s had....there are people who have gotten hitched almost THREE TIMES as many times as she has (Elizabeth Taylor).

If she wants to have fake boobs and plastic surgery, it''s no skin off my back.

Thank you for posting that, firegoddess. I was feeling pretty bummed out by this thread.

I also very much dislike the ''stars without their makeup'' poking fun (or even going as far as to say ''that''s almost scary''). They are people too, and the whole ''they ask for it by becoming famous'' is not a valid excuse. I wouldn''t post pictures of random passers-by who I thought were unfortunate-looking, so why would it become ''okay'' just because their careers give them notoriety? Very few celebs are genuinely of the ''suck it, I''m way hotter than you'' variety, and don''t deserve the criticism.

Pamela Anderson is actually a very well-spoken and intelligent woman. It takes a lot of brains to create such a strong and marketable ''product'' (herself), especially for the length of time that she''s maintained her career. She has done exceedingly well in her chosen career path, and she has raised very intelligent and well-mannered kids (especially for celeb-spawn). How many of us have done so much better that we are in a position to judge?

...And even if we are, why must we judge?

I didn''t post the photo of her without make up to poke fun at her! I posted it to say that she is just a normal woman under all that make up

 

[Haven]

Date: 12/19/2007 3:38:01 PM
Author: musey

Date: 12/19/2007 3:16:14 PM
Author: FireGoddess
Ouch! I think this topic is pretty harsh. All I can say is that there''s someone for everyone out there, 99% of the time. Whether they''d be people YOU''D want to date or marry is another thing, but there''s someone for everyone. And I''m not about to judge her for how many marriages she''s had....there are people who have gotten hitched almost THREE TIMES as many times as she has (Elizabeth Taylor).

If she wants to have fake boobs and plastic surgery, it''s no skin off my back.

Thank you for posting that, firegoddess. I was feeling pretty bummed out by this thread.

I also very much dislike the ''stars without their makeup'' poking fun (or even going as far as to say ''that''s almost scary''). They are people too, and the whole ''they ask for it by becoming famous'' is not a valid excuse. I wouldn''t post pictures of random passers-by who I thought were unfortunate-looking, so why would it become ''okay'' just because their careers give them notoriety? Very few celebs are genuinely of the ''suck it, I''m way hotter than you'' variety, and don''t deserve the criticism.

Pamela Anderson is actually a very well-spoken and intelligent woman. It takes a lot of brains to create such a strong and marketable ''product'' (herself), especially for the length of time that she''s maintained her career. She has done exceedingly well in her chosen career path, and she has raised very intelligent and well-mannered kids (especially for celeb-spawn). How many of us have done so much better that we are in a position to judge?

...And even if we are, why must we judge?

Thritto.

I like hearing your perspective about this, Musey. My students showed me that Celebrities Without Makeup site and I told them they''re lucky there isn''t a Teachers Without Makeup site, because I would be the first one on there and it wouldn''t be pretty! Seriously, though, this kind of talk just solicits nastiness.

I absolutely agree with Firegoddess. I work with two people who are on their third marriages, and we''ve actually had several discussions about the negative stigma associated with divorce and remarriage. I wasn''t really aware of this, as I''ve never been divorced myself, but I was engaged at a young age (21) and I did experience some harsh judgments from others when we ended our engagement. (Which is so bizarre--the engagement period is there for just that reason, but I digress.)

My mother always says "there''s a lid to every pot," but more pointedly, she says "we reveal the most about ourselves when we talk about others."

 

[musey]

Date: 12/19/2007 3:47:33 PM
Author: Maisie

I didn''t post the photo of her without make up to poke fun at her! I posted it to say that she is just a normal woman under all that make up

I understand, Maisie! I was referring primarily to beau''s response, and it also reminded me of the older "stars without makeup" thread.

I know that you''re not the type to make fun

 

[Maisie]

Date: 12/19/2007 3:50:05 PM
Author: musey

Date: 12/19/2007 3:47:33 PM
Author: Maisie

I didn''t post the photo of her without make up to poke fun at her! I posted it to say that she is just a normal woman under all that make up

I understand, Maisie! I was referring primarily to beau''s response, and it also reminded me of the older ''stars without makeup'' thread.

I know that you''re not the type to make fun

Thank you Musey.

I actually look completely dreadful without any make up myself

 

[chrono]

That''s why I''ve never posted a picture of myself. I NEVER wear makeup. You''d all die if you ever saw me.

 

[mirre]

I hope it wasn''t referring to my response about the picture either. I just meant that they put so much makeup on them for tv appearances and magazines and such that if I were to pass her on the street I wouldn''t recognize her because she looks completely different from how we typically see her. Doesn''t even look like the same person.

I feel bad.

 

[musey]

Date: 12/19/2007 3:49:13 PM
Author: Haven

My mother always says 'there's a lid to every pot,' but more pointedly, she says 'we reveal the most about ourselves when we talk about others.'

Haven, I REALLY like that quote from your mom. She sounds like a very smart woman.

I think most people at least go through a phase of talking smack about others. Some people get over it, some don't. Mine was from age 12-17, or thereabouts (much longer than I'm happy to admit). There just has to come a time in every person's life when you decide that whatever satisfaction picking at other people brings you, it's truly not worth the pain it inflicts. And once one realizes that, it's hard to derive any satisfaction from that kind of talk.


