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Niel

Niel

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for sale. Ive been waffling on it because I do love it, but i think i need to go round. Trying to put it up on LT but doesnt seem to be working. Will get it up as soon as i can.
 
You might want to add color/ clarity to the listing.
 
ugh! i totally remembered to in the lt one. wish that would work
 
It's really easy to edit the listing.....

Also, is the stone .9 something or is it .90? Just want to help you be able to sell it :))
 
You should also scan and post the lab report and post here and on DB if you can any scans and images that you got when you bought the diamond -- ultra macros, ASETs etc. If you have positive threads about the diamond and ring it helps as well.
 
Oh Niel, you know how I looove your ring, especially that glowy pear of yours! I would snatch it up in a heartbeat if I had the funds... I am looking forward to seeing your new ring! :). I hope it finds a new loving home soon!
 
I hope it sells soon for you! I second Dreamer, if you can edit to post a link to any of your threads and if you can add any idealscope or other info you may have on it, that may help it go faster.

Good luck!!!!
 
ugh. well my FI has waffled again. He said "you cant sell that so fast people will think you're unfeeling"...
UGH UGH ugh!
I had found on on ebay i was really really wanting to buy too :( im so sad rright now.... but oh well......i guess come 5 years from now ill have more money for one... but i was so happy to finally figure out what i wanted..... oh well.
 
I think im just going to change it to a necklace come our wedding and not wear any diamond until i get another one..... :roll:
 
Maybe its FI's way to say that he cares?
 
minousbijoux|1364257457|3413314 said:
Maybe its FI's way to say that he cares?
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oh i know he cares, but doesnt get my feelings about the ring. Love him though. He did compromise, so thats something. Im just so impatient, i dont even want to wear it anymore... I just look at it and think "if i only knew i wanted a low colored round to start with i wouldnt have spent money on the wrong thing.
 
So we are back to rounds? I saw a low colored nicely cut round on ebay the other day. I didn't save it but wonder if I can find it again.
 
Niel, it would probably be wise to make up your mind about something before going as far as posting something for sale. You have changed your mind more than I can count on all my fingers. I feel like no one I reall my taking you seriously anymore. Psers want to help but its hard when you change your mind so often.
 
CharmyPoo|1364259567|3413342 said:
So we are back to rounds? I saw a low colored nicely cut round on ebay the other day. I didn't save it but wonder if I can find it again.
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yes staying with rounds. Ive done a lot of thinking, dispite the fact some people probably dont believe me. I get it seems wish washy but i wasnt really asking for help, and this is a diamond forum, i wish i didnt have to explain explain myself .

YT I didnt change my mind. I would like to sell it. my FI change his mind and decided he thinks its tacky of me to sell it before we are married. He had originally said it was fine, now he has though about it and doesnt think so. I would be more than happy to resolve this and sell it. But I will have to honor his wishes, so it was taken down.

And i didnt ask for help i said i wont be doing anything for 5 years like he would like
 
Niel said:
CharmyPoo|1364259567|3413342 said:
So we are back to rounds? I saw a low colored nicely cut round on ebay the other day. I didn't save it but wonder if I can find it again.
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yes staying with rounds. Ive done a lot of thinking, dispite the fact some people probably dont believe me. I get it seems wish washy but i wasnt really asking for help, and this is a diamond forum, i wish i didnt have to explain explain myself .

YT I didnt change my mind. I would like to sell it. my FI change his mind and decided he thinks its tacky of me to sell it before we are married. I would be more than happy to resolve this and sell it. But I will have to honor his wishes, so it was taken down.

And i didnt ask for help i said i wont be doing anything for 5 years like he would like
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But you do ask for help. Constantly. Then when people try to help you, you shut them down. Why?
 
Will you be happy or content waiting five years....

Did you get any bites on your ring? I know when I didn't like my setting... I was on a mission to correct it before the wedding because I wanted my pictures to be of my forever ring... While I love my new EC I would never sell my e-ring.

You have been on a number of missions... EC, Marquis, Warm MRB, old cut... But if you know now... Change now before the wedding pictures. Don't wait,
 
I've been looking for cheap suitable alternatives so I wouldn't have to sell my current ring and there for he and I would both be happy. Clearly my want exceeds my budget, so this route isn't working. No I'm not happy with it, and if I have to explain my waffling, its because my FI is touchy about the subject. I'm happy to Blaine it on myself because if I say its him too many people on here get into relationship advise. Which I'd rather not here. So I listen and listen to the "figure out what you want" posts.

