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Can you imagine this proposal?!

The proposal was really cool, but getting married five minutes after getting engaged in a frumpy gown that didn't fit and to music by that girlfriend beater, Chris Brown, would have made me so PO'd!! :lol:

Also not sure if that wedding is legit (legally). I am not sure how marriage licenses work in California, but in my state I am pretty sure you have to go to the courthouse beforehand and obtain the license together and swear in front of witnesses that you can legally be married.
 
definitely real: http://www.reelseo.com/fox-kill-flash-mob-reality-show/...haha I would have freaked out too - that dress was HORRIBLE! And I have very particular things I want for my wedding (and want to get married in a church!). But there was a good chance it was all for show and they had to really get married later. At least, we can hope. The gesture was cute, but if my boyfriend did something to make me cry because I think he's cheating on me right before he proposes, in addition to having to get married in a sack, I'm not sure how I would feel about that...
 
Yeah what the heck was up with the "other woman" part of the proposal?! It would have made me want to say "no"!
 
It's a fun to watch proposal (for most people), but, for me, it would be a terrible one. I don't like proposals where one of the partners is tricked, or "gets one over" (in a bad way, not like "I'm trying to surprise you" about the proposal, but getting someone to act like you are cheating on them right before you propose?!) on the other. I don't think that's a good way to make a life-long commitment, and if my boyfriend were to propose like that, it would seriously make me wonder about what he thinks about me and our relationship.

On the other hand, my boyfriend knows that cheating is a deal-breaker for me, so he probably wouldn't be able to propose in that situation, especially if he deserted me 20 seconds after some chick did that, instead of explaining clearly and concisely what the hell is going on.

I saw this posted on facebook by someone as the perfect proposal, and I clicked on it again just now, and both times I've only been able to watch about 20 seconds before I have to turn it off. A situation in which I am blubbering and worried that my boyfriend is cheating on me, is not one that I would want spread around on youtube or have to remember as my proposal and/or wedding. Is it from a reality show? I would never voluntarily go on one, so it's probably just an essential part of my personality, that I don't like being made a spectacle.

I'm sorry to be so blunt, I know, "tell me what you really think?!"

I'm very big on a relationship where both people trust and respect each other, even when we joke around. That proposal did not seem to be one that shows respect, or encourages trust. But that's just my (overly strong, probably) opinion.

I didn't post anything about it on facebook because I didn't want to be rude, but since it came up in a spot where we actually do discuss that sort of thing...
 
I think it was fun to watch and see the flash mob doing its thing (I love watching flash mob videos), but if DBF did that to me... I would not be happy. The whole cheating aspect, even if it was a joke, would be a huge problem for me. And while I wouldn't mind a public proposal (restaurant, with family, etc), something that big and elaborate would make me super uncomfortable. :oops: I hate being in the dark about stuff and if everyone around me knew something like that was going to happen and I didn't, I would feel like a complete fool. Not romantic. At least for me. Obviously that woman liked that kind of proposal because once she figured it out, she seemed happy enough. :) Lol
 
I've seen this proposal before. It's sweet but I would never want this for myself either. She's goes through a roller coaster of emotions. Especially in the beginning making her feel completely vulnerable before he proposes. It still would of been great if it ended after she said yes, instead of going through with the wedding . Although, even if I wouldnt want it for myself, if she's happy with it, then good for her :)
 
gem_anemone|1324566024|3086748 said:
The proposal was really cool, but getting married five minutes after getting engaged in a frumpy gown that didn't fit and to music by that girlfriend beater, Chris Brown, would have made me so PO'd!! :lol:

Also not sure if that wedding is legit (legally). I am not sure how marriage licenses work in California, but in my state I am pretty sure you have to go to the courthouse beforehand and obtain the license together and swear in front of witnesses that you can legally be married.
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Oh I completely agree , I would NOT want to get married right after. I hate Chris Brown, Im disappointed he gets played at all, and if I ever know its him I will leave a store or turn off the radio. He doesn't deserve to be successful.
The proposal was spectacular but I would want time for everything to sink in before getting married. The dress was awful... the should have given her options of what she wanted to wear for a dress.. and he walked her down the aisle instead of someone else.. seems way too rushed in my opinion... It was super strange that they brought that girl in the gold dress on stage when they were talking about their marriage... such a mood kill!
 
chloeishere|1324594726|3087045 said:
It's a fun to watch proposal (for most people), but, for me, it would be a terrible one. I don't like proposals where one of the partners is tricked, or "gets one over" (in a bad way, not like "I'm trying to surprise you" about the proposal, but getting someone to act like you are cheating on them right before you propose?!) on the other. I don't think that's a good way to make a life-long commitment, and if my boyfriend were to propose like that, it would seriously make me wonder about what he thinks about me and our relationship.

On the other hand, my boyfriend knows that cheating is a deal-breaker for me, so he probably wouldn't be able to propose in that situation, especially if he deserted me 20 seconds after some chick did that, instead of explaining clearly and concisely what the hell is going on.

I saw this posted on facebook by someone as the perfect proposal, and I clicked on it again just now, and both times I've only been able to watch about 20 seconds before I have to turn it off. A situation in which I am blubbering and worried that my boyfriend is cheating on me, is not one that I would want spread around on youtube or have to remember as my proposal and/or wedding. Is it from a reality show? I would never voluntarily go on one, so it's probably just an essential part of my personality, that I don't like being made a spectacle.

I'm sorry to be so blunt, I know, "tell me what you really think?!"

I'm very big on a relationship where both people trust and respect each other, even when we joke around. That proposal did not seem to be one that shows respect, or encourages trust. But that's just my (overly strong, probably) opinion.

I didn't post anything about it on facebook because I didn't want to be rude, but since it came up in a spot where we actually do discuss that sort of thing...
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I definitely would not call it perfect, not even close. The start was VERY awkward besides that it seems like something you would see in the movies or fairytales where they propose and get married an instant later... lol. I completely agree with you about the whole cheating bit, I would be so unimpressed, they should have just spilled wine on him and said they had a clean shirt for him to wear, or that he had to go to the washroom and that he would be right back. I would have been crying like she was! It was poor taste how they opened the proposal...
 
Sorry...lol...I would be SO MAD if I was proposed to in that way. I would be so incredibly embarrassed because I am a shy person. Not my idea of a "fairytale" at all! But I could see how others would love it :)
 
I liked watching it but its not my style... lol

First of all the beginning was heart wrenching :nono: . I wouldn't have been so composed, or kind for that matter.
The rest reminded me of a mix between an adult version of high school musical and the disneyland parade. But kudos because that was one hell of a flash mob! :appl:

I think he should have just left it at the proposal. To do the wedding like that... well again isn't really my idea of a dream engagement or wedding. But to each their own.
 
It's cute, but if my guy did that to me I would pretty much die of embarrassment! I got embarrassed and felt like everyone was looking at me when FI proposed, bit in actuality there was only a small handful of people who saw! I can't imagine hundreds of people watching me blubber!

And I agree with everyone--that dress is absolutely tragic!!! Poor girl! She is very pretty, but that dress is just about the most unflattering thing I have ever seen!!!
 
Having a public proposal is a matter of taste, I guess, but proposing with a microphone so the crowds can hear you is a bit too much. However, the trouble at the beginning and making her cry was completely uncalled for.

Personally, I would hate all of it. Why have a huge wedding that is filled with strangers hired for a performance? And at least 5 minutes of privacy so I could put on a wedding dress right, instead of over another dress.

By the way - is it just me or is one the bridesmaid's dress unzipped?
 
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