P.S. And mirre, no I wasn't referring to you, either

It's just any comments that imply a person looks "bad" or "ugly" without makeup (which I didn't get from your post). The fact that someone looks beautiful with makeup doesn't justify pointing out that they don't look as great without it. Uncalled for, IMO.


ETA: I just wanted to point out also that Pamela Anderson's job is not to be a role model. Her job is to look as great as possible on camera. That's the product that she's cultivated... and she does it damn well.

Nowhere in that job description is there a mention of "setting a good example," so how can we criticize her when she doesn't live up to that unfair (and unsolicited) expectation? There are plenty of people in this world who marry multiple times, get plastic surgery, or in general do things that others may or may not "approve" of. So why do we get to criticize her for it? Just because she's well-known??

Okay, sorry for the rant, people. As you can guess, this issue is something I'm just a wee bit passionate about...

I'd rather spend my "judgmental energy" on people like Scott Peterson or Saddam Hussein.

 

[FireGoddess]

No Maisie - we're all human, and it helps to remember that so are all of these glamazon women who seem unattainably beautiful!!! I just winced at the cut-downs of someone whose life choices do not affect our lives and just because they aren't what we would do, doesn't make someone worthy of being deemed worthless. To say 'who would want this person now'...is not nice. Are we all guilty of being judgmental sometimes, sure...but those who live in glass houses...you know the rest. I'm not perfect so I can't hold anyone else to that standard!!!

Now pass me some Christmas cookies and wassail or something!! Girl power and all that!!

 

[Mara]

I'm all for girl power, but I gotta agree with this topic. Pam Anderson is just so icky at this point. She really gives women a bad name in my opinion. Sure she might be a great businesswoman if selling the idea of sex makes money, and it surely does, but she just seems to have the lowest self esteem ever, look at all the choices she has made with men in her lives? Also, I tend to think that many people who doll themselves up as much as she does, and always have a ton of makeup in general have lower self-esteem. I have run across this countless times in my life. And just because sometimes people act like they have a lot of self-esteem doesn't mean they do at all. I am all for natural beauty, so many people who think they look fab with makeup on look way better without.

I have read things about her where it sounds like she actually is a pretty good mom, she takes her kids to soccer practice etc...I read things where I think gosh seems like she is just trying to be normal and then I read things about like the trading poker debts for sex AND then ends up married to the loser who published a **** tape of another girl. Come on Pam! Common sense!

Then again I have really little patience for people who continue to make horrible life decisions well into their 30's, 40's, 50's. I think it's very sad that they don't recognize their self-worth and find people who do the same for them. I have a good friend from years ago who is a great person, beautiful girl both inside and out and she makes the worst men decisions ever and part of it is because she doesn't think she's worth it though she would NEVER admit that. She was dating a guy for years who didn't even want her, asked her to leave repeatedly, finally she got over him and now has been dating a married man with 3 kids (one of whom is special needs) for 3 years and is CONVINCED he's going to leave his wife for her. It makes me so sad and upset to see what she is doing to herself. I feel like okay sure you make stupid life decisions and mistakes like that in your 20's MAYBE. But 30's? 40's? Grow up!!

As for being judgemental or not, I have my good days and bad like anyone else. Some days I think why judge others, let them do what they want. And then other days I am like WOW bad decision, that's so ridiculous!!

 

[Sparkster]

Date: 12/19/2007 3:47:02 PM
Author: canuk-gal

Date: 12/19/2007 3:16:14 PM
Author: FireGoddess
Ouch! I think this topic is pretty harsh. All I can say is that there''s someone for everyone out there, 99% of the time. Whether they''d be people YOU''D want to date or marry is another thing, but there''s someone for everyone. And I''m not about to judge her for how many marriages she''s had....there are people who have gotten hitched almost THREE TIMES as many times as she has (Elizabeth Taylor).

If she wants to have fake boobs and plastic surgery, it''s no skin off my back.

HI:

Ditto. Her choices are her own.

cheers--Sharon

Yes her choices are her own but she has two young boys and unfortunately, her choices affect them.

 

[hlmr]

Date: 12/19/2007 4:31:40 PM
Author: Sparkster

Date: 12/19/2007 3:47:02 PM
Author: canuk-gal

Date: 12/19/2007 3:16:14 PM
Author: FireGoddess
Ouch! I think this topic is pretty harsh. All I can say is that there''s someone for everyone out there, 99% of the time. Whether they''d be people YOU''D want to date or marry is another thing, but there''s someone for everyone. And I''m not about to judge her for how many marriages she''s had....there are people who have gotten hitched almost THREE TIMES as many times as she has (Elizabeth Taylor).

If she wants to have fake boobs and plastic surgery, it''s no skin off my back.

HI:

Ditto. Her choices are her own.

cheers--Sharon

Yes her choices are her own but she has two young boys and unfortunately, her choices affect them.

Yes, all choices affect children. Divorce, remarriage, neglect, not being aware of their needs or accepting them for who they are......the list goes on and on and on.

She does seem to love them and put their interests at the forefront of her life. Sadly, it''s herself that she doesn''t seem to treat very well, and unfortunately that is the biggest negative life lesson they will probably learn from watching her.