And you're right mayk it isn't what and I want it to be perfect before the wedding, which is why I've been frantically trying to fix it before the wedding. Clearly I can't so I'll just give up I think. Oh well. It'll make a nice pendent.
 
Niel|1364262598|3413393 said:
I've been looking for cheap suitable alternatives so I wouldn't have to sell my current ring and there for he and I would both be happy. Clearly my want exceeds my budget, so this route isn't working. No I'm not happy with it, and if I have to explain my waffling, its because my FI is touchy about the subject. I'm happy to Blaine it on myself because if I say its him too many people on here get into relationship advise. Which I'd rather not here. So I listen and listen to the "figure out what you want" posts.

And you're right mayk it isn't what and I want it to be perfect before the wedding, which is why I've been frantically trying to fix it before the wedding. Clearly I can't so I'll just give up I think. Oh well. It'll make a nice pendent.
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My advice... iF you will not be happy is to frame it up as learning a lesson. When you bought your ring you didn't know what you didn't know... Now that you do know you can fix it...

I said to DH.. I have issues... And when I see this ring it's not what I hoped it would be and here's why... This PS is dangerous but it's also a great place to learn. I still don't follow everyone's advice but I hope I've learned enough to make the choices I can live with... Not going as high in color...or picking a diamond someone else didn't love. Study... Try stuff on, decide and find some peace... I don't think you have any when it comes to your ring.... And as a pendant... Will there be peace!
 
I agree with MayK, PS IS dangerous but also a place to learn. It is difficult to want something that is beyond our means... yes, we can save up for it, but with PS, that may possibly and probably be just another diamond before we change our minds or find that the grass seems greener elsewhere. Right now, I am PRAYING that the halo that is being added to my oval will be what I finally want because if not... I am in deep doo doo :oops: My DH and I have vad several "fights" with regards to me changing my ering but he has come to terms aboutmy halo project, now anticipates it, but there will be NO WAY he will be willing to hear of another change for a LOOOONG while!
 
Niel, you reallythink that you'd rather not have this beautiful ring on your finger for your wedding photos? You would rather just be
"e-ringless?"
 
Fi.Z|1364266398|3413451 said:
Niel, you reallythink that you'd rather not have this beautiful ring on your finger for your wedding photos? You would rather just be
"e-ringless?"
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Hard to say. Wearing a 1ct necklace with my strapless dress would be really pretty I think, so turning it into that would be so cute. And its not that I don't like the ring. if it was on someone else I'd oogle it constantly. And I love the compliments I get. Its just I think "oh I should have gone yellow gold, oh I should have done this I should have done that..." so by the end of the day I just look at it as a reminder of how I made a decision before I was ready.

You changed your name too!! I hope you stick around Missy you are fast becoming one of my favorite psers :wink2: :lol:
 
Niel|1364297850|3413584 said:
You changed your name too!! I hope you stick around Missy you are fast becoming one of my favorite psers :wink2: :lol:
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My my, the feeling is mutual! I felt a connection too!! HAHA! Totally off the topic of this thread! :lol:

I feel your frustrations though, really. And I wish I could offer your some objective advice... something that would give your the "ah-hah" moment...but maybe u are going down the right path by not choosing anything at all.... at the moment... give you some breathing space ;)
 
oh, yeah... about the name change... couldn't figure it out until now... wanted something more simple without numbers... ;)
 
Can this thread be closed? You're no longer interested in selling.
I log on to pre-loved often to check for "updates", and there's nothing to update here, yet it dominates the most recently updated thread spot. It's pushing others' threads lower than yours, who actually are still hoping to sell their items.
 
madelise|1364310098|3413696 said:
Can this thread be closed? You're no longer interested in selling.
I log on to pre-loved often to check for "updates", and there's nothing to update here, yet it dominates the most recently updated thread spot. It's pushing others' threads lower than yours, who actually are still hoping to sell their items.
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Gladly.
 
I was thinking .. if your husband is worried about people thinking you are unfeeling ... wouldn't he be concerned with people asking why you aren't wearing your e-ring. Usually people not wearing an e-ring leads people to think if there are marriage issues.
 
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