Diamond Confused
Shiny_Rock
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- Jan 14, 2008
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We want to have a small wedding, 90 people tops - ideally 80.
I have pretty much cut out all unecessary people off my list bringing it down to about 45, with ten being out of the country so the likelyhood they'll come is pretty slim. My fiance on the other hand feels the need to invite all his high school friends who he sees maybe once a year at a christmas party but could really care less about. When I asked him about it he said "well when I see them we have fun" Well I have fun with a lot of people and I'm still not inviting them. I'm just frustrated. If he keeps up with this attitude we are going to end up with over 100.
I can't cut out any more without leaving out people I really care about and I don't think it's fair either. At this rate it will only be his friends and his family at the wedding.
What should I do???
I have pretty much cut out all unecessary people off my list bringing it down to about 45, with ten being out of the country so the likelyhood they'll come is pretty slim. My fiance on the other hand feels the need to invite all his high school friends who he sees maybe once a year at a christmas party but could really care less about. When I asked him about it he said "well when I see them we have fun" Well I have fun with a lot of people and I'm still not inviting them. I'm just frustrated. If he keeps up with this attitude we are going to end up with over 100.
I can't cut out any more without leaving out people I really care about and I don't think it's fair either. At this rate it will only be his friends and his family at the wedding.
What should I do???