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ahhhhhhhh!!!!!!
not my weekend unfortunaltely. but actually this was not a surprise for me. someone asked me over the weekend what the day was and i told them, they then proceeded to say how there was only 2 days left until november 1. i then went on to say yea and that there were only 2 days left until halloween. my bf then joked to me about how that halloween wasnt what i was talking about. of course that time i actually was talking about halloween. so atleast i know that he is thinking about it. i am now left with less than two days until the end of october and still no ring. i figured that it wouldnt happen over the weekend which is fine. i also want to make sure i keep my mouth shut about the deadline thing until atleast thursday night or friday. i am thinking that if he doesnt ask by tomorrow night that he had to push it back until a day or two after. he might not have wanted to say anything because it wasnt that much of a difference. on the other hand he does know that the deadline means a lot to me and also him so he could be fooling me big time. he has been acting strangely normal lately which could be to throw me off. i just keep thinking, why would he propose on halloween? that is why i think that it will not happen by the time he had promised me.
i am relaxing and enjoying the suspense which is kind of killing me at the same time! i just know that he would tell me if he couldnt ask me by the end of the month which is why i wonder how he will pull off the surprise of proposing in the next two days. kind of obvious dont yah think? that is why i wonder why he would wait till the last minute. we still havent carved pumpkins and halloween is tomorrow. so i asked him about it last night. here is how the convo went:
ME: hey babe, when are we going to carve pumpkins? we have to do it either tomorrow or on halloween.
HIM: yeah i know
ME:well we have to figure it out because you can just bring them over when youcome over to my house. so which day is it going to be? we have put off figuring it out for a while now.
HIM: yea, well i have to figure out some stuff
ME: like what. all you have to do is decide what day you would rather carve pumpkins. not that hard of a decision.
HIM: well , i have to figure out what is going on with me and stuff.
ME: okay well let me know when you decide what is going on.
he was acting really defensive when i asked him how he couldnt give me an answer now and why he "had to get back to me to figure out what he has to do". he comes over all of the time so he would be coming over and that is why it was weird that he had to figure out what he was doing in order to get pumpkins to carve. so that sounds like he was planning something there. I guess that i will see if he comes over with pumpkins in hand. i will update yah tomorrow morning. pricescope needs a broadcast message that converts your voice into a message post so that you can update everyone the second something happens..or doesnt.
I am so edgy waiting to see when he will ask. if tonight or by tomorrow night like he had promised. i feel like i am in a soap opera..without the cheating and killing of course.
not my weekend unfortunaltely. but actually this was not a surprise for me. someone asked me over the weekend what the day was and i told them, they then proceeded to say how there was only 2 days left until november 1. i then went on to say yea and that there were only 2 days left until halloween. my bf then joked to me about how that halloween wasnt what i was talking about. of course that time i actually was talking about halloween. so atleast i know that he is thinking about it. i am now left with less than two days until the end of october and still no ring. i figured that it wouldnt happen over the weekend which is fine. i also want to make sure i keep my mouth shut about the deadline thing until atleast thursday night or friday. i am thinking that if he doesnt ask by tomorrow night that he had to push it back until a day or two after. he might not have wanted to say anything because it wasnt that much of a difference. on the other hand he does know that the deadline means a lot to me and also him so he could be fooling me big time. he has been acting strangely normal lately which could be to throw me off. i just keep thinking, why would he propose on halloween? that is why i think that it will not happen by the time he had promised me.
i am relaxing and enjoying the suspense which is kind of killing me at the same time! i just know that he would tell me if he couldnt ask me by the end of the month which is why i wonder how he will pull off the surprise of proposing in the next two days. kind of obvious dont yah think? that is why i wonder why he would wait till the last minute. we still havent carved pumpkins and halloween is tomorrow. so i asked him about it last night. here is how the convo went:
ME: hey babe, when are we going to carve pumpkins? we have to do it either tomorrow or on halloween.
HIM: yeah i know
ME:well we have to figure it out because you can just bring them over when youcome over to my house. so which day is it going to be? we have put off figuring it out for a while now.
