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Feeling comfortable with your jewelry is really just a state of mind IMHO. I wouldn't let other people's state of mind influence you on what you should wear. It's beautiful. Too much for me, but then again I sometimes wear a lot of pearls which might be too much for you. And let's not forget- the necklace is gorgeous.
Gorgeous necklace. I will echo what @elizat said in that I would not wear this daily (wish I had the lifestyle/teacher).
But that said, jewelry, and all accessories, are a personal preference. You can definitely rock it! Me? Not so much
Laughing out loud that the vote is tied up right now, and 37 people say you can!! So I’d say it’s a yes! You can
Omgoodness. I literally swooned at the choker length!!!!! That is a resounding yes!!!!
As others have said, it depends on your lifestyle! It would be a very special occasion piece for me (like semi-formal+). For daily wear, I had a custom 17" platinum diamonds-by-the-yard necklace made by WF with 15 point stones. I can wear it with anything, plus I have a simple diamond pendants. I rarely have the occasion to wear a diamond necklace like that one. But if you dress up for work and blingy jewelry fits in that situation, or perhaps you have a lot of semi-formal social events, then I can see why you might be able to wear it more than I would.
Is it your ring that is on consignment with Grace now? I feel like I have read a discussion about that but I might have you confused with someone else. Why are you selling your ring?
I don't think it's too blingy for daily wear. I would totally wear it with my jeans and converse as equally as I would wear it for an important event. However, I wear my bling to the barn daily so I could be the wrong person to ask. Lol. It is beautiful! Enjoy it!
I wear jean shorts and no sleeves almost every day
if i owned your DDG new diamond necklase I'd wear it every day and every where - if i didn't have hard water I'd wear it in the shower ! In the bath, cleaning the loo, emptying the kitty litter tray, pulling weeds in the garden, taking out the trash....
it will glam up the mundane and quite frankly the world needs it right now !
Make it your signature !
Rock those rocks !
You’re right that lifestyle plays a key role in the decision here. I do dress up for work and also go to some fancy events - but my goal was to get something I could wear daily, especially for the investment. I would say that my ring would be the most important “bling” spot, and I do worry that it will be too much with the necklace AND a large ring.
On that subject, yes that’s my ring with Grace! That’s something else I’m extremely torn about, even more so. I truly think the ring is the most gorgeous, stunning ring ever. My question really comes down to whether I’m a step cut person or a brilliant cut person. I never expected to own a step cut, but I fell in love with this antique asscher as well as the setting. Then I started questioning if a brilliant cut stone was more my vibe.
We’ll see what happens...leaving everyone with lots of cliff hangers over here
You’re right that lifestyle plays a key role in the decision here. I do dress up for work and also go to some fancy events - but my goal was to get something I could wear daily, especially for the investment. I would say that my ring would be the most important “bling” spot, and I do worry that it will be too much with the necklace AND a large ring.
On that subject, yes that’s my ring with Grace! That’s something else I’m extremely torn about, even more so. I truly think the ring is the most gorgeous, stunning ring ever. My question really comes down to whether I’m a step cut person or a brilliant cut person. I never expected to own a step cut, but I fell in love with this antique asscher as well as the setting. Then I started questioning if a brilliant cut stone was more my vibe.
We’ll see what happens...leaving everyone with lots of cliff hangers over here
You’re right that lifestyle plays a key role in the decision here. I do dress up for work and also go to some fancy events - but my goal was to get something I could wear daily, especially for the investment. I would say that my ring would be the most important “bling” spot, and I do worry that it will be too much with the necklace AND a large ring.
On that subject, yes that’s my ring with Grace! That’s something else I’m extremely torn about, even more so. I truly think the ring is the most gorgeous, stunning ring ever. My question really comes down to whether I’m a step cut person or a brilliant cut person. I never expected to own a step cut, but I fell in love with this antique asscher as well as the setting. Then I started questioning if a brilliant cut stone was more my vibe.
We’ll see what happens...leaving everyone with lots of cliff hangers over here
The necklace is beautiful!!
But... Okay, I’ll be totally honest, and this is just my personal opinion... It’s a generic design. Your ring, on the other hand, has a ton of personality. I get the “am I step cut person” question. You have to love your bling. Everyone else’s opinions can go pound sand.
I’ll ditto @LLJsmom and @diamondseeker2006 - I would sort the most important bling out first. Sounds like that’s the ring! Then you can build your collection to best suit your tastes and habits with that specific ring in mind
I think the necklace is stunning and you wear it really well! If it makes your heart sing, please keep it. You have to celebrate important birthdays.
Only you know this - I’d be mindful about my physical security while wearing this necklace. There is so much crime going on. I’m just saying this as a person who noticed two 20-something men following me in a mall (I overheard them refer to my jewelry). Every hair on my arm was standing up. I managed to elude them, but now i am much more careful.
Trust me, I know the feeling. I ended up with a round and an antique asscher, but granted, they are not both 4 cts, either. It is hard to narrow it down to just one. I am sure I have told you that I absolutely LOVE your ring and I hope you keep it! Just get a round for a different anniversary!
As far as the necklace goes, for daily wear, I think a single row riviere necklace is far more wearable and classic. I think it could be worn with more casual things as well as with more dressy work clothes and for social events.
I’m glad you brought this up. My husband said the same thing. For some reason I’m not as paranoid with my ring. Perhaps because I can hide that easier when needed. I’m a small person and this is absolutely something to consider...Thank you!