WORST MONTH EVER. Terribly devistated by a loss.

[Dreamgirl]

On Saturday Oct. 10 we found out my aunt (mom's sister) had a massive heart attack and there was nothing the hospital could do for her. They tried a catheterization on one artery but couldn't do any other procedure. She was fully blocked in 2 other arteries. Turns out she had heart disease but didn't know it. Horrible part is she had just had a physical the Thursday before her heart attack. The doctor said there wasn't anything wrong with her when she had a physical on Thursday!

She passed away Sunday October 11. 71 years old.

We are completely devistated by this. My mom talked with her on the phone all the time. She was actually the last one to speak with my aunt on Friday night. We were very VERY close to her. The whole family feels empty. My aunt was the core of the family. Now that core is gone. We all feel so lost without her.

Flew out to Pittsburgh for the funeral with mom and dad. It was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. My mom had a rough time with it. I feel so awful and sick over it. Viewing was that Tuesday October 13....and just so happened to be my aunt's birthday. How horrible is that? We had the funeral the next day October 14 as the funeral director said she was actually already deteriorating due to liquid coming out of her ??? It didn't even look like her. It's still so hard to believe she's gone. After going all the way there, the viewing, the burial, I still can't believe she is gone.

We spent that week with the family and then came home. Then I got sick. Very sick. I'm still sick. Sinus AND ear infection. I missed over a week of work being sick. Missed a week of work for the funeral.

I am so thankful October 2009 is going to be over. I'm sure over it. As I said........WORST MONTH EVER. I miss my aunt......

 

[Lauren8211]

**hugs**

I''m really sorry to hear that, DG.

I''m sorry October was such a crappy month for you.

I hope you feel better, and that the grieving process becomes easier every day.

I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts.

 

[sunnyd]

So sorry for your loss.

 

[misskitty]

Oh, DG, I am so sorry. You and your family are definitely in my thoughts.

 

[Patiently_Waiting]

DG - I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[purselover]

I''m so very sorry. ***HUGS***

 

[Jessie702]

Awwww, ii am so sorry honey

(((((Hugs))))

''I know how difficult it is to lose someone. I lost count of how many loved ones i have laid to rest. I hope your family can get through this diffcult time and becomes stronger as a group

 

[Smurfysmiles]

DG I''m sorry to hear all this bad news

If it makes you feel (even a tiny bit) better, I missed work this week too because of the stupid snowstorm ugh snow! So sorry to hear about your aunt

Now you have a very special angel watching over you

*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*hugs*

 

[Bia]

I'm so sorry Dream...

I wish I had words to make you feel better but I know nothing does right now. Just know that we are here if you need to 'talk.'

(((((hugs))))) darling

 

[Lilac]

I''m so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.

*hugs*

 

[Squirrly]

huuuuuuuuuuugggggggggggsssssssss

i''d been wondering where you were, so sorry to hear that you''ve been away with such unhappy circumstances

i hope november is 10,000 times better than october has been for you

 

[princessplease]

I''m sorry for your loss DG. I hope your health improves and I hope you are able to find peace in this difficult time.

 

[dragonfly411]

Dreamgirl - I''m so sorry for your loss. ((HUGS)), I hope you feel better. I''m sorry you got sick too! This is the month of sick, I was sick too. Please rest up so you get better. Tomorrow is the last day of this dreadful month (It has been for quite a few it seems), and then we get a big feast

 

[vc10um]

I can''t do anything but send you (((((HUGS))))), DG.

I''m so so so sorry for your loss.

She is still with you, though, and watching over you every day.

 

[absolut_blonde]

I am so sorry DG

 

[trillionaire]

I am so, so sorry for your loss DG.

I hope 2010 is a better year for you.

 

[Winks_Elf]

Date: 10/30/2009 1:03:23 PM
Author: Bia

I''m so sorry Dream...


I wish I had words to make you feel better but I know nothing does right now. Just know that we are here if you need to ''talk.''


(((((hugs))))) darling

I couldn''t say it any better. I''m so sorry hun.

 

[sparklyheart]

Oh, DG, I''m so sorry about your horrible month

There is only one more day in the month and then you will hopefully get a fresh start on Sunday. ***hugs*** I hope you get well soon.

 

[suny27]

When someone we love becomes a memory that memory becomes a treasure.

Sorry for your loss.

Get Well Soon.

 

[AllieGator]

So sorry, DreamGirl. Best wishes for your family during this difficult time.

 

[oddoneout]

I''m so sorry for your loss (and you being sick).

 

[LtlFirecracker]

I am sorry for the loss of your aunt and hope you get better soon.

 

[tyty333]

I''m so sorry Dreamgirl {{{Big hugs and I hope you feel better soon}}}.

 

[brown_eyes]

I''m sorry for your loss, and hope you get to feeling better soon. Here''s to a better November

 

[MermaidKelly]

I''m sorry too. (((Hugs)))

 

[PilsnPinkysMom]

Nothing but ::hugs::... So Sorry, DG

 

[lulu]

I lost my favorite uncle very suddenly when he was 74 and I was 50. I can''t even describe how shocked and hurt I was. But then I realized that I had years of wonderful memories to fall back on. Instead of trying not to think of him I leaned into the memories. I think of him every day. You will get past the pain.

 

[Luckyeshe]

My condolences, DG. I am so very sorry for your loss. {{{{HUGS}}}}

 

[HopeDream]

Hugs to you and your family.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

 

[MrsHToBe]

I''m so sorry, DG!
*hugs*.