HIM: yea, well i have to figure out some stuff
ME: like what. all you have to do is decide what day you would rather carve pumpkins. not that hard of a decision.
HIM: well , i have to figure out what is going on with me and stuff.
ME: okay well let me know when you decide what is going on.
he was acting really defensive when i asked him how he couldnt give me an answer now and why he "had to get back to me to figure out what he has to do". he comes over all of the time so he would be coming over and that is why it was weird that he had to figure out what he was doing in order to get pumpkins to carve. so that sounds like he was planning something there. I guess that i will see if he comes over with pumpkins in hand. i will update yah tomorrow morning. pricescope needs a broadcast message that converts your voice into a message post so that you can update everyone the second something happens..or doesnt.
I am so edgy waiting to see when he will ask. if tonight or by tomorrow night like he had promised. i feel like i am in a soap opera..without the cheating and killing of course.
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HAHAHA!!! Hang in there and good luck!Date: 10/30/2007 9:24:42 AM
Author: diamondsgirl22
ahhhhhhhh!!!!!!
not my weekend unfortunaltely. but actually this was not a surprise for me. someone asked me over the weekend what the day was and i told them, they then proceeded to say how there was only 2 days left until november 1. i then went on to say yea and that there were only 2 days left until halloween. my bf then joked to me about how that halloween wasnt what i was talking about. of course that time i actually was talking about halloween. so atleast i know that he is thinking about it. i am now left with less than two days until the end of october and still no ring. i figured that it wouldnt happen over the weekend which is fine. i also want to make sure i keep my mouth shut about the deadline thing until atleast thursday night or friday. i am thinking that if he doesnt ask by tomorrow night that he had to push it back until a day or two after. he might not have wanted to say anything because it wasnt that much of a difference. on the other hand he does know that the deadline means a lot to me and also him so he could be fooling me big time. he has been acting strangely normal lately which could be to throw me off. i just keep thinking, why would he propose on halloween? that is why i think that it will not happen by the time he had promised me.
i am relaxing and enjoying the suspense which is kind of killing me at the same time! i just know that he would tell me if he couldnt ask me by the end of the month which is why i wonder how he will pull off the surprise of proposing in the next two days. kind of obvious dont yah think? that is why i wonder why he would wait till the last minute. we still havent carved pumpkins and halloween is tomorrow. so i asked him about it last night. here is how the convo went:
ME: hey babe, when are we going to carve pumpkins? we have to do it either tomorrow or on halloween.
HIM: yeah i know
ME:well we have to figure it out because you can just bring them over when youcome over to my house. so which day is it going to be? we have put off figuring it out for a while now.
HIM: yea, well i have to figure out some stuff
ME: like what. all you have to do is decide what day you would rather carve pumpkins. not that hard of a decision.
HIM: well , i have to figure out what is going on with me and stuff.
ME: okay well let me know when you decide what is going on.
he was acting really defensive when i asked him how he couldnt give me an answer now and why he ''had to get back to me to figure out what he has to do''. he comes over all of the time so he would be coming over and that is why it was weird that he had to figure out what he was doing in order to get pumpkins to carve. so that sounds like he was planning something there. I guess that i will see if he comes over with pumpkins in hand. i will update yah tomorrow morning. pricescope needs a broadcast message that converts your voice into a message post so that you can update everyone the second something happens..or doesnt.
I am so edgy waiting to see when he will ask. if tonight or by tomorrow night like he had promised. i feel like i am in a soap opera..without the cheating and killing of course.
Keepingthefaith21
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Ohhh maybe he is planning a pumpkin surprise
Personally I think it would be fantastic to be proposed to on Halloween. Of course, I am biased as Halloween is my favorite holiday! I think it would be really neat to start scooping out the pumpkin gunk and find a ring box in there (or even the ring if you have an ultrasonic cleaner avalible
).
Anywho...I''ll stay tuned to hear your updates over the next 48 hours!
