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Really? I live in MA, so unless you live there it isn''t meDate: 11/12/2007 5:46:49 PM
Author: EBree
nebe, I just wanted to say that in your icon, at least, you could be the TWIN of a good friend of mine. My friend isn''t in a serious relationship (that I know of) so I doubt you''re her, but every time I see a post of yours I swear I''m looking at her.
How weird, huh? Maybe she''s your doppleganger!
Date: 11/12/2007 5:55:43 PM
Author: nebe
Date: 11/12/2007 5:46:49 PM
Author: EBree
nebe, I just wanted to say that in your icon, at least, you could be the TWIN of a good friend of mine. My friend isn''t in a serious relationship (that I know of) so I doubt you''re her, but every time I see a post of yours I swear I''m looking at her.
How weird, huh? Maybe she''s your doppleganger!
Really? I live in MA, so unless you live there it isn''t mePlus I tend to babble on about my home life a lot to the few I talk to on a regular basis. I look very much like my mother and sister as well, but my sister is much darker and my mother is white. I''m half West Indian (via Trinidad) so I have much darker features in daily life. What nationality is your friend?![]()
I agree here! I would mainly feel sorry that I have something that another person coverts. As much as I love showing off, I really hate others being jealous or sad that they dont have similar. I have guilt over things like that!!!Date: 11/12/2007 3:20:53 PM
Author: Cleopatra
I have to say that I''m in the ''don''t care camp'' - I don''t think it''s rude. Especially when i''m one of the only girls in my group of friends who is engaged. I know the fascination women have with sparklies - and if my ring can give them a thrill for a few minutes, why not?
Ha...I assure you I am far more brash and rude in PERSON.Date: 11/12/2007 5:20:38 PM
Author: MoonWater
Actually no. There are people behind these words and those people have feelings. I think that's the biggest problem with the internet. People tend to be much more brash and rude online because they think they are only words. Considering what this forum involves (engagement rings, weddings, pregnancies, babies) it's even more obvious that feelings, very STRONG feelings are involved. Everyone has a right to their opinion, and offline I am one of the biggest bitches around, but I do believe in being respectful unless someone says somethig that warrants a strong response (like being offensive to others). But that's just me.
Heh...This made me laugh TGal, as always, I enjoy your posts! My biggest pet peeve on forums is that people dont take the time to search for what they''re looking for and when they write "I haven''t read this entire thread yet but..." or "I apologize if this has already been discussed a lot before but...." I just want to yell, "Then please do a SEARCH first if you know it''s been discussed before and please, read the entire thread before you respond so your response is relevent...thanks." Phew. I feel so much better now!Date: 11/12/2007 4:44:00 PM
Author: TravelingGal
I do feel this topic has been discussed to death recently...but then so have lots of other things. Sometimes it strikes me as general excitement and ''showing off'' a bit...like, ''oh my god, look at me! People want to try on my awesome ring! Eek!'' But I know that''s more perception than intention.
I don''t think it''s rude to ask, and I don''t think it''s rude to say no. It''s kind of easy, really. But everyone''s comfort level is different.
Sometimes I wonder how some people make it to the bathroom without asking advice (this isn''t directed at you BriBree). There''s another thread on PS that I couldn''t even answer...I was kind of amazed because the answer to me is kind of obvious.
Date: 11/12/2007 8:47:09 PM
Author: TravelingGal
Date: 11/12/2007 5:20:38 PM
Author: MoonWater
Actually no. There are people behind these words and those people have feelings. I think that's the biggest problem with the internet. People tend to be much more brash and rude online because they think they are only words. Considering what this forum involves (engagement rings, weddings, pregnancies, babies) it's even more obvious that feelings, very STRONG feelings are involved. Everyone has a right to their opinion, and offline I am one of the biggest bitches around, but I do believe in being respectful unless someone says somethig that warrants a strong response (like being offensive to others). But that's just me.
Ha...I assure you I am far more brash and rude in PERSON.![]()
Actually, being an English major, I know the weight of the written word, so I actually tend to be more careful online. How scary is that?
