@cmd2014 Do you have photos of your akoya strand? You had mentioned that you compared them to MM AAA ones and the quality was on par. Are yours hanadamas and from which vendor?
The difference is that diamonds have consistent specs in terms of cut, clarity, colour, etc., (so long as you aren't mixing comparisons between GIA and other grading labs). Pearls do not. All vendors buy in the same venues, for much the same auction prices, and then they grade their products according to completely subjective grading systems that will vary wildly across vendors (no matter how similar their written grading systems might be). So price differences often (but not always) reflect differences in the grade of the pearls being sold. That's why it's good to buy from places that make returns easy, because the only way to know for sure is to see it for yourself.
For what it's worth, the best looking akoya pearls I've seen in multiple photos on both forums are the natural white hanadamas. Have not seen them in person, and am not likely to buy a strand, but I think that is probably what I would go for if buying small white round pearls.
The Freshadamas look the whitest of the 3, and the luster is very good.
And they are solid nacre.
When I bought my Freshadamas, I ordered silver rose overtones. They do not stand out well against my skin. Silver overtones would have been better for me. If you want them to stand out, I would personally avoid rose overtones. JMO
They would also be heavier (about 50% heavier) at the larger size...are you sensitive to weight when it comes to jewelry?
Are they returnable?
This may sound odd but have you considered buying an imitation strand, just to see if you like that size, length and weight? Here is one I found:
https://www.ebay.com/itm/38-White-Imitation-Pearl-Hand-Knotted-Necklace-8mm-11/183169182376?ssPageName=STRK:MEBIDX:IT&_trksid=p2055119.m1438.l2649
Even if you miss buying at this sale, don't worry-- there are always more sales!
Okay, so in my research, tonight I found a picture of a Pearl Paradise Handama strand and an American Pearl AAA strand, and the PP Hanadama looked better! So all I can say is, every strand is different and some might be better one place and some better at others. It's tough to pick out strands of pearls without seeing them!!!!
Here's the picture which I feel I must post for those who might reference this thread later on:
PP Hanadama in the back and AP AAA in the front.