Personally I think it would be fantastic to be proposed to on Halloween. Of course, I am biased as Halloween is my favorite holiday! I think it would be really neat to start scooping out the pumpkin gunk and find a ring box in there (or even the ring if you have an ultrasonic cleaner avalible
Anywho...I''ll stay tuned to hear your updates over the next 48 hours!
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you ladies are so funny!!! I am glad that you are following my story moonwater. it makes the wait a little bit easier to know that i have an audience.
i just talked to the bf and i asked him if we were going to carve pumpkins tonight or not and he gave me the i dont know we''ll see. and then i asked him about 3 different questions and he never gave me a straight answer for any of them! I called him out and he said that wasnt true. kind of weird. i asked about if we were going anywhere tonight like to a friends house or if we planned on staying in, and a few other questions and i got i dont know for an answer. i just hate guys when they dont give a yes or no answer. and to top it off i had to take out my navel peircing because it started to migrate out of my skin.
i just hope it heals back to normal and i dont have a scar. atleast it didnt rip out of my skin and luckily i git it out just in time. that was off topic but that is one of the only other things that i can think about besides these last days.
i just really hope that he does it because i do not even know how i will feel if it is november 1st and he hasnt asked yet. i would need to talk to him but i dont even know where to begin. you would think that he would want to tell me if he was still doing it or not since we both agreed on the end of october deadline. d oesnt that make him look like a liar?dont you think that he would want to tell me why he hasnt asked? i mean i wouldnt be looking for an exact reason but he should have a good one because he did promise me that he would ask. maybe he will surprise me big time in the next 2 days but i cant help but have to think about how i will feel if he doesnt. he does keep this stuff from me so he could have gotten the ring and told my dad and thought of a way to ask without me even knowing which is why i have faith. i guess since he told me it would happen i am just having to try to make it feel real. i dont believe it because i have been waiting for so long and now i know that from what he has promised, it will happen in the next couple of days.
I guess that i will see what happens and if he hasnt asked i will have to think of what to even say to him. i dont want to be a jerk, i just simply want to know why he said and promised and assured me all of those times that it would happen by november and why it hasnt. am i being fair or what? maybe i shouldnt say anything, but that wouldnt be fair to me now would it?
I am just getting so frustrated and since it is closer to happening i am like a cat stalking a rabbit.
i need a drink..or 5 bad!!
So i will see if tonight is the night if it isnt there is always tomorrow, and if that day isnt it, then i guess that the next day will be the day that i can reassess how i feel. i am beginning to feel calmer. i am sure that i dont sound like it but just trying to deal with everything. but i do have to say that i feel so much more relaxed since he told me by when. i have been getting so many manicures lately so i watch how they do it and i have just given myself one and it looks pretty good.
Pumkin knives??!! I really dont want to hurt it, my luck i would cut open the pumpkin and go over to the garbage can and scoop out the insides, only to dump the ring in the garbage.lol.
See what happens tomorrow on "DIAMONDSGIRL22 JOURNEY TO THE RING"
i just talked to the bf and i asked him if we were going to carve pumpkins tonight or not and he gave me the i dont know we''ll see. and then i asked him about 3 different questions and he never gave me a straight answer for any of them! I called him out and he said that wasnt true. kind of weird. i asked about if we were going anywhere tonight like to a friends house or if we planned on staying in, and a few other questions and i got i dont know for an answer. i just hate guys when they dont give a yes or no answer. and to top it off i had to take out my navel peircing because it started to migrate out of my skin.
i just really hope that he does it because i do not even know how i will feel if it is november 1st and he hasnt asked yet. i would need to talk to him but i dont even know where to begin. you would think that he would want to tell me if he was still doing it or not since we both agreed on the end of october deadline. d oesnt that make him look like a liar?dont you think that he would want to tell me why he hasnt asked? i mean i wouldnt be looking for an exact reason but he should have a good one because he did promise me that he would ask. maybe he will surprise me big time in the next 2 days but i cant help but have to think about how i will feel if he doesnt. he does keep this stuff from me so he could have gotten the ring and told my dad and thought of a way to ask without me even knowing which is why i have faith. i guess since he told me it would happen i am just having to try to make it feel real. i dont believe it because i have been waiting for so long and now i know that from what he has promised, it will happen in the next couple of days.