On a side note, I know this is a question about 'show me the ring' but shouldn't this topic be elsewhere? I don't see no rings folks!![]()
ETA, and as far as 'b*tchiness lately'...er, uh no. A lot of the vocal folks have been around here forever. It seems that there's just been more SENSITIVITY lately with some of the newer folks. But this topic has ebbed and flowed over the last few years as well.
You crack me up... you are hysterical !!!Date: 11/12/2007 4:44:49 PM
Author: door knob solitaire
My mommie taught me you take it off...you can loose it. Following her instruction I was trusted to wear her valuables.
I have had many strangers ask me if they could try it on! ARE YOU KIDDING? I can hear the insurance man...Lemme get this straight, someone you have never met, asks to try on your jewelry...and then they ran away?
Once I was asked to be a model...(hand...nail guinea pig) at my SILs cosmetology class exam. When I walked in she asked me to wash my hands with this antibacterial soap...while in the sink she felt it necessary to coach me. (Argghhh) anyway the next request was for me to remove my rings. Solitaire and a plain thin band. I replied with a ''I''m sorry I don''t remove my jewelry.'' She said I had to that the teacher would take off on her grade. ''I really am sorry...but had you told me before coming I could have secured it at home, safely...but I will not remove it here in public.'' Teacher came around and SIL screamed she won''t take it off! It isn''t my fault. Again...I will not remove my jewelry no where no how no way.
My other SIL has the bad luck thing line when someone asks her.
Yes, I was often asked to try on my ring. I have only allowed my mother. After all, she deserves to be trusted. In the old quote...I trust in God, all others pay cash. Friend or Foe I say NO!!! Just say no, thank you.
DKS
I''d love to try it on Sharon!!!!Date: 11/12/2007 10:39:58 PM
Author: canuk-gal
HI:
No one ever asks to try on my ring, likely b/c it is a RADIANT![]()
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cheers--Sharon
HI:Date: 11/12/2007 10:41:44 PM
Author: Kaleigh
I''d love to try it on Sharon!!!!Date: 11/12/2007 10:39:58 PM
Author: canuk-gal
HI:
No one ever asks to try on my ring, likely b/c it is a RADIANT![]()
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Date: 11/12/2007 10:41:44 PM
Author: Kaleigh
I''d love to try it on Sharon!!!!Date: 11/12/2007 10:39:58 PM
Author: canuk-gal
HI:
No one ever asks to try on my ring, likely b/c it is a RADIANT![]()
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I know it wasn''t directed at me...I just took it upon myself to cut myself down a bit with it.Date: 11/12/2007 9:28:09 PM
Author: MoonWater
But see, the part you highlighted was a general statement and therefore wasn''t directed at you. I am by far a bigger bitch in person and on boards where it is tolerated, the same online. But whenever I see a thread topic that annoys the living crap out of me, instead of going off in the tone I know people will be hurt by, I simply shut up. I think it sucks that the OP felt the need to leave her own thread.
But whatevs, I have a tendency to prefer both your posts and deco''s posts. Its just here, I didn''t think the tone was warranted, that simple.
Date: 11/13/2007 1:13:03 AM
Author: Sophie
I''m actually flattered by it and I like to let my friends try it on. When I was a kid I always liked to try on grandma''s, mom''s, aunts......so for me, Sure no problem!
Date: 11/12/2007 3:15:46 PM
Author: decodelighted
Date: 11/12/2007 3:08:02 PM
Author:BriBee
Am I right to think this is RUDE?
Maybe it''s just me .. but I''m superat all the threads lately about what is ''rude'' or not. It''s SO POINTLESS to rag on other people''s behavior -- especially if its of the ''non-injurious'' kind. I mean -- whatEVER -- so you experienced an uncomfortable moment or two ... does ANYONE have to be at fault? Can it just be a difference of opinion? Can there be shades of GRAY in the world? Or does everyone need to feel all high & mighty/justified/''right'' all of the freakin time.![]()
And I don''t really mean this personally, Bribee ... this is the tenth (maybe) ''How Rude'' type thread in the past couple of weeks. I really just don''t understand all of the indignant righteousness ...![]()