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Shiny_Rock
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and without a ring.
He told me pretty much as soon as we got on the plane that depending on how the trip went, there was a good chance we''d be getting engaged in February. He has a ring but still has a few fears about getting married that he wants to work through and he wanted to see that we could have a good time on a trip together (even though this is our fifth trip together so I didn''t really understand that part).
I was bummed on the flight over but by day two I''d bounced back and was happy and excited to be in paradise with him. We had an awesome time!! During our trip he asked me a couple of important questions...would I be willing to move to another city an hour away in the same state and here''s the real shocker...would I be willing to start working on a family after we get engaged even if it is before we get married. This was a shocker because we broke up back in March last year for a month because he was thinking he didn''t want kids for at least 10 years (and I will be 32 this year). He told me his timeline has changed since last March now that his dad is sick which has put things into perspective for him. So now he is wanting to start a family with me in the next year or so which has me very excited. He also talked about wanting for us to have our wedding in Kauai so everytime we did something fun or went to a nice restuarant, he''d ask, "Do you think your parents would enjoy this? What about your brother?" Then we we landed in Denver and were waiting for his mom to come pick us up at the airport we saw a Land Rover drive by and he said, "What do you think about that car? I''ve been thinking that when we get married, we will get one for you. I''m not comfortable with you driving your car in the snow especially once we have a kid".
So, despite not getting engaged in Hawaii, things are looking very optimisitic for a proposal very soon.
while we were in Hawaii, he bought me a gold sand dollar necklace that has 12 small diamonds in it. He joked that it has a diamond for every month and therefor he''d just bought another YEAR of time for a proposal. I responded to that with a huge smack on his butt and a pretend dirty look and he said, "I''m just teasing honey." So it all looks very good and hopefully he can work through whatever his issues are about getting married because I''m even more excited and impatient than I was before!
He told me pretty much as soon as we got on the plane that depending on how the trip went, there was a good chance we''d be getting engaged in February. He has a ring but still has a few fears about getting married that he wants to work through and he wanted to see that we could have a good time on a trip together (even though this is our fifth trip together so I didn''t really understand that part).
I was bummed on the flight over but by day two I''d bounced back and was happy and excited to be in paradise with him. We had an awesome time!! During our trip he asked me a couple of important questions...would I be willing to move to another city an hour away in the same state and here''s the real shocker...would I be willing to start working on a family after we get engaged even if it is before we get married. This was a shocker because we broke up back in March last year for a month because he was thinking he didn''t want kids for at least 10 years (and I will be 32 this year). He told me his timeline has changed since last March now that his dad is sick which has put things into perspective for him. So now he is wanting to start a family with me in the next year or so which has me very excited. He also talked about wanting for us to have our wedding in Kauai so everytime we did something fun or went to a nice restuarant, he''d ask, "Do you think your parents would enjoy this? What about your brother?" Then we we landed in Denver and were waiting for his mom to come pick us up at the airport we saw a Land Rover drive by and he said, "What do you think about that car? I''ve been thinking that when we get married, we will get one for you. I''m not comfortable with you driving your car in the snow especially once we have a kid".
So, despite not getting engaged in Hawaii, things are looking very optimisitic for a proposal very soon.