I guess that i will see what happens and if he hasnt asked i will have to think of what to even say to him. i dont want to be a jerk, i just simply want to know why he said and promised and assured me all of those times that it would happen by november and why it hasnt. am i being fair or what? maybe i shouldnt say anything, but that wouldnt be fair to me now would it?
So i will see if tonight is the night if it isnt there is always tomorrow, and if that day isnt it, then i guess that the next day will be the day that i can reassess how i feel. i am beginning to feel calmer. i am sure that i dont sound like it but just trying to deal with everything. but i do have to say that i feel so much more relaxed since he told me by when. i have been getting so many manicures lately so i watch how they do it and i have just given myself one and it looks pretty good.
Pumkin knives??!! I really dont want to hurt it, my luck i would cut open the pumpkin and go over to the garbage can and scoop out the insides, only to dump the ring in the garbage.lol.
See what happens tomorrow on "DIAMONDSGIRL22 JOURNEY TO THE RING"
Smurfysmiles
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Are you guys handing out candy to little kids? Maybe he will hide it in the bottom of the candy bowl...just make sure you don''t give it to some little 6 year old lol (although I''m sure it would make HIS halloween haha) that''s what i would do with him because of all the family stuff going on and you guys would be becoming a family by getting married if that makes any sense
lotsa luck!
lotsa luck!
diamondsgirl22
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no we are not handing out any candy unfortunately. i am beginning to think that he is going to break his promise of asking by november. i just keep asking myself, why would he want to propose when i know that this is the day that he would do it, and i would be expecting it.? it makes me sick to think about it. i felt this way yesterday but then i got some hope.
Last night, we were laying on my couch watching tv and he turned to me. He smiled at me for a few seconds like a smile that says, i cant wait because i know something that you dont know about. THAT kind of smile. and he proceeded to say that he loved me and called me my nickname and then kissed me on the forehead and told me he loved me and then pulled me closer to him and hugged me. he did this for about 20 or so minutes. just kept smiling at me in that way, etc. he usually never does that. just smiles at me and tells me that he loves me. i know, i could tell that there was something going on. so if that means anything than i guess i atleast have somehope. i asked him what after he smiled at me and he said nothing and just told me that he loved me and did the above actions. hmm. dont some bfs that are about to propose get extra cuddly and mushy and stuff? well, i guess that i will see what happens. i am kind of excited to see if he is going to be a jerk or what.
i will be so upset though if he doesnt. i dont know what i will do. that is like standing someone up yah know? well, i asked him about carving pumpkins yesterday again and he said i dunno. and i was like well, if we arent going to do them today then we will have to do them tomorrow and he acted like he didnt care and told me that, yeah, we would have to. so i am not going to mention anything to him today about carving them. when i call him i am not going to ask him to buy them and bring them over or anything. maybe then he will realize that i really dont care anymore. it all makes me really sad. it makes it seem like he doesnt care if i feel bad that he doesnt ask me. he said last night "oh, yeah, halloween is tomorrow" i mean COME ON!!!!!
, maybe that is the plan, that i am supposed to think that he forgot about it and think that he doesnt care that he promised me. but if so he should win an emmy for it!!!!!
i guess that i will see. I really dont want to be disappointed tonight. do you think that i should confront him about it later tonight before he leaves if it doesnt happen or should i wait, and how long? i want him to know that he really hurt me by not keeping his promise or atleast telling me that he cant promise me the end of the month anymore, yah know?? instead he just goes on with life like he thinks that it wouldnt bother me? maybe he will, maybe ihe is just fooling me, but why would he do it when i know that this is the last day that he has to ask.??
i just need some insight other than my own. I also need to wait until i see what happens tonight to start feeling bad about his whole thing so i will see what happens but any last thoughts before i take my journey into the great abbiss??
