MichaelF
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Jul 2, 2003
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- 70
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On 7/29/2003 12:12:45 PM Hest88 wrote:
No, I don't think of it as refusing information, I think of it as asking for an independent, uninfluenced second opinion.
Plus, in this case, didn't OP's appraiser say she wants the info to "save her a lot of research time"? Doesn't that imply that she's basically going to do a cursory check of the stone and, unless there's an egregious difference, parrot what the cert says? How is that independent?
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I can see the conundrum, LawGem, and I guess it boils down to the nature of the service provided and the impact the withheld information would have.----------------
On 7/29/2003 3:56:31 PM LawGem wrote:
If you were diagnosed with cancer and went for a second opinion, would you withhold the first diagnosis from the second doctor because you wanted an unbiased opinion? If someone came to me with a legal question, I would want all the facts including any work done by previous attorneys, and I would get annoyed if the client were holding things back.
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Indeed I do, and I have many times. But I think that aljdewey is right in that this may be an apples and oranges comparison. I don't know that I've ever run a legal conundrum past a colleague while withholding certain information to see what they say.----------------
On 7/29/2003 4:168 PM fire&ice wrote:
Actually Lawgem, I have a friend who is a Pathologist. He said he often bounces a slide to a fellow collegue to get his unbiased opinion. Then they consult.
In law, I bet you would run a case by another attorney for their view.
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Of course. Nice, umm, scooter.----------------
On 7/29/2003 6:19:56 PM Richard Sherwood wrote:
That's on a good day of course...
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Bob, are you by chance taking that cold medicine right now? Honestly, I cannot see why you are making this such a contentious issue.----------------
On 7/29/2003 5:372 PM dimonbob wrote:
Let me let you people in on a little secret...
I once was a GIA diamond grader at GTL in Santa Monica. I am also a highly qualified appraiser. Not long ago I worked for a diamond wholesaler. Before we sent the diamonds into GIA or AGS we would grade the diamonds. When they returned from the Lab we would check and see how close we were. Were we 100% correct...NO WAY. Was GIA or AGS right or were we? Who knows! Sometimes they would come back and we would disagree.
Who do you think is the better diamond grader? The labs, the wholesaler, or some "Independent Appraiser" that may grade only a few diamonds a week.
Did you know that taking a cold medicine will effect your color vision? Did you know that having a few too many drinks the night before will effect you color vision?
Yes, appraising is subjective but if you are the one that paid good money for your beautiful diamond and you are happy about your purchase and some Independant Appraiser who happens to be the only one within 20 miles of you calls your diamond one grade below what you thought your diamond was, HOW ARE YOU GOING TO FEEL? If you had given him the certificate, maybe you would save yourself some hurt feelings.
Richard... Are you 100% correct 100% of the time? I will admit the I am not!
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Garry, yes from your point of view, I can see where it makes sense to you. And I'd also say that it makes sense me as a consumer if the time/money you save in bypassing your valuers results in you charging me less for the appraisal, and even then ONLY if my goal was to get the least expensive appraisal.----------------
On 7/29/2003 970 PM Cut Nut wrote:
But when the cert is there then we will maybe not ask for 2 or 3 opinions between us if the first person who sees it agrees with the cert.
In our case we have 4 registered valuers as well as staff who buy diamonds and so they are really trusted graders. Why waste all those peoples time for the 1 in 10 stones where we disagree.
Does that make sense?
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That's fine, but I frankly believe it's a mistake to think you either know or can reasonably assume what someone else's motives are based on just one fact. That leads to dangerously narrow-minded generalizations.----------------
On 7/30/2003 11:55:11 AM DiehardSearcher wrote:
I personally look to someone's motives when deciding how to interpret their advice.
Bob now sells diamonds. He is no longer independant. He would rather have an appraiser validate the certificate that went along with the stone he just sold you. I do not know Bob, and so I do not know whether he is an honest representative. Based on the level of respect everyone shows him, I would assume that he is. But I would be wary about purchasing a diamond from someone who would rather have the cert matched, rather than feeling confident about his product.
I can't seem to grasp Garry's motive on this one. Maybe appraisals aren't integral to his business, and so he really does not care to be bothered. Seems perfectly reasonable to me.
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Bob now sells diamonds. He is no longer independant. He would rather have an appraiser validate the certificate that went along with the stone he just sold you.
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Garry, close but not spot-on.----------------
On 7/30/2003 3:31:20 PM Cut Nut wrote:
But if I can offer an opinion as to why many of you guys are.......(emotionally stirred up by the issue).
You want an appraiser to give you an opinion as to if you should buy this diamond.
You are unhappy with the existing labs.
You want a better lab service.
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I'd say anywhere from $6204 to $6464.----------------
On 7/30/2003 5:46:40 PM blackball wrote:
For any former/present/future appraisers, what would you 'sight unseen' appraise this stone at?
Call this the 'triple-blind,' lopsided internet appraisal competition, or a subjective end to an exhaustive online thread...
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