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I do think you may be over-analysing the stone (especially when you're only viewing it in poor lighting) - poor gem!!!! There is no right or wrong about extinction. Some can tolerate a little, others can't tolerate it at all. From your posts I think you may be in the latter camp. If so, then send this one back BUT be warned, trying to find a round blue sapphire of the dimensions and colour you want PLUS no extinction is going to take a while.
Having said that, if it was the gem for you then I'm not sure you would be over-analysing. If I get an "OMG" moment when I open the package and that never goes away, it's a keeper! I have done this even with gems that have "issues"
For example I have a blue round sapphire that has "issues" but I wouldn't part with it for anything - it's my baby!
On the other hand, there are gems that are slow-burners. I'll open the package and go "mmmm ok" but over a few days I find I can't send it back.
The acid test is if I package it up to send back and then start hesitating!
Having said that, if it was the gem for you then I'm not sure you would be over-analysing. If I get an "OMG" moment when I open the package and that never goes away, it's a keeper! I have done this even with gems that have "issues"

On the other hand, there are gems that are slow-burners. I'll open the package and go "mmmm ok" but over a few days I find I can't send it back.
The acid test is if I package it up to send back and then start hesitating!