Last night, we were laying on my couch watching tv and he turned to me. He smiled at me for a few seconds like a smile that says, i cant wait because i know something that you dont know about. THAT kind of smile. and he proceeded to say that he loved me and called me my nickname and then kissed me on the forehead and told me he loved me and then pulled me closer to him and hugged me. he did this for about 20 or so minutes. just kept smiling at me in that way, etc. he usually never does that. just smiles at me and tells me that he loves me. i know, i could tell that there was something going on. so if that means anything than i guess i atleast have somehope. i asked him what after he smiled at me and he said nothing and just told me that he loved me and did the above actions. hmm. dont some bfs that are about to propose get extra cuddly and mushy and stuff? well, i guess that i will see what happens. i am kind of excited to see if he is going to be a jerk or what.
i will be so upset though if he doesnt. i dont know what i will do. that is like standing someone up yah know? well, i asked him about carving pumpkins yesterday again and he said i dunno. and i was like well, if we arent going to do them today then we will have to do them tomorrow and he acted like he didnt care and told me that, yeah, we would have to. so i am not going to mention anything to him today about carving them. when i call him i am not going to ask him to buy them and bring them over or anything. maybe then he will realize that i really dont care anymore. it all makes me really sad. it makes it seem like he doesnt care if i feel bad that he doesnt ask me. he said last night "oh, yeah, halloween is tomorrow" i mean COME ON!!!!!
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^ Just wait and see what happens (LOL, I''m learning how to do this myself!). Don''t confront him tonight if you get the feeling that it might not happen. I know you''re anxious, but he just might have something up his sleeve and wants to totally surprise you. It seems as if he is acting nonchalant about the whole thing. Maybe he''s trying to throw you off. Relax, try to stay calm
And keep us posted, of course!
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i will try to relax and see what happens. if he is tricking me he is doing an excellent job of it. so i should not confront him at all? even if it is the end of the night and nothing happened?
I just feel like if i dont confront him after he hasnt done it that that will be letting him get off the hook altogether and it will drive me even more crazy!
He is acting very nonchalant about it overall. like it is no big deal that it is the last day of the deadline he gave me. kind of cute.
but at the same time how big of a jerk will he be considered if he seriously didnt plan it for today and just let it slide hoping that i would be okay with it?
We will see! today feels like it will be forever long. still at work and here until 5.ugh. well, i will be talking to him in the afternoon so i will relay the info to you ladies if he acts any more weirdly. i just wish that sometimes he would slip up and say something that he shouldnt have said. i am sure that there are lots of guys out there that dont know how to keep a secret, why cant he be one of them?
I just feel like if i dont confront him after he hasnt done it that that will be letting him get off the hook altogether and it will drive me even more crazy!
but at the same time how big of a jerk will he be considered if he seriously didnt plan it for today and just let it slide hoping that i would be okay with it?
We will see! today feels like it will be forever long. still at work and here until 5.ugh. well, i will be talking to him in the afternoon so i will relay the info to you ladies if he acts any more weirdly. i just wish that sometimes he would slip up and say something that he shouldnt have said. i am sure that there are lots of guys out there that dont know how to keep a secret, why cant he be one of them?
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LOL I totally agree with guys being able to keep secrets. My BF is silent as a tomb when someone tells him a secret.Date: 10/31/2007 9:17:24 AM
Author: diamondsgirl22
i will try to relax and see what happens. if he is tricking me he is doing an excellent job of it. so i should not confront him at all? even if it is the end of the night and nothing happened?
I just feel like if i dont confront him after he hasnt done it that that will be letting him get off the hook altogether and it will drive me even more crazy!He is acting very nonchalant about it overall. like it is no big deal that it is the last day of the deadline he gave me. kind of cute.
but at the same time how big of a jerk will he be considered if he seriously didnt plan it for today and just let it slide hoping that i would be okay with it?
We will see! today feels like it will be forever long. still at work and here until 5.ugh. well, i will be talking to him in the afternoon so i will relay the info to you ladies if he acts any more weirdly. i just wish that sometimes he would slip up and say something that he shouldnt have said. i am sure that there are lots of guys out there that dont know how to keep a secret, why cant he be one of them?
Hang in there!
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