I''m already married (April 22, 2007), however, my wedding rehearsal and wedding day was a nightmare!
My husband says that I only cared about the wedding and that I am being selfish for wanting the wedding of my dreams.
Here is my story and please tell me if you think that I am being selfish.
At the wedding rehearsal, my now husband decided to leave the wedding rehearsal to go and get his mom. She was here in Houston for the wedding and he had to make a key for her to get in and out of his townhome. Well, the key didn''t work. She wouldn''t test the key before he left! He was late getting back along with his best man. My wedding coordinator and officiant had to leave because it was so late and they both had to work the next day. His mother comes in and starts an arguement over $4 worth of extra plates that he bought. He kept leaving in and out of the rehearsal so he didn''t know what was going on theday of the wedding.
THE WEDDING DAY----
I was two hours late because of a mistake that was made by my mother. My maid of honor and I was still running around trying to pick up last minute stuff that was forgotten by the people that I gave the responsibility to. Once I arrive at the location, I found out that the floors were sticky, (maintenance had not mopped the floors of the facility), the table cloths were not long enough for the tables (two of them barely covered the top of the table), the facility would not give my dj a table to set up his equipment. The tables were not set up according to my contract. I wound up using explicitives towards the facility maintenance, My photographer was two hours late. The facility had not turned on the air conditioning so the cakes began to melt. On top of that, my family forgot my makeup and EVERYONE was calling my name every 15 seconds. Once the ceremony started, the dj had a problem with one of the songs that was supposed to be played. My husband''s step mother tried to change the way that everyone was going to walk in confusing everyone. She also, was on the stage trying to tell the dj what to play (that caused a delay.) My husband forgot to take the tags off of my ring before the ceremony. My dress became dirty because the facility forgot to sweep. Oh and I almost forgot, even after going for two fittings at the bridal store, the straps were not taken up as they were supposed to be so needless to say I almost had a Tara Reid/ Janet Jackson moment. Also, the buttons for my bustle broke when my mother was trying to bustle my gown.
Ever since the wedding ceremony, I have been upset. I feel like I have been cheated. My husband and my family says that I am being unreasonable and selfish and that the wedding was beautiful. I disagree. Am I being selfish and unreasonable for wanting a second chance at my dream wedding? Please give me your opinion.
My husband says that I only cared about the wedding and that I am being selfish for wanting the wedding of my dreams.
Here is my story and please tell me if you think that I am being selfish.
At the wedding rehearsal, my now husband decided to leave the wedding rehearsal to go and get his mom. She was here in Houston for the wedding and he had to make a key for her to get in and out of his townhome. Well, the key didn''t work. She wouldn''t test the key before he left! He was late getting back along with his best man. My wedding coordinator and officiant had to leave because it was so late and they both had to work the next day. His mother comes in and starts an arguement over $4 worth of extra plates that he bought. He kept leaving in and out of the rehearsal so he didn''t know what was going on theday of the wedding.
THE WEDDING DAY----
I was two hours late because of a mistake that was made by my mother. My maid of honor and I was still running around trying to pick up last minute stuff that was forgotten by the people that I gave the responsibility to. Once I arrive at the location, I found out that the floors were sticky, (maintenance had not mopped the floors of the facility), the table cloths were not long enough for the tables (two of them barely covered the top of the table), the facility would not give my dj a table to set up his equipment. The tables were not set up according to my contract. I wound up using explicitives towards the facility maintenance, My photographer was two hours late. The facility had not turned on the air conditioning so the cakes began to melt. On top of that, my family forgot my makeup and EVERYONE was calling my name every 15 seconds. Once the ceremony started, the dj had a problem with one of the songs that was supposed to be played. My husband''s step mother tried to change the way that everyone was going to walk in confusing everyone. She also, was on the stage trying to tell the dj what to play (that caused a delay.) My husband forgot to take the tags off of my ring before the ceremony. My dress became dirty because the facility forgot to sweep. Oh and I almost forgot, even after going for two fittings at the bridal store, the straps were not taken up as they were supposed to be so needless to say I almost had a Tara Reid/ Janet Jackson moment. Also, the buttons for my bustle broke when my mother was trying to bustle my gown.
Ever since the wedding ceremony, I have been upset. I feel like I have been cheated. My husband and my family says that I am being unreasonable and selfish and that the wedding was beautiful. I disagree. Am I being selfish and unreasonable for wanting a second chance at my dream wedding? Please give me your opinion.
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